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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went to "follow" a friend, and saw that the link for "forget" was grayed out on her profile. She also has platinum.

I'm not interested in forgetting her, just curious why the link would be grayed out.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

okay, this is kind of stupid ... but I wish I could "follow" myself so my own threads were highlighted automatically.

ETA: Awww, can't follow guides, mods or admin?

[This message edited by Amazonia at 11:54 AM, July 1st (Monday)]


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

just curious why the link would be grayed out.

If you have an outbound PM to a user you will not be able to forget them.

Awww, can't follow guides, mods or admin?
And staff can't follow or forget anyone.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just re-read (I'm such a skimmer!) and saw what you posted NIK. Thanks.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

some of my early posts are still not showing, like my first post (my story).
is this not guaranteed, dependent upon which forum, or some astrological anomaly?

its not a big deal, but if there is a way to get them, that would be awesome.

thanks.

p.s. I wonder how many peeps will "forget" me. And who.


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

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Tred
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Odd, there is a grey unreadable post right after Ama's. Wonder what that could be?


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ETA: Awww, can't follow guides, mods or admin?

Now what kind of ninjas would we be if we let you do that?

Odd, there is a grey unreadable post right after Ama's. Wonder what that could be?

I'm so sure, Tred. You know that if MH implements a "Stalk" feature, slher is going to be the first person you click on.


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

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stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

jackace


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

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stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

a glitch in the following system:

i just got a PM from someone I "follow", the PM was locked, had to unfollow to reply.


ooooh! unless that member "forgot" me after sending it!

[This message edited by stilllovingher at 11:23 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday)]


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

Posts: 2407 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still BFE, but now BFE, CA
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:26 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

stilllovingher - I've alerted your question so MH can help you.

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stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 11:32 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

tanky tanky
not really a problem for me, just reporting a glitch.


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:37 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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MangledHeart
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i just got a PM from someone I "follow", the PM was locked, had to unfollow to reply.

This should be fixed. Please check this again and let me know.


Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

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stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

seems fine now.
I have a pm outbound to the "followed" person and have the option to send a reply.


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

Posts: 2407 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still BFE, but now BFE, CA
Tred
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Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How far back do the archives go? I seem to have a gap: if I view my "oldest" posts, I have 20 pages that ends on 8/20/2012, viewing "recent" posts it only goes back to 4/30/2013. I can't see anything between those dates - there is a gap in the archive I can't seem to access.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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MangledHeart
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We started the archiving process in 2008. The archives contain all posts dating back to that year. The archives may contain more recent posts that you are not seeing yet. Periodically I run a script to harvest platinum members' posts from the archives so you will see them under "oldest" posts in SImplicity.

Your list of "recent" posts is limited to a total of 500 posts in SImplicity or 50 posts on standard SI.


Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

Posts: 5027 | Registered: May 2002 | From: Texas
Tred
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks MH. Just to be clear, eventually I'll see all my posts? Right now under Simplicity I see 500 posts from 12/3/11-8/20/12 if I select "Oldest Posts", and the last 50 if I select "Recent Posts", but I can't see any of the posts in between that gap.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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MangledHeart
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Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your archived posts will eventually all be visible in SImplicity. But as long as you are still posting there will always be a gap between oldest and recent posts.


Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

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