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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sigh...polo...
Only 4 months...seems like 4 m-effin years.
Settling in for a long ride...nice to see I've got such great company.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4546 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo.

Still lickin' the windows at the back of the bus. I do have some Gummy Bears though if anyone wants some. They have been in my pocket so they are nice and soft.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1698 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Guess I am riding this bus too! Six months for me. Mentally I think I want to stay on this bus forever, my body says I can't!


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." ó Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 660 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

polo...4 years


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2605 | Registered: Jan 2010
trying_2_recover
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Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG a few more months and it'll be 7yrs. I'm not sure how that happened.

Posts: 205 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Washington
sunfish
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Its been...4 weeks - OMG... Years, really? I am so scared. I guess my "toy box" is going to get upgraded!

...polo?

And if I have to be on this bus, I am so glad its with all of you. I love these kinds of posts. I will pass on the gummy bears, thanks.


Me BS (49)
Him (STBXH (49)
DDay#1 07/10
DDay #2 08/10
DDay#3 09/10
02/11 He moved in for R
4/4/12 - he wants a Divorce...
4/18/12 - he moved out
11/13 - after much negotiation, we decide to R.

"...because you don't move to a sm


Posts: 160 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Left Coast
Harriet
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo. It's been a long time since I checked in here - I used to go to the "just found out" but it was too raw and depressing for me. You guys who are moving on (like me) are much more fun, in spite of the pain I know we are all going through. Oh, and I guess it's been...holy sh** almost a year!


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 385 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
booger bear
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

there's just this gent that would like to have me join him *in his truck* for a while....having dinner with him tonight.

No not in his truck not for your first time off the bus ... it is very fun tho makes ya feel young again ...

I will be 3yrs in Nov ... so I guess I am not the driver which is ok ... I have some road rage and ad that to lack of some good loving and I am very dangerous with a full lethal weapon ...

maybe we could be the new karma bus ... how funny would that be ... get run over by a bus load of us it would be a violent funny ending ...


I am fiercely independent and I wonít apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For those of us on this bus so long we've fossilized, will the newbies please take turns tying us oldies out on the "prow" of the bus? I think it would be fun to be a figurehead as we careen across the oceans & highways of celibacy. Just pick the bugs out of my teeth when you place me back on my bench.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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brokenapart
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Its been...4 weeks -

You are SO not on the bus yet.

The rule used to be six months. A few people sought a 3 month waiver. But 4 weeks?

come for a visit, but don't take a seat yet. And bring snacks!
2.5 years here.

[This message edited by brokenapart at 6:54 PM, May 13th (Sunday)]


me- BS
2 great kids
Divorced & living again.

"Let go or get dragged" - beaner

Life is Good


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LoveHerStill
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Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo,

Last time was with XWW.

It still works just fine, reminded every morning with the tent pole!

Moving in two Weeks! Gonna settle in, then we shall see!

No hurry, but I have never been a fan of riding the bus, both in reality, and figuratively!

I paid my fare, just not sure what stop to get off!

Hahaha, I said get off!


Me BH-45
Her WW-44
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011

There is hope. Once you truly commit to focusing on yourself and letting go, it comes back, and you will appreciate it like never before.


Posts: 441 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Seattle, WA
lost and lonely
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo

6 months.....6 long, lonely months!


Me: 36
WxH: 37
Together 16yrs, married 12yrs (we were 16 and 17 when we met...high school sweethearts)
2 sons
Separated 6/09, Divorced 2/11

Posts: 706 | Registered: Nov 2007
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo; it's been about 8 years for me. Since gma got off, I'm driving now.

We're on the highway to hell, and I'm the bus driver...


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 19792 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
lied2
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo

It has been 8 yrs for me I had to think about it. I have my own seat too but iding on the hood for a while actually sounds like it would be fun.

I have to say I am glad I am not on the bus alone. I wish none of us where on here but it is nice to have company.

[This message edited by lied2 at 6:08 PM, May 12th (Saturday)]


The grass isn't greener on the other side of the fence. It is astro turf.

The essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves.


A clean house is the sign of a broken computer.


Posts: 8196 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Ontario, Canada
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For those of us on this bus so long we've fossilized, will the newbies please take turns tying us oldies out on the "prow" of the bus? I think it would be fun to be a figurehead as we careen across the oceans & highways of celibacy. Just pick the bugs out of my teeth when you place me back on my bench.

I could be a snow plow!!!!!
But I do have hope. I am not dead.

***Cannot figure out how to make the quote in bold letters...sorry...Nature Girl!

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 6:18 PM, May 12th (Saturday)]


There is life on the other side of hell.

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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo! Seven months-- good thing I packed my slippers, bathrobe, and a few great books, because I think it's going to be a LONG ride!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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booger bear
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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have my own seat too but iding on the hood for a while actually sounds like it would be fun.


I am fiercely independent and I wonít apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

Posts: 18725 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here, but not there ...
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

allright...

Pollo! (not misspelled. That would be po-yo. Spanish for CHICKEN... cause that is what I am.)

2.5 years and I think it is a fine ride. Climate controlled, I got the remote to the on board movies, and no one seems to care about directions or speed. I'm good.


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5587 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
treegirls
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo! Gosh, just figured it out - at 5 years 2 months.

Is there a map to help with directions on how to reach a destination and that also explains what to do when you get there?


Me 46 years old
M 13 years, together 17 years
Two girls, ages 13 and 7
WH died July 1, 2009 at age 46 from pancreatic cancer diagnosed July 2005. Affair began Nov. 2006 when cancer metastasized.

Posts: 419 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Illinois
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 11:14 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We're on the highway to hell

Great, now I'm singing AC/DC...


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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