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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
time2grow
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, March 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm really tired of this damn bus.

NH I know the feeling (or is that lack of feeling)

Anyway, 3 years 2 months and counting. Maybe not for long though, when I have a minute to gather my thoughts Ill have to post in NB.


Posts: 1721 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Missouri
Griefstricken25
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Member # 29183
Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, March 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm on the bus, but I have to admit, I'm riding voluntarily, and not too unhappily. I will only have sex in marriage, so even a dating partner doesn't mean I'm getting off.

However, every once in awhile, man, the bus stinks.

Except the people. I am in good company. As far as I can tell, you all smell great.


Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011

Posts: 2524 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: A better place
CharlieFoxtrot
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Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, March 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Forewarning::

Henceforth, I reserve the right to reply "That's what she said" any and every time someone says they are getting off.


Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.

Posts: 505 | Registered: Jan 2013
nightshadow
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Default  Posted: 1:36 AM, March 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im riding the bus. I thinking it will be a long time before I get off. (no pun intended) Getting off the bus scares me at the moment!


ME30 WOWZER
SON4
"The worst part about being lied to is knowing that you weren't worth the truth." ~Unknown~
"They can't kill you and eat you"
"fuck them and feed them fish"
"Don't let the goofy shit get y

Posts: 864 | Registered: Mar 2010
npain
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Member # 33539
Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, March 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm riding the bus 19months now. I need to take time to heal. And since I will only have sex in marriage, I have resigned myself to ride on this bus for a long while...sigh


S, Filed 4/17/14--YAY, ME!!

Posts: 512 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: New York
SouthernGal
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, March 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm still on the bus. Probably will be for a very long time ... which is super pathetic since I don't even have a reason (like waiting for marriage) to blame. Three more months and I will be marking my 3rd year on the bus.

I need a drink. Who's tending bar today?


BS (Me) XWH (him) M nearly 16 yrs
1 DD (teens)
D-day #1 12/09, #2 2/10
Divorced 10/6/10

Posts: 3862 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The Deep (Fried) South
need_hope
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, March 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know who is pouring SG but I'll join you for the drinking!

I don't want to hit 3 years. Hell, I don't want to hit 2 years. 1 year and 2 months is bad enough!


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


Posts: 1741 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
SouthernGal
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, March 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NH,

After the second year it is just like not riding a bike ... you hardly notice.

I guess I slide behind the bar. It's a bit brisk here today so I will be having an Irish coffee. What can I get for you, NH?


BS (Me) XWH (him) M nearly 16 yrs
1 DD (teens)
D-day #1 12/09, #2 2/10
Divorced 10/6/10

Posts: 3862 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The Deep (Fried) South
need_hope
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Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, March 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SG,

I actually did go through some periods of hardly noticing over the past 14 months. But I'm really noticing right now.

I think I need a Captain & Coke. Make it a double.


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


Posts: 1741 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
SoHappyNow
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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, March 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Move over, please, and allow me a seat......beloved hubby was on blood pressure meds, so I think it was sometime in late 2006 or early 2007 since our last attempt at doing the deed.

Am I at least getting close to earning my born again virgin merit badge?


In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus

***Used to be hit-by-a-train***
Remarried 2/14/14


Posts: 2295 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: USA
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, March 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm in class. We're talking about loss of consortium. Teacher is telling a story about a case where the client was trying to argue loss of consortium with himself. That's taking the bus to a whole new level.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13798 | Registered: Jul 2011
tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, March 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey bus riders, I just made some Pozole Rojo with a compliment of garnishments and it is fucking orgasmic

Now who's got dessert?


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4684 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, March 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just finished a bailey's milkshake... I can bring you one.


[This message edited by Amazonia at 8:18 PM, March 12th (Tuesday)]


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13798 | Registered: Jul 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, March 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beep beep! Swinging the bus around for the weekend pickup.

Who's tending bar, 'cause Mama needs a drink.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25726 | Registered: Aug 2011
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, March 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm no bartender, but I will belly up with you, NIK. After the week I've had moneywise, I hope it's either Ladies' Night or someone else will shout a round. Hey, I think that monster sized bottle of Bailey's will keep us all happy for a loooong time. We'll have to give it its own seat!

ETA: Thanks for that, Ama. And you're not even officially on the bus right now, are you?

[This message edited by thebighurt at 7:08 PM, March 22nd (Friday)]


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2381 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Where is the bus headed now?

I'll have a Bailey's and hot chocolate.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5264 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Coming up on 2 years on this particular bus....Pour me a SoCo and Coke please


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1777 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Compartmented
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Default  Posted: 12:23 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beep! Beep! Looks like we needed to swing around for new riders AND stop by the liquor store...

How are we doing on food?


Posts: 1273 | Registered: Aug 2010
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a great bottle of rum that I'll contribute. And I'm really getting hungry. Have to start looking around for eatz.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2381 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
tesla
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, I'm about through my bag of chips...I second the eatz!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4684 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
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