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User Topic: Quiet by Susan Cain
OnAnIsland
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Default  Posted: 2:17 AM, February 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just read this with my book club. It is a book about introverts and extroverts, that also looks at the organization of work and school in American society.

It helped me understand a lot about my children- one introvert and one extrovert. And my super extroverted WH. By the way, according to author and various studies cited, extroverts are more likely to have affairs and remarry.


D-day: Christmas 2011 when i saw a text from MarriedOW to WH
D-day 2: 3/28/2013: confessed phone sex over 10 years ago (2000 or 2001) with another OW

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school


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Default  Posted: 11:48 PM, February 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Loved this book. I am an introvert and I'm great at public speaking and socializing. After a party i need a week alone! This book helped me understand why I need so much time to myself, and why it is an advantage in many ways to be an introvert.

My WXH was an introvert so it's no guarantee against cheating.


Here's to A New Life of Excellent Health, Financial Abundance, Nature's Beauty, Amazing Art and Personal Creativity, with Love, Beauty and Peace All Around Us.

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Default  Posted: 11:48 PM, February 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oops! DoublePost!

[This message edited by InnerLight at 11:48 PM, February 26th (Tuesday)]


Here's to A New Life of Excellent Health, Financial Abundance, Nature's Beauty, Amazing Art and Personal Creativity, with Love, Beauty and Peace All Around Us.

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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, February 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I also enjoyed this book. It helped me to better understand why I need down time. I spend most of my day talking and interacting with people, so by evening, I'm always grateful to have some down time after the kids go to bed.

I'm not sure if my STBX is introverted or extroverted... I always thought that he was more introverted, but considering how much he lied to me, I'm probably wrong!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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