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User Topic: G2G's
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was born and raised in nyc. I dint hear my accent but people from other states pinpoint where I'm from immediately.


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Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

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TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't worry L2HM. The deer and other animals are there to feed. They are all fenced in. Though it would be cool if the peacock got loose one day.


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 2, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011

Posts: 1718 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm across the state from you, but you're always welcome in WNY. We'll be a small but fun group in early June.


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It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Though it would be cool if the peacock got loose one day.

My parents raised peafowl! And ornamental pheasants... and ducks... chickens...


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TCD you and Unagie co-hosting a G2G?


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Posts: 5014 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TCD you and Unagie co-hosting a G2G?
Kajem, if you go north for their G2G, you better totally pit-stop in Nashville and say hi to me!


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RiotGrrrl
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't post on the board much although I've been around a long time, but I've been to one and it was great.

Everyone was really nice and it wasn't awkward at all (and I am SHY)

RG


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was nervous before my 1st. I think it was Cee64D who told me I could go as him, if that would make me feel better. I went as myself, but it was nice to know I had another ID in my back pocket.

My W was the only WS at the first one we attended. She rarely says much, and she didn't at the g2g, but she was scared going in, and felt comfortable when we came out.
And you know what? At that first g2g it was clear that 3 of the people knew each other well, but we quickly became one group. Thanks, TrustedHer, inconnu, and Moo. (And yeah, I read a post, and remember a face and voice.)

If you get a chance - attend. You'll be happy you did.


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

T/J - Do people from the Bronx, Staten Island, or Queens say , 'I'm from NYC'?

Just askin'.

sisoon, whose blood runs Brooklyn Dodger blue, and whose Brooklyn relatives say 'I'm from Brooklyn.'


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm from NYC

Ah, but sisoon, no one says that. They're from 'The City' and everyone knows what they're talking about. Just like I lived 'on' the Island, not in Long Island--but not people from Brooklyn or Queens


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When you live in any of the boroughs other than Manhattan and you say you're going to 'the city', you know it means Manhattan. And upstate is any place north of The Bronx.

My brother lives on the island .

My parents grew up down the block (not the road ) from Ebbetts Field, isn't that cool?

[This message edited by authenticnow at 6:13 PM, April 11th (Thursday)]


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Uhhh I said I would think about holding a G2G lol. Also I say I live in Queens but born and raised in Brooklyn. The city is Manhattan lol. I don't like the islands...long or staten, they are far and require me to have a car.


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No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aubrey, If I'm going to New Yawk, I'll stop by for a visit.


I have been to 2 G2G's so far. Go if you have the chance go.... you won't regret it.

I haven't.

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aubrey, If I'm going to New Yawk, I'll stop by for a visit.

Because Nashville is along the direct path from FL to NY?


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Posts: 51908 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Moo! Shhhhhhh! Its a minor detour.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

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"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


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sailorgirl
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NYC gets my newbie vote :)

Unagie,

I don't like the islands...long or staten, they are far and require me to have a car.

Where do you live in Queens? There's always the LIRR (I'm on the PW line.)


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 2:46 AM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lol I'm on the outskirts of queens on the Brooklyn/Queens borderline. Seriously if you walk like 2-3 blocks away your in Brooklyn near Bushwick. Really the islands are far lol, my friend was having a barbecue and lives is springfield gardens which is damn near long island and I have to take 2 trains and a bus plus walk to get to her.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


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stronger08
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Default  Posted: 3:22 AM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you want to have a G2G just set it up. It can be as easy as meeting up in some bar or restaurant thats conveinent to all. Manhattan works well cause its available to everyone. Im from Brooklyn. Born and raised in Park Slope (Before and after it was trendy)Lived in Canarise, Mill Basin, Flatbush. I split my time now between Staten Island and the Poconos. But if there is a G2G I'll go.


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:05 AM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We grew up in Brooklyn, not far from where you live, Unagie!


Take up your space (and do it well).

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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 5:23 AM, April 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I grew up in east new york near brownsville. I moved to far rockaway when I was 18. Moved to bushwick when I was 22 and back to queens when I was 24.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


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