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Bluebird26 (original poster member #36445) posted at 12:25 PM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
I am beyond livid right now. My ex mil just phoned me to let me know about a article that has been posted on fb from an external website about OW new business 
Anyway the article goes on to talk about her 'family' including my kids in her number of children. Saying how hard it is to fit a work life around having 5 kids and school activities and sports etc. Um she has 3 kids, and they live with their father 1500km away she sees them maybe for 3 weeks a year. My oldest kid doesn't even go to xwh house refuses to have anything to do with them. My youngest hates OW but tolerates her so he can spend time with his father.
OMG I am pissed off! My kids are not her kids. FWIW my ex mil is pissed too!
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 12:35 PM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
Hi sweetie
I am so sorry. You have had so much to deal with.
The POSOW is like so many of these deadshits. Living in some sick fantasy land that we normal people cannot understand.
Lies, deception, exaggeration, are all part of their day to day living.
I would bet she actually believes the crap she has posted.
Try not to take it to heart. You are who you are. You know it and those who matter to you know it. That is what is important.
You have something she will never have - integrity.
Try to put her dumbfuckery out of your mind and concentrate on what matters - you and your children.
HUGS
Laura
Married 42yrs Me BW 68Yrs Him F?WH 70yrs OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Dday May 28 2010. OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years). OW2 2002(8yrs PA). OW3 2009(1Yr PA). Others?? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck 'em"
atsenaotie ( member #27650) posted at 12:53 PM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
Apply for child support from her?
Judging from what you have posted, people who know her will know she fabricates and lies. People who do not, it really doesn't matter.
LTA FBS
dday 10.5.09
Divorced
newnormal ( member #21925) posted at 12:54 PM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
My first thought when reading your title was to say call 911 and have her committed. Sheesh.
But the mama bear in me is angry for you. Grrrrrr. Hang in there, your kids will see her for what she is.
BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07
Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 8:40 PM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
Stuff like that disturbs me on a deep level. When people say crazy stuff like that I wonder if kidnapping is next on the agenda.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 9:33 PM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
Do you normally believe what a crazy person tells you? I don't. She is crazy. And those who know her, know she lies.
I used to get upset when NW would claim all 6 of the kids were hers. She would even go into great lengths about the birth of the twins. (I gave birth to 'her' twins 12 years before she even met them!) She got caught more than once ... to her great embarrassment. I saw it first hand once.. when she announced the bankruptcy clerk that "they" had a daughter starting XX university in the fall. I was behind them... and was called forth to answer some questions regarding CS for that partibular DD. Clerk asked her 'why are you paying CS for your DD?" She had to actually get the words out that DD is actually mine and her current H's. Clerk put the word 'current' into the explanation.
I left with a 
your kids know who mom is... and it isn't her.
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
PinkJeepLady ( member #37575) posted at 9:50 PM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
OMG!
Well, of course she would because I am sure your kids are amazing, because of YOU!
Yeah, I agree, your kids know who their mom is, that's the most important thing. No one can take away the bond you have with them, no one!
Also, please remember, most people who read news articles don't even pick up on stuff like that. Glad ex mil supports you though, nice!
Me: BW Him: FWH
DDay June 1st 2012
cheated with prostitutes overseas
Reconciled - thought so, but now divorcing
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 10:02 PM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
sullymeishadomi ( member #16305) posted at 11:38 PM on Monday, May 20th, 2013
Blue ..Im so sorry. I would be pissed off, too. My exfriend tried to make herself into Auntie to the mm's kids. She also made mm into her dd's uncle. Delusional.
From what Im getting here is that her "Im a great and busy mom" schtik is 100% lie. What Im guessing here is she lives in the land of delusion and new business will soon enough go poof. Her behavior will filter into her business and customers wont buy into it.
Jmo
Want2help ( member #20547) posted at 3:32 AM on Tuesday, May 21st, 2013
OW did this to MY stepkids of 6 years. They were teens, and they all fell for it.
6 years out, and they now see her instead of us.
I can only IMAGINE how I would feel if she were claiming my COM as hers. I am so, so livid and disgusted for you.
Oh, and she doesn't even have custody of her kids?! Oh, OW, tell us again how hard it is to balance your busy life as a other!! 
FBS/WS- me.
F(serial)WS/BS- him.
Madhatters. More Ddays than birthdays, at this point. His OC, my OC...
UPDATE: Divorcing after almost 20 years.
Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 9:17 AM on Tuesday, May 21st, 2013
I agree with DMW ^^^^ stupid bitch!!!
Bad enough ow puts her claws in a mm but to think she has some claim to YOUR kids...infuriating...
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
Bluebird26 (original poster member #36445) posted at 10:01 AM on Tuesday, May 21st, 2013
Thank you everyone I have calmed down now 
But you're right the people who know this is bullshit are the ones that matter. And she is a stupid bitch!
I emailed xwh and told them to remove the reference within 24 hours, this then turned into a constant stream of emails of all their other issues. I even had OW emailing me, claiming I was FB stalking her! Um you put the details on a public website not on FB.
I replied only twice and threatened to go to the authorities, including the company she represents etc for making false and misrepresenting claims which is illegal here. They have since changed the article to her 3 kids and 2 step children, technically they aren't but semantics right! Just makes me laugh now they have to spread more lies and fairy tales in their unicorn land. 
They really do deserve each other, dumb & dumber!
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
LivinginLimbo ( member #35004) posted at 4:05 PM on Tuesday, May 21st, 2013
Good for you for making them change it.
When we became grandparents, my moron FWH sent the MOW pix of the twins. On her filthy AFF blog, someone asked if she had grandkids. She replied not yet but that she lived vicariously through her "boyfriend." (This was 4 months after D-Day when her fat ass got thrown under the bus.)
It still makes me batshit crazy that she so much as knows their names, much less that he sent her photos.
These assholes share way too much with their pigs.
BS - 65
WH - 63
Married 37 years
D-Day 2/12/12
D-Day 6/1/16 Caught him back online early enough that no physical contact took place but still devastating. This sucks.
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