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User Topic: Wife left me for her new boss
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((AAS)))

You can do this.

Strength coming your way!!!


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 6601 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
sinsof thefather
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I suppose I'm asking you guys to be on the forum providing me with support and distraction for what I imagine will be a long day from 10am.


You got it. I'll be able to be here from about 12 noon (hopefully) - with my fingers and toes crossed. I so hope this goes your way allatsea.


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

Posts: 1740 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
Blobette
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Default  Posted: 1:21 PM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All 40K+ of us will be rooting you on! We're all here for you!


BS (me): 49
WS: 50
Married: 25 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R

Posts: 1035 | Registered: Aug 2012
Abbondad
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Member # 37898
Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am a bunch of hours behind you over here in the States, but I will be checking in for updates.


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1463 | Registered: Dec 2012
catlover50
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Default  Posted: 3:03 AM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're only four hours ahead here on the East Coast--we've got your back!

You've got this.



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1653 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
cantbelieve
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Member # 22028
Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AAS

We are here for you. If you find yourself being overwhelmed, just think of all of us sitting behind you, supporting you.

Maybe even print some of these comments and have them in front of you to keep you strong.

Be STRONG, you are fighting for your boys!!!

((AAS))


Me: BS (57)
Him: WS (58)
LTA 4 years with co-worker
DS(26)
DD(23)
DD(19)
Married 28 years
D-day1 5/08
D-day2 11/08
Status: 6 yrs and wondering if I'll ever be truly happy again

Posts: 1044 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: DFW
5454real
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Default  Posted: 9:31 AM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

saying prayers and sending strength for tomorrow. I'll keep my eyes open for any updates, just know that we will be there in spirit.

treat yourself well today, get extra sleep if possible. if you are at all religious, a little pop into the church may not hurt.

one last thing!

FTB!


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2068 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Swims
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Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending strength to you Allatsea for tomorrow's coutr appearance. Conduct yourself as you have shown to us, with dignity, strength, and reason. Make sure you go to court looking your very best and that will give you added confidence. And hopefully for you, your CSTBXWW will start spewing her irrational nonsense and you can then swiftly and calmly refute her. Hugs and strength to you, AAS!

Posts: 100 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: East Coast
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sending you the most powerful thing of all, SI mojo. SI mojo works. It has worked in many situations here. We will all be here sending prayers, strength, SI mojo whatever we've got to you. Know that your 41,000 friends here will be thinking of you.

If you are at court waiting around and feeling anxious say to yourself over and over again:
SI mojo. SI mojo. SI MOJO!

eta: best to say it in your head, though, AAS. Don't want them to hear you muttering "SI mojo" like it is some kind of voodoo curse. They may think they can put a "C" in front of your name, too.

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 11:27 AM, October 29th (Tuesday)]


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 8975 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Secrets Kept
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Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey there AAS,

I am on East coast time so you are only 4 hours ahead.

I sit in my own quiet little office so will stay on SI for you in case you need to chat or vent during court.

Best of luck to you. Will be thinking about ya constantly.


Marriage #1=BW-46 (now)
XWH-Deceased on his 36 bday
2 sons together-28 & 23
Divorced in 1996
Marriage #2= Married in 2003
WW with H#2 =BH-44
2 kids together-DS14 & DD12
"All this time I was finding myself & I didn't know I was lost"

Posts: 156 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest USA
Truly
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey AAS,

On the far side of the world the sun is already up on the most beautiful morning, sending you light and strength today.

May your dignity, pride and humanity shine through for all to see.
(((hugs)))Truly x


There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens


Posts: 230 | Registered: Sep 2013
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo Mojo MOjo heading your way.
Karma karma karma heading CSTBXW way. I hope the big old bus pulls right up and swoops her away tomorrow.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 6601 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Skan
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holding you and your children in my prayers.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4120 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you strength, mojo and hugs for tomorrow!!

We've got your back AAS.

and FTB!!!!!


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1174 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck in court.....

Check in with your solicitor about this pregnancy issue. It has the potential to bring the divorce proceedings to a screeching halt.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCyL6pa_L4M


Posts: 7247 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
UKgirl
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Default  Posted: 3:13 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are not alone. A lot of people are thinking of you today and hoping for the best outcome. Stay calm.


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 56 y/o Him, WS, 57 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 18 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

Posts: 3328 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK
OptimisticWife
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Default  Posted: 3:15 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck AAS! Hope you leave court today feeling some sense of relief.

Posts: 190 | Registered: Aug 2012
fadedrainbow
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Default  Posted: 3:30 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll be thinking about you today and praying for all to be well. (((((AAS)))))


me: FBW
D-Day May 2005
divorced December 2009


Posts: 131 | Registered: Jan 2006 | From: UK
openedupmyeyes
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Default  Posted: 4:36 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((All at sea)))) positive mojo!!!!


Me:53 BS
Him:53 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:35
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.

Posts: 759 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
Swims
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Default  Posted: 5:29 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you ((AAS)) and sending strength!

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