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rachelc
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Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wanted to say: I feel pretty good. We are tired. We are enjoying being together in the sunshine. It was a long winter. We have occasional flare ups. Hubby said hes afraid one more will topple our house of cards. Maybe. Maybe not.

Weve had to deal with 3 affairs and a rape the last 3 years. Im not sure if a couple can recover from this. Were trying. We love each other. Last night I quietly cried. I thought how my affair and the rape must have made him feel. I felt a lot of compassion for him.


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

Me: I didn't sign up for this.
Him: you're already in this. All you can do is resign...


Posts: 4768 | Registered: Dec 2010
BaxtersBFF
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Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One day at a time.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6097 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
badchoice
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Member # 35566
Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^this

take it one day at a time, create your life together one day at a time together. It sounds like you are succeeding.


Me: fWH/BH 46

Separated transitioning to D


Posts: 725 | Registered: May 2012 | From: L.A.
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