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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:42 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just watching the coverage out of Oklahoma City and worrying about the folks in harm's way both yesterday and today as all this wild weather has been pummeling the plains.

Kids being pulled from the rubble of a school right now in the OKC area. Reports the tornado that hit there was up to 2 miles wide?!?

(((((everyone in the path)))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25530 | Registered: Aug 2011
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying it's not too bad.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24547 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
kernel
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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I heard one report that two schools had been leveled. Praying for all.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5191 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It looks like horrible damage. Hoping the best for everyone.


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
TrustNoOne
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

God bless them...this isn't good.


Posts: 1325 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: SoCal
NotDefeatedYet
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I saw the footage. That was an incredible amount of damage.


"It's a fool that looks for logic in the chambers of the human heart."

Posts: 769 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Texas
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very scary images being shown on the news.

Praying for all of our members in OK.

I have heard from Heartless Bytchh who is in that area. She is ok and is unaffected thus far.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7819 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Six fatalities confirmed so far. By the looks of things, I imagine that number will be climbing.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25530 | Registered: Aug 2011
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The activity at the elementary school has gone from a search and rescue to a search and recovery operation.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7819 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Tred
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Been watching the coverage on the Weather Channel most of the evening - it's horrible how much damage there is. My heart goes out to those people in Moore.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3963 | Registered: Dec 2011
KBeguile
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Heart and I moved to the St. Louis area from OKC not too long ago, and we're both alternately in tears at the knowledge of what's been happening. It's bad enough to know that we have friends who have damaged/lost houses, but those poor children...


Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
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"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

Posts: 801 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The day isn't over yet. So much crazy still on the radar. If you're in the path, PLEASE stay alert and heed the warnings. I know we will be. Our storm shelter is in the basement, stocked with flashlights, blankets, rain gear, and a battery operated weather radio.

Stay. Safe.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25530 | Registered: Aug 2011
HeartInADustpan
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Having lived in OKC through the May '99 and May '03 tornado's, I can tell you this is the worst devastation I have ever seen even based on my own visual experiences.

I have friends and coworkers deeply impacted by this event and I can't count how many times I've cried today.

The worst are the children and the brave teachers who did all they could to protect their students. So much sadness today.


Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain

Posts: 379 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
Hearthache again
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Death total 51 including children from one of the schools. My heart has been aching for this community since I saw this 4 1/2 hours ago.


Me-BS(32)
Him-WS(35)
Married-12 years together 13
Kids 4: 15, 12, 8, and 3
DDay#1 9-26-2008 Dday#2 4-26-2010
We have R!!! But I still hate the number 26!

This too shall pass
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Posts: 871 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Michigan
sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I get my news reports here or at work Im goad Im not watching the news Those poor babies, teachers and families

SI peeps. .stay safe

[This message edited by sullymeishadomi at 8:35 PM, May 20th (Monday)]


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not ....will be divorcing the selfish creep.

Posts: 8305 | Registered: Sep 2007
persevere
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's heartbreaking - my DD20 and I have been watching CNN all evening - I just can't believe it.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4563 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
click4it
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Default  Posted: 1:04 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AWFUL,just awful...such devastation.


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25607 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart just breaks for everyone that has been effected by the tornadoes.

I am crying watching news, as a mom, knowing that there are parents that will never hold thier child again....never hear their voice.

The mom with the 7 month old that were killed....the men, women, and children - the loss, its just unbelieveable.

I wish I could help, I wish I could give money, donate clothes, time....I am in Indiana and we can barely buy our own food. I can only pray and that just doesn't seem like enough at all.

I hope our SI Okies are ok. Have they checked in yet?


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

Posts: 1757 | Registered: Sep 2012
Sharpie4
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It looks awful and it's so heartbreaking.


Me: 43
Him: 46
I still don't know what's going on.

Posts: 195 | Registered: Jun 2012
JustDone
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Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Horrible...


Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.


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