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User Topic: Betrayed Men - Part 10
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't the army pukes whine enough as it is

I dunno, they get too bad a rap:

Maybe we could call it Tank Thread: The Motion Picture


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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Betrayed444
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Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think our perspective is different based on where we are in the healing process. For instance, when I read that B444 took his wife skydiving, and dammit, the parachute opened, I hear: "I love my wife and took her skydiving because I still want to do things with her. But this hurts like hell, so I joke about it to keep from going crazy."

Similarly, "cum rag" quotes strikes me this way: "She's my wife and I still want to make love to her, but sometimes the act itself is painful because of what she did with other men, so I have to detach emotionally to get through it."

SAL
You totally get it brother. I don't know where the disconnect was with others but your right there by my side. Thanks for the love


And for the record
Army dog enters this thread fresh off a betrayal
Tosses a grenade
Sprays the room and drops words like Haji and Cum rag
Crowd goes wild
That's how Army rolls

[This message edited by Betrayed444 at 11:26 AM, May 30th (Thursday)]


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's Army with a capital A

Noted.


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 11:31 AM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a former SP, the grunts of the Air Force. Spent 30 days training under Army infantry NCOs at Fort Dix, and about two weeks receiving urban combat training at Fort Hood while the Branch Davidian compound burned not too far away.

That must be where I learned to bitch, cause I've been real good at it ever since.

Thanks for the kind words, B444.


Me-45
WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, together 19+
4 children

Reconciled


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wert
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I love my wife and took her skydiving because I still want to do things with her. But this hurts like hell, so I joke about it to keep from going crazy"

I completely get that. Believe me, to myself I have said vile things about my W. Some were deserved. For myself I came to the conclusion, once I saw her really changing, that it was bad for me, bad for our relationship and to frank not fair to her. People aren't static or at least they don't have to be. In addition, I chose to stay. When I did that I committed to myself to rise above the crap my W created as long as she pulls her wait. I am not better than her, just different and I play by my rules.

SG- Tank Thread: The Motion Picture - there it is.



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Betrayed444
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a former SP, the grunts of the Air Force. Spent 30 days training under Army infantry NCOs at Fort Dix, and about two weeks receiving urban combat training at Fort Hood while the Branch Davidian compound burned not too far away.
That must be where I learned to bitch, cause I've been real good at it ever since.

Outstanding
I'm in the AF reserves now. Good stuff. I needed a change and after being a Drill Sergeant I figured it was a good thing plus the base is 5 mins away.
I did some SWAT training at Ft. Hood and was also in TX during the Waco incident. Good stuff Sal

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DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Menz thread, can just hear my wife sitting around with a bunch of ladies talking about their cycles. "Oh my gosh we are all on our "mens" right now, we are so synced...giggle giggle"
...Next...


Me:35 WW:34 M:13yrs
3 young children
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sal,

Cool! I'm an ex-squid. Served for 5 years before getting, what's the term? Involuntarily discharged . I did work at Hood for 5 years not too long ago embedded as a SME with a MI BN. I'll never forget the smell...

Oh, and by "involuntarily discharged", I meant medivac'ed from the Gulf in '88. They had some hangup that I'd probably never run again, and my logic that the ship wasn't a mile and a half didn't dissuade them from booting me Damn standards.


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tred, thanks for your service however it ended.

I did work at Hood for 5 years not too long ago embedded as a SME with a MI BN.

I'm 20 years removed from military acronyms, need some help with "SME" and "MI BN". Senior medical examiner?

Defiled, regarding your last post: Well played, sir.


Me-45
WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, together 19+
4 children

Reconciled


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sal,

Subject Matter Expert with a Military Intelligence Battalion. I was there supporting digital signal processing tools our company make to help them do their jobs. I've been out 25 years now I guess...I do still interface with the service branches as we support a lot of DoD programs.


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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Betrayed444
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Subject Matter Expert with a Military Intelligence Battalion. I was there supporting digital signal processing tools our company make to help them do their jobs. I've been out 25 years now I guess...I do still interface with the service branches as we support a lot of DoD programs.

Damn Tred I'd hate to be your wife after DDay.


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RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Angry Marines thread?

As far as I know I'm the only one here. I'd hate to exclude the rest of you


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

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Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I recently received the following advice from a certain Machiavellian idiot savant who shall remain nameless:

You're desperately trying to find a way to redeem the horrible things she did so that they make sense to you -- so that you can fit them into the mental image of your wife that you used to have.

You can't. Best you can do is erode them. Tell yourself about them so often and so thoroughly that they stop having any meaning. They just become stories you tell yourself rather than living things with teeth and fangs.

I'm going to try his approach, because mine isn't working.

Thanks brother.


Me-45
WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, together 19+
4 children

Reconciled


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dday3302011
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's one man's vote for "Menz Thread".

Although someone here a lot smarter than I has to be able to come up with an acronym for our group. I mean we use enough of them and have enough ex-military here to fill up Cowboys stadium.

BTW- WAL, what's wrong with poop jokes? I knocked on the door of the bathroom one morning a few weeks ago and my son was in there. I said "everything okay buddy?", he responds, "yeah dad, just starting up production at the chocolate factory". I almost hit the floor I was laughing so hard.


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xWW-42
M 11yrs, together 14
DDay 3-30-2011
2 kids, 9 & 7
1 yr LTA w/MOM
Divorced 5-16-2013

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Long Gone
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Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ummmm...I am going to point this out and then shut my mouth....but I thought this was a betrayed mens post/board or whatever. If I am going to be lectured...its sure as shit not going to be by someone that is a wayward...annnnd just a tad betrayed. No offense...but that is what I feel.

Just my opinion....if you havent actually lived it or lived what we are living...

well...you know what I am saying..

feel free to pile on me via PM and not here for this to be drug on and on.....

[This message edited by Long Gone at 3:02 PM, May 30th (Thursday)]


D-Day 11/26/10

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Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Re: nicknames.
How about "The Lion's Den"?
Or "The Dungeon" or "Team BAMF HQ"


“Anyone who has a continuous smile on his face conceals a toughness that is almost frightening.”

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RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ICR rename ideas:

1)He-Man Unremorsful Woman Haterz Club

2)Got Beer?

3)Smoking Jacket Required

4)Philosophy and Testosterone


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

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Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"NO MA'AM" National Organization of Men Against Amazonian Masterhood


“Anyone who has a continuous smile on his face conceals a toughness that is almost frightening.”

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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"NO MA'AM" National Organization of Men Against Amazonian Masterhood

Seconded!

[This message edited by h0peless at 3:25 PM, May 30th (Thursday)]


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wifehad5
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Red  Posted: 3:29 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Long Gone,

Calling out other members is against the Guidelines, and piling on via PM will get you banned.

HL came here as a BH and as such is welcome to post on this thread. If there is a problem with that, fell free to PM any of the moderators.


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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