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User Topic: Betrayed Men- Part 8
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, June 26th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is this like that part of the night where one guy gets way too drunk and puts on a sparkly dress and wig? cuz I always use that as a signal to go because I've been up way too late.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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dday3302011
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, June 26th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last call. You don't have to go home, but you can't stay here.


BH-41 (me)
xWW-42
M 11yrs, together 14
DDay 3-30-2011
2 kids, 9 & 7
1 yr LTA w/MOM
Divorced 5-16-2013

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wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, June 26th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

noescape shall heretofore be known as noescapefromGenderIdentityIssues.


Machiavellian idiot savant

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noescape
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Default  Posted: 5:07 PM, June 26th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fuck, I forgot to take off my dress before posting here

WAL!!! Haven't seen you for ages, how you been?

Now that you all know my secret,I guess I can openly cross dress here and ask jjct for a game of chess

Side hugs to all in BM with my sparkly panties on}}}}}}


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wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, June 26th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you have sparkly panties or a vampire penis?

Type slow, because I'm taking notes.


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jjct
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Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, June 26th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mmmnot in the mood to be spanked by a cross-dressing vampire right now.
Maybe I'll call you later.


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noescape
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Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, June 26th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sparkly panties and vampire penises can be mutually exclusive. I guess there still a lot you have to learn.

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Neithan
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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, June 26th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great discussion. I'm glad I found this thread. How do I get to parts 1-7?


Me: BH
Her: WW
D-Day: 2/19/2010
Married 1981
That which does not kill me makes me more irritable

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wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 7:21 AM, June 27th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey, Neithan -- welcome to the Menz thread.

Looks like only 3-7 are still available on the server. You can find them here (in reverse chronological order):

7.
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=389011

6.
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=378994

5.
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=353067

4.
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=311916

3.
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=198931


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jjct
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, June 28th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3VBDOKbuug

It's in Dflat for cross harp.
Good.
Cuz I don't hafta wet my lips.
The dam tears are enough & I gotta new tagline. Yah. I'm a happy guy. Let's jam.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3VBDOKbuug


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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 12:35 PM, June 29th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I missed the sparkly panties SI meme, explain.

Since we're sharing tunes -

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c9aLA4SrhWY


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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noescape
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DOH!  Posted: 4:48 PM, June 29th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That goes back to me posting as WW by mistake. I just spun the sparkly dress to panties for added kinkiness.

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time2grow
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, June 30th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

StillGoing - Nice, I have not heard Slash before.

I find this one still appropriate.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCaPa0l60Jc


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noescape
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Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, July 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wake up guys.

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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, July 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I'm all ranted out for now.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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noescape
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, July 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

True, I've taken to venting and also contributing (just a bit) in other threads. I guess I have reached a comfort level to venture out of BM after being here for months; which were, mind you, infinitely helpful.

BM}}}}}

and thats without my sparklys on.

Whats the update MPB?


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bluecali
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, July 4th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Question for you gentlemen. FWW's (now STBXW's) side of the bed has hardly cooled off, and there are women coming out of the woodwork, flirting with me. Though I am not interested in getting involved at this point, the attention is nice, but WTF? Was this always going on, and I just didn't notice? Is it because my wedding ring is gone? Is the ratio of single men to women in their mid 40s to mid 50s out of whack? Just, WTF?

[This message edited by bluecali at 2:34 PM, July 4th (Wednesday)]


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DDAY 12/1/11
Separated and uncertain

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DontTreadOnMe
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, July 5th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Question for you gentlemen. FWW's (now STBXW's) side of the bed has hardly cooled off, and there are women coming out of the woodwork, flirting with me. Though I am not interested in getting involved at this point, the attention is nice, but WTF? Was this always going on, and I just didn't notice? Is it because my wedding ring is gone? Is the ratio of single men to women in their mid 40s to mid 50s out of whack? Just, WTF?

You are not crazy. And it is not an age issue.

I have been having very similar experiences. DDay changed me a lot. But one of the good things about it was that after 5 months, I have more confidence than I ever did. I also take better care of myself. I catch other women looking at me all time. I've also been approached by women. It is fun to just blow them off, because most think that because they are a hot woman that any guy would drop what he's doing and pursue her. Not this guy! Fk that. One woman is enough for me. And one A in the M is enough.

If you give off the "I'm not interested, go away" vibe, women seem to try even harder. (broken ones at least)


Me: WH/BH, 27 (addict in recovery)
Her: Lost333, BW/FWW, My DDay: 2/19/12, Hers: 9/29/12

Working on myself through IC, NA meetings, intensive outpatient program, and lots of digging. Praying for R.


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wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 12:47 AM, July 6th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

StillGoing - Nice, I have not heard Slash before.

Oh...oh...oh...this cannot stand.

NOT HEARD SLASH BEFORE?

The only reasonable response here is that you're under the age of 30 and your parents were country/western music dorks.

At this point, the only hope for you is to go out and purchase a copy of _Appetite for Destruction_ on LP -- not mp3, not CD, not tape...LP, just like God intended the Heroes of Rock and Roll to be heard. When you've listened to that at least once a day for two years, then you can more on to _GnR Lies_ and the Illusion albums. After another year, you can google Velvet Revolver and get started there.

Or you can just listen to this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ywQutN0j33o

This is why we need better music education in our schools. Kids growing up not knowing Slash. Everyone reading this thread needs to go out and hug a music teacher today.


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noescape
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Default  Posted: 2:16 AM, July 6th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

and you forgot to mention The Spaghetti Incident? Tch Tch. generally forgettable but the stand out "aint it fun" made it specially unique

p.s. u forgot that there WERE indeed kids brought up on hiphop and pop as well. just sayin


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