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User Topic: The Birthday Thread!
megs56
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

January 17th :)


Me: BGF - 29
Him: WBF - 32

I broke up with him and now I am trying to heal.

Hurt me with the truth, but never comfort me with a lie.


Posts: 118 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Sacramento, Ca
SurelyNOT
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

March 24th

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013
Dawn58
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just celebrated my 55th

September 23


I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

Posts: 465 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Southern California
NoAnswers37
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Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

20 March


Live without pretending
Love without depending
Listen without defending
Speak without offending

Posts: 122 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: England
mellie99
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aug 5 here :)


Me: BW (32)
Him: WS (31)-Multiple ONS
Married: 1/3/05 Together since 5/2002
D-Day #1-3/2009 (4 years after the fact)
D-Day #2 3/2013(he confessed to 3 more ONS, 1 the month I found out I was pregnant)

Posts: 61 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: United States
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

<---------UPdated to here


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

Posts: 10596 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
suposd2btheonly1
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Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

May 16


Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
cantaccept
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

October 14th.

After last year, it has to be better, right???


Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh boots5050
attempted R, it was all a lie

divorcing


Posts: 1253 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
FoggedIn
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Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

October 12th

39 this year!
XO


D-Day 1 8/8/13 :: WH was with prostitute, I found the physical evidence 24 hours later.
Much has happened since.
Not sure where we're at....... MC, IC, R'ish

Posts: 200 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Southwest US
velvethammer
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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

November 3rd. Turning 40!

Posts: 110 | Registered: Aug 2013
kickboxer
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

10/9 - Yesterday!


BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 13 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere Out There
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

June 12th.


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1863 | Registered: Nov 2010
DCP21
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

October 21st (my 50th!)


BS: 49
WS: 53
Girl/Boy - 25/20
Married 26 years

Posts: 27 | Registered: Jul 2013
Drowninginitall
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

March 13 is my bday

Posts: 103 | Registered: Oct 2013
MakingLemonade
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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

December 19th


Me: 40's; XBS Him: 40's; XWS/NPD/SA
D-day 1: 5/2007- A #1; 7/2007 A #1 continued-R
D-day 2: 3/2013 A #2/multi-ONSs; 4/2013 A #2 continues to present
D: 7/2013 (25 yrs together; days shy of 22nd anniversary-GOAL MET!)
Our kids: teen & tween

Posts: 168 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Southern US
ruby44
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

November 16th


Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home. We are slowly working toward that but are still

Posts: 263 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Midwest
Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

march 19


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 726 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
Flatlined123
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Default  Posted: 5:17 AM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

January 8. I'm ageing like a fine wine.


Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 655 | Registered: Jun 2012
LMomof2
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for this thread. My birthday is May 11


LMomof2
Me - BW - 59
Him - WH - 59
35 yrs - 2 daughters 17, 21
DDay - 10-15-13
ONS - 9-20-13 and probably YEARS of gaslighting - signs were there.

Posts: 81 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Hotmama
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

November 20th if you are still updating.

Posts: 5 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Ohio
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