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Deeply Scared
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Exclaimation  Posted: 5:55 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We will keep this thread as a 'sticky' thread for members to contribute abbreviations to and then we'll update the Abbreviation link in the HL after this has run its course.

PLEASE do not put abbreviations in here unless they are globally known as legitimate abbreviations in the infidelity/forum world.

Also, please read the current Abbreviation list in the Healing Library to make sure the abbreviation you're about to submit isn't already listed.

We will keep the first post of this thread updated, so please read the first post to avoid posting duplicate abbreviations

t/j = Thread Jack - taking a thread off topic.

FOO = Family of Origin

TT = Trickle Truth

HB = Hysterical Bonding

ETA = Edit To Add

RA = Revenge Affair

IDK = I Don't Know

KISA = Knight In Shinging Armor

ILYBINILWY = I love you but I'm not in love with you

JMO = Just My Opinion

NPD = narcissistic personality disorder

FWB = Friend With Benefits

B.O.B. = battery operated boyfriend

DD = Darling Daughter

DS = Darling Son

FWW/FWH = Former Wayward Wife/Husband

D-Day = Discovery Day

IRL = In Real Life

IMHO = In My Humble Opinion

PITA = Pain in the ass

FWIW= For what it's worth

COW = Co worker

LTA = Long Term Affair

SA = Sex Addict

MLC = Mid Life Crisis

IC = Individual Counseling

AP = Affair Partner

[This message edited by SI Staff at 6:27 PM, January 13th (Monday)]


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"t/j" = ?

Could someone share that secret?

Thanks in advance.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thread Jack.

It's like hijacking the thread with a tangent-thought, leading it away from the original intent.


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16312 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FOO = Family of Origin


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TT = Trickle Truth

Along with t/j, it took me forever to figure out what TT was.

Of course, then I realized, I already was intimately familiar.


Me: Forever Changed
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

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Pippy
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HB = Hysterical Bonding
Sex with your WS after D-Day, often described as the best sex you ever had together. There are several theories as to why it happens. Maybe someone will expand on this.

[This message edited by Pippy at 6:29 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)]


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


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NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ETA = Edited to Add


Me: Forever Changed
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1245 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, September 5th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Apologies. Just re-read instructions. These definitions were already in the healing library.


WW = Wayward Wife (not just "wayward")

fWW = Former Wayward Wife (not to be confused with XWW = Ex Wayward Wife)

fWH = Former Wayward Husband (not to be confused with XWH = Ex Wayward Husband)

COW = does it stand for Coworker Other Woman or for Crazy Other Woman?

COM = Child of Marriage (the child/ren between the wife and husband, not the OP)

Question: in the HL, it says that MOP = maybe other person. I always thought it stood for "married other person"? Has the definition changed, or am I just behind?

[This message edited by silverhopes at 10:42 AM, September 5th (Wednesday)]


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
"Not my monkeys. Not my circus." ~Polish proverb (<~~~ as a codependent person, this comes in handy sometimes!)

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, September 5th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

silverhopes...

Most of those are already posted on the Abbreviation list in the HL, please edit to leave only the ones that are not listed.

Thank you.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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stillhere09
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, September 5th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


RA - Revenge Affair

IDK - I Don't Know

b/c - Because (I often don't put b/c; I'm not sure it would be understood.

OBS - Other Betrayed Spouse


Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M


Posts: 3020 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Ohio
2kidsandadog
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

KISA?

There's another one I can't remember now; starts with a K also.


Divorced 05/11/11 -
2kids - 20 and 22 (Thank God for them)

Too many Ddays to count. Enough said!


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SMH = shaking my head

What is YMMV?


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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avicarswife
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ILY - I love you


ILYBINILWY - I love you but I'm not in love with you

gf or GF - girlfriend

bf or BF - boyfriend

BTDT - been there done that

CS - child support - I think

OMG

CWOT - complete waste of time

YMMV - your mileage may vary

[This message edited by avicarswife at 11:58 PM, September 6th (Thursday)]


BS: 47 (me)
WH: 51
Married 26 yrs, 3 kids (16-24)
D-Days 2012: 23 - 24 May + TT
D-Day 2013: 12 Apr OW#3
mOW #1 EA yrs PA Feb 2009-end 2011
mOW #2 EA months PA 4 months 2010
OW #3 PA single time 2010
Status: Maybe 'R'

Posts: 711 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: "down-under"
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, September 8th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

KISA = Knight In Shining Armor

Mostly sarcastic.


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, September 8th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can anyone tell me what IIRC means? I've seen it a cew times and can't for the life of me figure it out. Thanks.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, September 9th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IIRC = If I recall correctly


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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PanicAttack53
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, September 10th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

JMO = Just My Opinion
KHYF = Know How You Feel
KNIM = Know What I Mean
SIL = Son in Law (or Sister in Law as in abrev. thread)


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 60 | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

Posts: 868 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, September 10th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks NIK.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 5858 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
fyou143
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Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is KWIM? I can't figure that one out and been seeing it here on SI and another blog and can't figure it out


BS(me) - 26
WH - 34
DDay 6/24/12 at 2:04 p.m.
DDay 2 5/8/13-5/22/13 KIK App
2 Children ages 5 (boy) and 2 (girl)
I'm sorry is a statement I won't do it again is a promise how do i make it up to you is a responsibility

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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

KWIM= Know What I Mean?

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