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User Topic: Having a hard time not responding to this text this morning.
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 4:19 AM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At least you got a card, I got nothing from the ex, the same as I have got for the last 15 years. So I really shouldn't expect anything different I guess.

My lovely mother though gave my youngest DS some money for the mothers day stall at school to buy some little treasures for me. My oldest DS got me a gift card at a local retail store with his own money. At least my kids have inherited my kindness


"You can never have too much happy!"

Posts: 1126 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got a text... I probably would have got more if I didn't remind him two days prior that the child support order will be permanent next month and the break down of the amount of money he will be paying. Oh well...


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 607 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Northeast US
movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh and my response... "ty"
He isn't worth writing out the words thank you. It would have been crickets but I figure I would keep things as civil as possible. 180 has done me well.


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 607 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Northeast US
LadyQ
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I too got the Happy Mother's day text. I didn't respond. There was no need to.


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011
haleyscomet
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Default  Posted: 5:29 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My kids (all grown up) are not his -- but he text me Happy Mother's Day anyway... I did not respond. Just like I did not respond to the "I miss you very much ____. I wish you were here." that he sent on May 7th. I'm sure he'll text me Happy Birthday next week, too. Don't plan on responding to that either.
N/C is the best thing I have done since I left him and I'm keeping it that way. As soon as I respond its giving him power again -- not gonna do it!


me: bgf - 46
him: wwbf - 40
lived together 2-1/2 years
dday1 dec 16 2012 found texts
dday2 dec 29 2012 intercepted texts
dday3 feb 20 2013 found texts during false R
status: its over


Posts: 67 | Registered: Jan 2013
stillsad1970
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I never got a Happy Mothers day from H, his reasoning, well you're not my mother ,classy!

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