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User Topic: The Truth About Cheating by Gary Neuman
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Default  Posted: 7:03 AM, March 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't even talk about infidelity with anyone.
I can't either. Absolutely NO ONE in my 'real life' seems to 'get it' unless they have also experienced it.

I'm just sick to death of people who think that if you were cheated on, you surely did something to cause it.
Yep, the general consensus amongst the masses always seems to be that the WS wasn't 'getting any'. And I know in my case, and many many other cases here on SI, that that simply is NOT true!

me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, March 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah my aunt was shocked me and Xwh were having sex 4-6 times a week when the cheating began. We were trying for DD, Xwh came out and said I was using him for a baby. Pure BS. One of the dozens of reasons why he took it up to F his old coworker.

I do blame myself though, not for his cheatimg, but for putting up with the disrespect and dysfunction. I chose to stay for as Long as I did.

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