Yeah my aunt was shocked me and Xwh were having sex 4-6 times a week when the cheating began. We were trying for DD, Xwh came out and said I was using him for a baby. Pure BS. One of the dozens of reasons why he took it up to F his old coworker.
I do blame myself though, not for his cheatimg, but for putting up with the disrespect and dysfunction. I chose to stay for as Long as I did.