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User Topic: Betrayed Men- Part 9
aesir
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Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, March 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bah. See that double post?
Fuck you, extra post. I'm not even going to clean your shit up. Sit there in your filth and think about what you'v
e done.
When that happens to me, I just take that as a sign the universe thinks my words are worth repeating.

This thread is also Exhibit B in my claim that dudes who post here don't have issues with conflict avoidance.

Sometimes I suffer from conflict enjoyment.

We've hosted at least four at our house

Someday I'll have to count how many we've attended. I don't particularly like people, and I really don't like parties, but I've been to amazing get togethers and met some amazing people. I've seen some incredible healing and met some people who have become very good friends.

If you ever get a chance, go.

I'm down with the not particularly liking people part of that, and a little geographically impaired for G2Gs. Hell, I just recently got my passport, but haven't used it yet.

So far I have only had coffee with one local member, and with Ser, cant, and Jrjr when they were through here. They are as good in person as online, though Ser does not seem to use crayons for as much as you might expect from his postings. For the record, if you pick a mall and agree to meet at Starbucks, it is best to specify which Starbucks in the mall.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
bdotoole
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, March 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After 5years and us mostly working through the mess he created......I brought up my hurt feelings, which I only every 6-9months anymore....guess what he has to say.......she was a very nice person and so nice to me........REALLY?
Wayward husbands out there...surely there is a better response to me stating she was a Baptist Bible toting hypocrate......what do you guys say when your wife has doubts this many years later. I really hope you are not this hurtful......


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wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, March 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hon, I think you're looking for the Ask-a-WS thread.

I'm sorry you're hurting tonight.


Machiavellian idiot savant

Posts: 6690 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Indiana
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, March 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We can't help you there. We're the faithful ones.

Posts: 1326 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, March 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That link is here: http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=470108


Machiavellian idiot savant

Posts: 6690 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Indiana
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, March 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BTW, in my imagination, SG looks and carries himself exactly like Patrick Swayze in _Point Break_.

I had to GIS that. All I know about Patrick Swayze after Ghost is that he's Sebastian Bach's nemesis. Obviously, I am not that dashingly handsome. I look like a drugged clown who cant keep his eyes open whenever someone takes a picture of me.

I've met most of my IRL friends on the Internet. I think I'm just not back to the Go Meet People place.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

Posts: 7119 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
HoldingTogether
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, March 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just generally don't have a desire to cross the streams of interwebs and IRL.

Wait.....

You guys exist in real life???

And with all the cursing and personal shit I write on here?

My goodness, this is awkward,


Me:BH 41
Her:FWW40(Walkinoneggshellz)
2 Beautiful little girls 13&10
Dday: 7/24/10 1yr EA turned 5 monthPA
"I gotta hole in me now... I got a scar I can talk about."

Posts: 339 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: New Life
wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, March 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I saw Skid Row 3x between 1989 and 1991, twice opening for GnR (I think....maybe it was Metallica). The last album of Bach's I purchased was _Angel Down_ in 2007 or so.

He completely lost me after the horrible lies he told about _Chinese Democracy_ being the future of metal. I mean, I dig Axl as much as the next guy, but it's one thing to dig a guy; a complete other thing to suck his dick in front of God and everybody just to keep riding the coattails.

Therefore, any nemesis of Sebastian Bach's is fine by me. Even the dead ones.


Machiavellian idiot savant

Posts: 6690 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Indiana
wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, March 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You guys exist in real life???

I'm real, and I'm fabulous.


Machiavellian idiot savant

Posts: 6690 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Indiana
Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, March 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sometimes I suffer from conflict enjoyment.

I second. The motion passes.

Re: G2G...if there were one outside Chicago, I'd probably be down.

Talk to you gentlemen later, I'm having my weekly sitdown with the WW to talk about the A. Stormy seas lie ahead.


“Anyone who has a continuous smile on his face conceals a toughness that is almost frightening.”

Posts: 1618 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Illinois
PanicAttack53
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, March 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Guess which one of us was the worthless fucktard who was never there for her and never did anything for her... and which one was the big fucking hero.

OK, I'm not as eloquent at stating things like many of you here (not a jab at myself, just the truth). Anyway, I had to respond to the above because it's still one of the many things about stbx that sticks in my craw.

According to stbx her A initially grew out of the fact that I didn't support her during her mothers extended illness and subsequent death in 2009. This even after I was the only one by her mothers side at an assisted living facility when she did pass. A total mind fuck BTW because it was the same ALF where my mom died 1 year earlier and where I again was the only one there to comfort her.

But like aesir posted, I was the worthless fucktard because POSOM blew her internet kisses and cyber stroked her aching heart during that same time.

It doesn't matter what kind of shit you do, and what kind of lists you work off of. If your spouse is not receptive, they are not receptive.

Fucking A right... It certainly doesn't!

ETA: On a much better note... I just found out yesterday that the final hearing date is set for my D... June 6th at 9AM. Tell me that date isn't providence, or at the very least irony.

[This message edited by PanicAttack53 at 9:04 PM, March 18th (Monday)]


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 60 | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

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nuance
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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, March 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Regarding the job review... I'm not an employee in this relationship I'm a fucking partner :)


Dday May 2000. R'ed.
People suck.

Posts: 1160 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: California
5454real
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Default  Posted: 10:54 PM, March 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PA, congratulations for getting your D(Divorce) day on the original D-day. May your campaign turn out as well, though much shorter in duration!

Eta a misplaced comma can change a lot

[This message edited by 5454real at 11:13 PM, March 18th (Monday)]


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2087 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 7:49 AM, March 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stormy seas lie ahead.

How'd things go?

June 6th at 9AM. Tell me that date isn't providence, or at the very least irony.

That's actually pretty excellent.

I'm not an employee in this relationship I'm a fucking partner

Excellent observation.


Machiavellian idiot savant

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wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, March 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Since I'm turning 42 today, does that mean I'm now the answer to life, the universe, and everything?


Machiavellian idiot savant

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ReunitePangea
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Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, March 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So how many of your WWs OM were complete losers?

My WWs OM1 has never been able to hold down a job, went through bankruptcy while they were together, has an estranged relationship with his family and can't even run faster than an 11 minute mile. While I could stand to do more exercise now myself I know I can run way faster than that and hit a perfect 10 on all the other items easily when compared to this loser.

What is it that they could possibly even see in these people that was attractive?


BS - Me 38
WS - Wife 39
D-Day - Oct 12
Married 10 years
OM1 - 12-year LTA
OM2 - 9 month A turned into open relationship with couple for another 1 1/2 years

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spareparts
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Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, March 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Since I'm turning 42 today, does that mean I'm now the answer to life, the universe, and everything?

It is quite possible... Happy birthday!


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wert
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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, March 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Since I'm turning 42 today, does that mean I'm now the answer to life, the universe, and everything?

Nope. Just that you are getting old - and share a b-day with my boys...

happy b-day



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wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, March 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cool, wert! I also share my birthday with my middle son (who is turning 19 today).


Machiavellian idiot savant

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numb&dumb
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, March 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wal- Is it the age or the life experience that grants such gifts of insight ?

Happy B-day man.


Me-35 her-35

DS 1, DD 6
Dday 8/31/11. ONS that occurred 3 years earlier. Lied to for 3 years.

Every truth comes to light in a long enough timeline.


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