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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:53 AM, April 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No,there's a guideline about those kind of stories. TR


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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hit-by-a-train
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, April 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am also female and I didn't switch teams either.

Edited to say this: I was attempting to be funny and lighthearted with my comment about the bat. Since my joke fell flat, and even offended, I removed the comment here and I sincerely apologize!

[This message edited by hit-by-a-train at 8:38 AM, April 18th (Thursday)]


In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus
**Beloved hubby died at home 1/28/2013, age 61..** God sent me two good men in a row......and saved the best for last. Grief & joy coexist.

Posts: 2279 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: USA
JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, April 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*Sigh.*

[This message edited by JessicaFL127 at 10:45 PM, April 17th (Wednesday)]


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
I.will.survive
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Default  Posted: 5:32 AM, April 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love the er "bat" that the gentleman who helped me step down from the bus swings!

Woohoo!


Posts: 530 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: east coast
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:51 AM, April 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow....tmi


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13554 | Registered: Jul 2011
newnormal
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, April 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had to go back a few pages to find the bus. Did we lose the drivers?

I'd like to book a seat in advance please. Filing soon, have been on the bus for 3 months now. Tmi alert: Vj is one happy camper ever since then. My state is a 60 day to D, so can I be an official bus rider by then? Please, pretty please?


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


Posts: 1033 | Registered: Dec 2008
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for some of our newer NBers.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just over ten months for me. You'd think they would have installed some more comfortable seats in this thing.

Posts: 1557 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Looked back to page 5 and found my first post on this thread. I'm now at the two-year mark. Damn.

At least D has been filed. I restocked the cooler ... anyone want a margarita? Come on back, rocks and salt, I assume?


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1086 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
better4me
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm with hopeless, the seats are getting uncomfortable after 11 and 1/2 months. ugh. I'd love a marg, heartbroken. At least I still have alcohol! Thanks.

Where is the bus heading now? I think we were in Australia last time I looked out the window...


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3004 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah; you novices I may not be the driver, but I'm at least the conductor. I've lost track of how long it's been, but it was definitely pre-2006 when I hopped on. I wasn't even an SI member then...


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 19786 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
missherlots
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Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo,
4 months and counting. I will be here for while. I need to take the time to regroup and get a clean and healthy mind.


Pain and suffering is part of life, but I choose to feel love and compassion for all people excluding no one.

Posts: 95 | Registered: Jan 2011
foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 2:56 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm hoping to hop back on soon.

Need to stay a bit longer next time I think.

Anyone want me to pick anything up for them on my way back? Wine, cakes, biscuits etc....?


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 605 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

2 years for me.
Almost to the day.
My last experience was HB so
Don't really think that counts.
I may ride the bus as long as Sad.
Don't really see myself dipping my toe in anytime soon.

Nope.
I'm going to install my own Lazy Boy chair in here since the seats are not too comfy.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
WS: Him 49 (Together 12 years)
D-Day April 18, 2011, Him:out Sept. 11, 2011..moved June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1309 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pick up some cookies and wine please. Arbor Mist Blackberry Merlot (the LARGE bottle) preferably.

25 months but who's counting

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6451 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
woundedwidow
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Default  Posted: 11:31 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I told y'all how long I've been on the bus, your eyes would fall out onto your laptops! My GYN and I even joke about my "reborn" virgin status.


Be careful what you wish for the most - you may get it.

Posts: 363 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: VA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Anyone want me to pick anything up for them on my way back? Wine, cakes, biscuits etc....?
Yes, please and thank you. In fact, I think it may be time for a little fiesta to wake up the napping folks in the back.

Driver - we need a party spot!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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cmego
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I am going to settle into my seat and enjoy the view for awhile.

Pass the chocolate, please.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4007 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Too freaking long! I need a skateboard or something.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 727 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
hit-by-a-train
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My man was on the bus for 11 years and I was on for almost 7 myself. A message of hope: the pieces parts still function well even after long disuse and even past 61 years of age.

[This message edited by hit-by-a-train at 1:49 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)]


In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus
**Beloved hubby died at home 1/28/2013, age 61..** God sent me two good men in a row......and saved the best for last. Grief & joy coexist.

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