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MyNameIsDoug
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Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, March 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I cheated. Instead of doing everything in my power and everything my wife asked I decided to go on with life as nothing happened. 2 years she gave me to get it right. I never did. i would like to give some advice to the new men who have cheated if I may. Start acting desperate TODAY. I waited and it has cost me my wife,son,house and sports car. The wife is keeping that. Do whatever is going to make her feel better. This is not about you. I wasted 2 years even though she begged me to help her. I never paid attention. I was a self centered jack ass who thought she would get over it. She did not. Now it is all over.Read my tale with caution people because 1 day you just might wake up on the outside looking in just like me. I make no excusus I did it all to myself. I will be forever sorry to MYNAMEISALICE. My wife.

Posts: 39 | Registered: May 2012
EmotionalFool
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, March 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did not mean to be harsh.. but its much more than losing your car or house. I hope you feel better.

[This message edited by EmotionalFool at 9:51 AM, March 20th (Wednesday)]


WW: 28 (ME)
BH: 28 (SI profile: CrappyLife)
D-Day- 15/10/12

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, March 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is not about you. I wasted 2 years even though she begged me to help her

Your words hit home as many BS's want their WS to step up to the plate and help them heal.

I can hear your pain in your post. I hope one day you heal and are in a better place.

Thank you for sharing this.

[This message edited by jo2love at 9:45 AM, March 20th (Wednesday)]




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jo2love
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Red  Posted: 9:46 AM, March 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

EmotionalFool -

Please remember to follow the guidelines.

FLAMING & ATTACKING: Please refrain from attacking another member, publicly or by using the SI.com Private Message feature. Do not bait or call out others. This includes members and non-members.

Thank you




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heforgotme
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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, March 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This made me cry. It is so very sad when important realizations come too late.

Thank you for sharing this. It may very likely prevent someone else from making the same tragic mistake.


D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

Posts: 1039 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: FL
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, March 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What's your plan now?


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"You can do it!" - R. Schneider


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MyNameIsDoug
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, March 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My plan is to stay in counceling keep talking to her.Try to prove that I am trustworthy.It will take some time but I am hoping that we will end up together.I miss her terribly.

Posts: 39 | Registered: May 2012
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