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User Topic: What's the big deal?
uncertainone
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, April 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Other ICs would just try to make me feel better after the fall-outs an collect money
oh, so familiar with that!

I think the overall pattern you describe would actually be visable in most areas of your life. A kind of casual surface skate rather than a real show up and be completely present.

The choices to cheat aren't usually isolated. It's tendrils run wide and deep.


Me: 37

'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth


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hardlessons
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, April 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One did push me to question my sense of honesty and morality, however, he was less concerned about the infidelity part of my life.

In IC I think you should be focused on you, the core of you not the fact that you cheated but the lies/justifications we tell ourselves to make the choice to cheat just so obvious. If you found a good IC that is willing to tread deep waters go back to him.. IMO good luck


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"a wayward...annnnd just a tad betrayed."

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