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User Topic: The Birthday Thread!
megs56
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

January 17th :)


Me: BGF - 29
Him: WBF - 32

I broke up with him and now I am trying to heal.

Hurt me with the truth, but never comfort me with a lie.


Posts: 118 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Sacramento, Ca
SurelyNOT
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

March 24th

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013
Dawn58
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just celebrated my 55th

September 23


I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

Posts: 487 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Southern California
NoAnswers37
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Member # 40592
Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

20 March


Live without pretending
Love without depending
Listen without defending
Speak without offending

Posts: 122 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: England
mellie99
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aug 5 here :)


Me: BW (32)
Him: WS (31)-Multiple ONS
Married: 1/3/05 Together since 5/2002
D-Day #1-3/2009 (4 years after the fact)
D-Day #2 3/2013(he confessed to 3 more ONS, 1 the month I found out I was pregnant)

Posts: 66 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: United States
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

<---------UPdated to here


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

Posts: 10770 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
suposd2btheonly1
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Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

May 16


Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
cantaccept
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

October 14th.

After last year, it has to be better, right???


"So often times it happens, that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key"

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh boots5050
attempted R, it was all a lie

Divorced!


Posts: 1470 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
FoggedIn
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Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

October 12th

39 this year!
XO


D-Day 1 8/8/13 :: WH was with prostitute, I found the physical evidence 24 hours later.
Much has happened since.
Not sure where we're at....... MC, IC, R'ish

Posts: 214 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Southwest US
velvethammer
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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

November 3rd. Turning 40!

Posts: 110 | Registered: Aug 2013
kickboxer
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

10/9 - Yesterday!


BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 13 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere Out There
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

June 12th.


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1920 | Registered: Nov 2010
DCP21
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

October 21st (my 50th!)


BS: 49
WS: 53
Girl/Boy - 25/20
Married 26 years

Posts: 27 | Registered: Jul 2013
Drowninginitall
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

March 13 is my bday

Posts: 119 | Registered: Oct 2013
MakingLemonade
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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

December 19th


Me: 40's; XBS Him: 40's; XWS/NPD/SA
D-day 1: 5/2007- A #1; 7/2007 A #1 continued-R
D-day 2: 3/2013 A #2/multi-ONSs; 4/2013 A #2 continues to present
D: 7/2013 (25 yrs together; days shy of 22nd anniversary-GOAL MET!)
Our kids: teen & tween

Posts: 168 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Southern US
ruby44
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

November 16th


Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home.
Lies!

Posts: 277 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Midwest
Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

march 19


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
Flatlined123
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Default  Posted: 5:17 AM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

January 8. I'm ageing like a fine wine.


Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 692 | Registered: Jun 2012
LMomof2
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for this thread. My birthday is May 11


LMomof2
Me - BW - 59
Him - WH - 59
35 yrs - 2 daughters 17, 21
DDay - 10-15-13
ONS - 9-20-13 and probably YEARS of gaslighting - signs were there.

Posts: 81 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Hotmama
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

November 20th if you are still updating.

Posts: 5 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Ohio
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