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User Topic: Three things
ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. My son called last night to say he's coming to visit!!!

2. My crazed puppy is finally becoming a companion

3. I'm in a pretty good place financially for the first time since the divorce...


Me: BW (55)
Him: WH (62)
7/14/11 - Divorced

Posts: 1886 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: another world
phmh
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Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. I got caught in a downpour on my way home from work tonight (I bike commute) and wound up having a memorable ride home. It's amazing how much a good attitude helps when things don't exactly go your way. I'm feeling pretty bad-ass right now.

2. My parrot figured out a particularly tough foraging toy. For years, I'd been making it easier for her to get her treat, but I forgot this morning and she did it anyway. I totally underestimated her!

3. I usually try to keep my three things dating-free, but not today as I have met a man who is kind, funny, similar interests, etc. It's still super early days, so I'm just living in the moment and enjoying the ride.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3453 | Registered: Dec 2011
Survivor3512
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1) yesterday was my 1st antiversary...and I didn't really care!
2) my girlfriends came over last night and we had so much fun just talking. It was great!
3) I'm rockin' a pretty hot dress today and work and have gotten several compliments. Yay!

[This message edited by Survivor3512 at 1:32 PM, August 1st (Thursday)]


Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S.
phmh
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Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. It's the weekend!!!!!!!

2. Did my first 20 mile run of the season, and I feel great! I got talked into doing a couple of 50Ks this fall (usually I just do one marathon) so I need to step up my mileage from where I usually am.

3. Life is good. I am just so happy and content.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3453 | Registered: Dec 2011
persevere
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1) I have my house to myself this weekend - both adult kids are out of town!
2) A good friend dropped by and fixed my outdoor propane grill so I won't blow myself up!
3) I have some work for Monday to do at home today, but other than that I am just enjoying being home with just the dogs!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4663 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
phmh
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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. My parrots and I are currently having a dance party. They've got some moves :)

2. I'm having dinner with one of my good friends tomorrow night. It got moved up from Friday, so I get to see her one day earlier.

3. Getting a haircut this weekend. I am quite past due for one, so I can't wait to have nice ends again!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3453 | Registered: Dec 2011
phmh
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Blech. Had bad day today, so I particularly need to think about good things!

1. It is not winter. I can still ride my bike to/from work. I usually get home while there's still light out. I need to enjoy that while I can!

2. My dinner last night with my friend was fantastic. We are opposites in so many ways, but we are soul-mate friends. I feel so lucky to know her!

3. My sister is moving across country to grad school, which makes me very sad, but my parents brought over her old bed (for my guest room) and dresser (for my clothes) so I can delay purchasing those things a little longer and focus my money on fixing up the house. Yay!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3453 | Registered: Dec 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Needing to practice some gratitude today.

1. I got a full night's sleep and woke up at my leisure this morning.

2. I have friends who care about me and check on me when I go dark.

3. I have a large, diverse, and (mostly) loving family that pulls together when the clouds are forming.

Who else is feeling the need for gratitude today?


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 26112 | Registered: Aug 2011
Blackhair
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Content  Posted: 10:10 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

-Did not had a good sleep last night but luckily my babysitter( full time) showed up and looking after the babies now, so I can catch up some sleep.

- My twin boys BD today, so many friends/ family called " Happy BD"!

-Beautiful sunny day as it rained for the past weekend!


M: 10 years
DD:5 DS Twin: 2 yrs old
DDay: Earlier 2013, WS flew/met many times with a Philippine girl found online (20 yrs younger)
SA finalized 6 months after DD. divorcing...
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!

Posts: 177 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
phmh
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Default  Posted: 6:57 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK, I could use some strengthening of my gratitude muscles!

1. Tomorrow marks 3 months in my house, and I still LOVE it. Every morning I wake up, look around at the beauty that is my house, and feel so lucky to live here.

2. Even when my job is stressful (TODAY), I work with good people, do interesting work, and am well-compensated. And I can eat whatever I want for dinner when I get home, even if all I want is a big bowl of pretzels and some cheese. (Not every day, or I'd be malnourished, but definitely tonight!)

3. To burn off some of my work stress, I biked home like a demon and made it home in record time. Even ran into a friend at a stoplight (he was in his car.) It was cool enough that I could bike as fast as I want and not have to worry about turning into a sweat ball.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3453 | Registered: Dec 2011
Ann124
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Default  Posted: 6:58 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All is good with no worries...

1) My oldest DS and his long term girlfriend just book their flight to come here (my home) for Thanksgiving! Yay So excited...
2) I have met someone that I am enjoying getting to know better.
3) All is good with no worries ...


Posts: 387 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Back Home ... And feeling Great!!
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1) I found my kindle last night so now I can finish reading the Game of Thrones series!

2) Did a solo hike after work yesterday; got to try out some new gear and made great time.

3) It's Friday


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3521 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. I am managing this hectic fall and somehow still finding little bits of me time here and there.

2. Teslet got to see his very first rainbow yesterday. Priceless.

3. Think I made a new friend this week. I am so grateful to no longer be isolated and to have people in real life with whom I can share my joys and sorrows!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4727 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Ann124
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Default  Posted: 6:54 AM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1) Total Acceptance: from my three adult kids about me dating, from my youngest (whom I was worried about) "Mom I hear how much happier you are and I am so happy for you!"
2) Total Acceptance of just being who I am without any type of ridicule from a person I am getting to know
3) I am embracing the total acceptance of myself and being able to express the difference between my wants vs needs and it is all a great place to be ... no matter where it takes me!

Posts: 387 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Back Home ... And feeling Great!!
Stillhurting1977
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went for a fabulous walk with my two year old son

My new guy texted me and said this weekend can't come quick enough so he can kiss me and have me in his arms again.

I made my patient at work smile


D day Sept 2011
D Day # 2 March 15, 2013 (he never stopped the first affair, it went underground)
Me BW 36
Him WH 37
One little guy: 26 months
Status: Seperated, Divorcing

" Noone can make you feel inferior without your consent" Eleanor Ro


Posts: 159 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Canada
Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 5:42 AM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1) Been getting in better shape for the fall running race season. Doing a lot of stomach exercises.
2)My kids are doing well. Daughter really enjoys her new job downtown Chicago and my son loves college in Louisville where he pledged Pike to be like his Dad.
3) On the road in North Carolina. Only one more night away from home and I will be back with my beloved dogs!

Thanks PHMH!


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 6:15 AM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. Ran 20 miles on Sunday. Fastest 20 I've ever done. It felt great to get in the finish area and it wasn't crowded!

2. Teslet is obsessed with chestnuts. He found one although it was not near a chestnut tree. He was so delighted when I told him that they come from trees that he wanted to go find more. Found a chestnut tree on my drive home last night and the look of pure delight on Teslet's face when I told him I had found a tree was so freaking cute. Just makes me so grateful to be a mom

3. I'm busy and overwhelmed but still treading water and not curled up in the fetal position yet...pretty grateful for that!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4727 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. Just treated myself to a massage over lunch. Very happy I can afford to do that.

2. Happy DD16 will go for her Seal of Biliteracy in my native language, German. Proud that she embraces her heritage fully.

3. Excited to go and see my favorite German singer in SF on Friday night. Going with a wonderful group of friends and colleagues and will sing my little heart out.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so glad that I am in a place where I can post 3 things! That did not count for the first one

1. My new house is beginning to feel like a home.

2. Received my first paper back from my mediation class/internship with the comments "Spectacular" and "Excellent".

3. My 3 DD's are settling into school nicely. 2 in college and 1 in HS


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1709 | Registered: Mar 2004
phmh
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. I'm starting to seriously think about decorating my house, now that I've been here over three months (!!!) and have settled in. I found some fabulous light switch and outlet covers on etsy and can't wait for them to come. Also some amazing lights. My house will be so beautiful and all me!

2. I took tomorrow off of work as I hadn't used much (any) vacation so far. So my weekend starts tonight! (I am meeting a friend at 5:30 tomorrow morning to run, so I'll still go to bed early tonight.)

3. Our local film festival starts tonight! I have 12 vouchers, and free tickets for a couple of other movies. I am going to be watching movies like a madwoman!

4. My local favorite independent radio station is having a party this weekend as well. I'm friends with a couple of the DJs, and it's going to be so much fun!!!

5. I'd been feeling a bit down lately, but then my parents visited this past weekend and all was right with the world again. I am so lucky to have them.

6. I just finished an amazing book that, once again, made me so happy I was born in the time that I was and not several decades earlier. And I have to give my WWII vet friend a HUGE hug next time I see him. I can't imagine.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


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