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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
Nature_Girl
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Funny  Posted: 1:37 AM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm driving the damn bus! It's been years & years & years, people!!! I'm a friggin' virgin again!

You'd think being married to a bonafide sex addict would have had some perks, right? NOT! Why is it that sex addicts don't want to have sex with their partners? I know there's a joke in there somewhere...


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10007 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm starting to believe this damn thing does. not. stop. anywhere. It's like some sort of cosmic joke or something.

Please pass the margaritas. And the snacks. Who cares if I get fat? It's not like BOB would notice.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15433 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How long is the wait before I'm officially on the bus?

Sigh. You're all coming to pick me up soon.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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gma56
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ama, if you feel you are the bus then you are riding.
At least the bus doesn't stink, has good drinks/food, goes to great places and the company is fun.
hugs
gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, it's been almost 2 months. No real expectation of getting off at least until I finish school in 14 months.

*sigh*

Pass the booze.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13858 | Registered: Jul 2011
kernel
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can we swing by London? I'd love an in-person look at all those men in skimpy gym/pool wear. Might as well look at what we're missing. I might be too old for them but my eyes still work.

Ama - somewhere on here I think it said 6 months was the minimum for riding the bus, otherwise you're visiting. Not my rule, just passing it on.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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k94ever
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo........

15 months and there is NOTHING in sight for me.

Thank goodness for BOB.

I just made some bread...anybody want a slice?

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll take some bread, why not? I'm in the same state so it might work out.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5336 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey! I have a one-year antiversary coming up this week and got the fixings for some delicious chocolate martinis to celebrate!!! Who's in??

(Can the driver partake on this route?? I don't know why not!!??)


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2463 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
noone
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Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was hanging out with a friend of mine last night. We've always had fun together...lots of laughing...last night was one of those nights. Except not. One thing lead to another and I'm giving my seat to Ama . I'm sure I'll be right back as last night was shocking and likely to never happen again (unfortunately)..so...keep my spot warm!


what the caterpillar believes is the end of life, the butterfly knows is just the beginning

Posts: 444 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Hell
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

dang noone! Can you make that announcement ON THE BUS???


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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noone
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sorry . Trust me, you'll be picking me up at the next stop!


what the caterpillar believes is the end of life, the butterfly knows is just the beginning

Posts: 444 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Hell
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am not getting off. Hand cuffed to the luggage rack in case I forget. Gave the keys to gma.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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gma56
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Default  Posted: 11:42 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have too much on my overflowing plate right now. Sad can drive and I will drink myself numb.

In about 2-3 mo my life should be more stable and I will again drive all the riders to where ever their hearts desires.

Does ONS mean you are off ? Doesn't seem fair, maybe you can ride as a guest of the bus ?


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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noone
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, July 30th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does ONS mean you are off ? Doesn't seem fair, maybe you can ride as a guest of the bus ?

works for me! I've never had a ONS before. Guess there's a first time for everything..


what the caterpillar believes is the end of life, the butterfly knows is just the beginning

Posts: 444 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Hell
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, July 30th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As someone who is still licking the windows at the back of the bus, a ONS is still hopping off the bus and announcing it over the bus's loud speaker is cruel enough that the time jumps up to six months and two days.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1761 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 3:16 AM, July 30th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

not the keys to the bus, gma. The keys to my handcuffed hands...

temptation is stirring and I am just not ready yet. I know you can pocket those keys and that they are safe.

You should not have to drive. I will shout for drinks.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Swinging the bus around to see if there are any newbies out there waiting for a lift.

Hello? Newbies? Anyone out there? Olly olly oxenfree!!!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 6:57 PM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

not the keys to the bus, gma. The keys to my handcuffed hands...
Well that is a different story Care.

I'm still dealing with D settlement stuff so haven't been tempted to even look.

If I ever say anything about wanting or thinking of marriage, get me an attorney and therapist. Damn I can't do this in my life again !!!!!
2xs is enough. Or maybe it's like labor and you know you had a bad time and hurt like hell but you do it again and have another baby ?? This shit never ends.

Going to be riding this damn bus for a long time.
gma

[This message edited by gma56 at 6:57 PM, September 6th (Thursday)]


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, see dammit gma, you missed that post and now it is too damn late...

Give me seat to someone else. It was a good ride!

*ducking off the bus before I get thrown off...


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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