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User Topic: New Beginnings and You
need_hope
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, December 10th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage



Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


Posts: 1741 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, March 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13801 | Registered: Jul 2011
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13801 | Registered: Jul 2011
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4205 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
jackie89
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, I never ventured down there bc I did think it was geared more toward new relationships, and I knew that I was nowhere near there!

I will be posting there next weekend...


Separated/divorcing

"The Secret of Change is to focus all your energy - not on fighting the old, but on building the new" ~~Lori Greiner FB post~~


Posts: 509 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
SBB
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Default  Posted: 5:52 AM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I remember being too nervous to post in NB where all the big kids played.

Then I saw a thread just like this and mosied on over. I realised I WAS in my NB. So many positive and incremental changes. From little things big things grow.

They can't get rid of me now.

I have a wander through NB, D/S, General. I'm just wild like that.

[This message edited by StrongButBroken at 5:53 AM, April 22nd (Monday)]


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5609 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
CrappyLife
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Default  Posted: 6:16 AM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome. I just needed a thread like this today. And thanks for bumping.

It gives me hope that I can have a life beyond the infidelity drama that has become my life.


BBF-turned-BH: 28 (Me)
WGF-turned-WW: 28 (EmotionalFool)
POS1: a 'friend'? WW believed it was my 'best friend'!
POS2: her senior at work!
Together - 6 years
Married - 1.5 years
D-Day- 15/10/12

Don't know where we are headed..


Posts: 276 | Registered: Nov 2012
curiouswiz
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Default  Posted: 7:36 AM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank for this one Amazonia..I jump around in and out of different waters depending on my mood. Lately I've been avoiding JFO, it hurts to much and after the bombing in my hometown I've been a bit raw and so sad it wouldn't do me or anyone any good to go there.

I usually dip my toes in general then on to D/S or I can relate for the NPD fun in my life though I started there because of long term affair and sometimes NB and just recently testing the waters in fun and games..that's a tougher one for me to go to but I always get a chuckle whether I like it or not!


God bless us, everyone.

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curiouswiz
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Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oops..doubles

[This message edited by curiouswiz at 7:38 AM, April 22nd (Monday)]


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
SweetheartVixen
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for this post, a good reminder for us newbies to venture in there.
I was told by STBX that I am dating and have a guy since I told daughter I was "peaceful" without the lies.

Truth be known, its very difficult especially when I have had all these medical issues that dont stop. Its hard not to have a support system or a body to hug when I am feeling so alone and scared.


BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...

DD 6-14


Posts: 3102 | Registered: Jul 2004 | From: somewhere over the rainbow
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 11:10 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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phmh
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Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


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dindy
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Default  Posted: 3:58 AM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great post!

My new beginnings are getting better by the day. Recently I've been able to read a book without feeling distracted in my mind, something I used to do a lot.

Even though I'm on a nice plateau regarding my healing at them moment, I'm really enjoying my own company again.

Long may it continue for us! :)


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wanted to bump this. I know that the holidays can be a tough time for a lot of people, but they can also be an opportunity for fresh starts, new beginnings, reclaiming life and making it your own!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4205 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Thefly559
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Default  Posted: 6:44 AM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great positive post. But I have to say that going into new beginnings for me is almost like going into jfo. I get pain from jfo sometimes when I read the pain that I once experienced. I get jealous of the new beginnings because I read of the success after divorce that I do not have yet. Heaven and hell. I am still in purgatory. I do understand and I do venture once in awhile. Hopefully ill be there full time soon. Thank you for the post and great explanation.


"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

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Lost15
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


me(BS)-34 him(WS)-32 DS-15
Married 15 years
Blindsided with divorce 07-12-13
DD-08-1-13 OW-40ish,married 20 yrs, with 4 kids she abandoned
Divorcing and trying to move one tiny step forward at a time.

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4205 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4205 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^^^^ LOVE It!!!!!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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