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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, September 21st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't figure it out either, Tred.

Honestly I was happy to be able to donate without standing up and shouting at my monitor after fucking with paypal for 10 minutes and giving up again. If I need to embarrass myself with old posts I'll look at my journal.


"You have insulted my footwear."

Posts: 7488 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, September 21st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

StillGoing...

You were upgraded. Look at the top of each forum page and click on the Click Here link


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198331 | Registered: May 2002
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, September 21st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A couple of questions, and I'm sorry to be so nitpicky; it's the side of me that still thinks going to law school in a few years is a good idea.

1. Does the payment need to be made all at once, or can it be made in installations? Will regular donations count, or only specified transactions for this purpose? This may have already been answered in the question about separate transactions, but I really want to know of I can dedicate my $50 towards Moo's pedi fund

2. Is SI fully PCI Compliant? Who sees my credit card info? Is it retained in any way, either electronically or in paper form? Also, is SI a registered 501(c) 3?

3. Since the donations are intended to be made annually, will there be some sort of reminder sent out when payments are due, or will accounts just revert to their original format until the next payment is made?

4. Does the system operate on a calendar year, or will it extend out 12months from the date of donation?

I came up with more.
5. Does this mean anything for the fate of the auction block?

6. How big of a donation do we need to make to get a pool pass?

[This message edited by Amazonia at 10:24 PM, September 21st (Friday)]


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13801 | Registered: Jul 2011
IslandWahine
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, September 21st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks! Will wait until next payday; waiting to find out how much my brakes are going to cost me tomorrow!


Me: BS, 2 COM, M-14 years
FWH-finally hit rock bottom
11/09 D-day. R'ing
cOW: EVIL
OC: NC for our safety.
People say you don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone. Truth is, you knew what you had, you just thought you’d never lose it.-B.Scott

Posts: 960 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Somewhere out there....
MsSunshine
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, September 21st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Will the platinum membership give us access to old private messages as well?

There's a lot of history in my old private messages that I would love to access again. Also, I had so much wise support from more experienced SI members I'd love to have those old letters back.

I scanned the earlier posts and didn't see anything on pm's. Sorry if I missed it.


Posts: 270 | Registered: Jul 2011
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, September 21st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Will the platinum membership give us access to old private messages as well?

No...once PM's are gone...they're gone for good. So sorry!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198331 | Registered: May 2002
MangledHeart
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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, September 21st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The donation page fails attempting to validate my username.

Thank you for reporting this. Your username will now be recognized.

1. Does the payment need to be made all at once, or can it be made in installations? Will regular donations count, or only specified transactions for this purpose? This may have already been answered in the question about separate transactions, but I really want to know of I can dedicate my $50 towards Moo's pedi fund

The first year of the upgrade is charged all at once. Subsequent years are part of the subscription and billed monthly starting one year from your upgrade. You may cancel your upgrade before the monthly payments kick in. Although canceling prior to the end of your first term will prematurely end your access to the new features.

2. Is SI fully PCI Compliant? Who sees my credit card info? Is it retained in any way, either electronically or in paper form? Also, is SI a registered 501(c) 3?

We are fully PCI compliant. We do not store your credit card information in any form. Once it has been processed it is disposed of regardless if the transaction is successful. SI is a registered 501(c)(3) non-profit organization. Any contributions are tax-deductible.

3. Since the donations are intended to be made annually, will there be some sort of reminder sent out when payments are due, or will accounts just revert to their original format until the next payment is made?

After your first year anniversary your monthly subscription will begin and the monthly payment will be charged automatically unless you cancel prior to your payment date. Upgrades made today will begin being charged the monthly fee on 9/21/2013.

4. Does the system operate on a calendar year, or will it extend out 12months from the date of donation?

It is based on the date your initial upgrade was initiated.

I came up with another one.
5. Does this mean anything for the fate of the auction block?

You will now be able to pay for your auction items via credit card.


Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

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leapyearbaby
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Default  Posted: 11:30 PM, September 21st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I take it I will have to convert the monthly payment I have been sending to a yearly credit card payment?


me BS the Big 6-0!!
him WS 56
married 28 years
together 31
DD 6/10/08
ow #1,2 lta on and off since 1995
ow 3 ons summer 2005
2 D, mine from prior marriage, but he raised them
R'ing...probably not....but then again, maybe....


Posts: 1375 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Colorado
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, September 21st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I *happen* to get banned, do I get a pro-rated refund?


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8088 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, September 21st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Will be signing up in a few days time.

I can't wait to read my first posts and seek out those who replied to say thank you.

I tend not to post in JFO as I am afraid of not giving the same quality of advice I received.

Now with access to those posts... They will almost be a tutorial in how to help the newbies. Can't wait to pay some of that forward.

Great initiative. And I sincerely hope you are now able to
Cover your monthly operating costs.


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 11:59 PM, September 21st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gonna!

All jokes and questions aside, I'm a little star struck that MH came out from behind the curtain. The wizard is real!

Thank you soooo much MH and DS for all you do. Y'all are awesome.

[This message edited by Aubrie84 at 12:00 AM, September 22nd (Saturday)]


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6315 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
MsSunshine
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Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, September 22nd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No worries Deeply Scared. Thank you so much for your response.

I'm so grateful to you and MH. I know your halo and harp are waiting for you two. How incredible that out of your own challenges in life you have made such a difference to the lives of so many.

Many, many thanks, MsS.


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Alex CR
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Default  Posted: 3:59 AM, September 22nd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Am glad you guys have come up with a way to keep this site going. It's a lifesaver!

About three weeks ago, I made a donation that would cover a platinum membership. Is there any plan to allow those who contributed within the last month to upgrade or are we required to make another donation?

Thanks......


BS Me 61
WS Him 62
Married 33
Together 40
DD 11/16/09
The future looks good....

Posts: 1713 | Registered: Mar 2010
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 6:10 AM, September 22nd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks MH!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Hope24
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Default  Posted: 6:36 AM, September 22nd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just signed up but I'm skeered to read my old posts.

[This message edited by Hope24 at 6:51 AM, September 22nd, 2012 (Saturday)]


She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.

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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 6:42 AM, September 22nd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does anyone know if the 'mobile' version works on iPad?


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7102 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 6:48 AM, September 22nd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The mobile version works on the iPad too.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 6:51 AM, September 22nd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gonna...

If I *happen* to get banned, do I get a pro-rated refund?

No...there is a strict No Refund agreement that you(general term) must click off on before continuing with the upgrade.

Alex...

I'm not sure what MH's plans were for recent past donations...I'll ask him and he'll either post in here (when he gets up...lol!) or I will


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 8:00 AM, September 22nd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gonna you made me spew my coffee!


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Posts: 6568 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
mitz66
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, September 22nd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just signed up for the premium access. Wow, I have been a member since 2008. I just read all of my old posts. Thanks for all creating and maintaining this site. I only have a couple friends irl who know the true story. SI has been my safe place to go, I don't post often but I read nearly every day.

Just wanted to say I appreciate all of your work and support to the members.


Me:44 BS Him:43 WH
M May 07 Adult kids
DDay #1 Pics on cell jly 07
Jan08 DDay #2 "Just Friends" admits EA DDay #3 July 2010 - he insisted on platonic contact ..False R - until Dec 2010 admits PA in April 07
Dec 2012 NC succeeded

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