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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, May 11th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ETA: If you're wondering what "The Bus" is all about? It's pretty simple. The Bus is for anyone who has been celibate for 6 months or more.

The Bus Riders may be out of action, but they're a rowdy and hilarious bunch. Come on in. They don't bite. Much.


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Just shouting a "Marco" and hoping to hear a "Polo" or two. Nine months on the bus and no stops planned here.

Driver? Where the heck are we?

[This message edited by nowiknow23 at 1:32 PM, March 24th (Monday)]


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25063 | Registered: Aug 2011
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 12:11 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not sure if 3.5 months qualifies for a seat????

If so ... "polo" said with a sigh


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
marzipan
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Default  Posted: 12:11 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo.

Closest I got was with Steve 15 months ago. But he was wiener-withholding. He would do everything BUT that (including things that IMHO should happen MUCH later) because "intercourse changes things." Unlike those other things???

Well then, there was Harry and his phone sex before he turned crazy. He was something else. Unfortunately I was a disappointment in that area. He tended to render me speechless, which killed the mood on his side.

[This message edited by marzipan at 12:12 AM, May 12th (Saturday)]


me--Mean Batshit Crazy Pottymouth
him-- Swampy the WH
divorce DONE!!!!

http://soulmateshmoopies.wordpress.com/
PART 16-- "You are Such a Good Mother"


Posts: 4076 | Registered: May 2010
booger bear
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sigh ....

polo ....


I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

Posts: 18753 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: OK - Hot as hell here !!!!!!
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo....until tomorrow....maybe??


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5429 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:56 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo.

*sigh*

Pass the snacks, please..... if I have to ride the bus, I refuse to watch calories.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15383 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 2:22 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Umm Polo, think I know what you mean

5 1/2 months, although it seems much easier being on the bus not living with a WW than it was being on it when we were together.... That was far too frustrating for words!

VERY nervous about getting off it at present... In reality it's been a very long time!


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 607 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:28 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Months? Y'all count months? People, please. I've got years & years on the damn bus. I have my own bench on the bus with my friggin' name engraved on it.

Months? Amateurs!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9538 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 2:33 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^^^ LOL


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 607 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 6:53 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you Nature Girl! STBX left 3/10. There wasn't anything happening for at least a year before that!
It may be that I am the bus driver and this a permanent position. The benefits stink!


There is life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1620 | Registered: Mar 2004
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:25 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah - my people! Welcome aboard, newbies. The bus may suck, but the company sure doesn't.

Where's our driver? Didn't Sad take over when gma resigned?


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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SouthernGal
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Default  Posted: 7:27 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo. Damn.

I celebrate my 43rd b-day on the 24th of this month. And on the 24th of next month I celebrate the end of my 2nd (and start of my 3rd) year on the damn bus. Grrrrrrrr

Oh! But hey ... I brought margarita cupcakes made with real tequila! Enjoy!


BS (Me) XWH (him) M nearly 16 yrs
1 DD (teens)
D-day #1 12/09, #2 2/10
Divorced 10/6/10

Posts: 3862 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The Deep (Fried) South
better4me
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Default  Posted: 7:34 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo
8 months on the bus here...
Marzi, our stories have a couple of common themes...4 weeks ago I got close, but no cigar


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3098 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 7:52 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo

I've been here so long I think I am officially a virgin again. I don't even want to think about how long or else I will cry!


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17606 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
turned123
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

dreamboat don't cry! 7 years...I have my own fleet!


me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids

Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee
travels
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo

Officially revirginized. I'd move over to let someone else sit with me, but all the damn cob webs hold me down.


When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.

Posts: 3771 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: PA
macakipa
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo

5 months...yes I am a newbie...I hope these bench seats are comfortable...


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:29 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo....until tomorrow....maybe??
Quiet everyone!
Devistatedmom? Is there something you wish to share with the bus?


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Quiet everyone!
Devistatedmom? Is there something you wish to share with the bus?

Well, we will see. But I don't want to start a mutiny on the bus. I've enjoyed my seat here for the past 2 years...there's just this gent that would like to have me join him in his truck for a while....having dinner with him tonight.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5429 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo here too.

This damn bus is getting crowded again----

Can we drive by the Grand Canyon? I've always wanted to see it in person. The view of it on the wheelchair commercial just doesn't get it.

WHG


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

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