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User Topic: Betrayed Men- Part 8
noescape
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Default  Posted: 1:37 AM, May 23rd (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Mypoorboys
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Default  Posted: 8:08 AM, May 23rd (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

jjct,
Let's get spiritual! I observed the presence of Angels around me! So,onto Adam and Eve.
I associate Eve with all bad female intentions, (wrong?, yes).
We know the Eve was deceived, 2 Cor. 11:3 and 1 Tim. 2:14, but being deceived, according to scripture, is no less an offense to God or somehow excuses a person from the consequence of deceit. If anything, it may be the contrary.
I suspect God understands we are not perfect, but strive to obey his precepts within the bounds of our human soul, ie. no soul, no remorse, no consequence, no forgiveness.
Ok, you read the story, so did I, we just have a slightly different opinion regarding the peripheral dogma.
Thanks for your insight regarding, when we know enough and then can move on. I think that was, 'dead on'!
I'm just sort of stuck on the visual, connotation, ie. jjct and friends!
As friends,we agree to disagree, but in the end, we all are on the same page.
MPBs

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, May 23rd (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yah...Pubic Affairs...puhleeze!

wh5 ha! I guess one my responses to the trauma was to begin constructing a party in my head...that way, it's always with me, wherever I go.
I'm not sure I want a 'cure'.

Mpb...there's no disagreement, really...I just *think about* the difference - in us, more than how God judges it.

Fr'instance, it might go toward why we are hard-wired for the visual.
Likely? Eve was beyond any beautiful we can imagine, plus she was custom made for him.
So here she comes, traipsing along the garden path, having already eaten the fruit & he sees her, yup, nakey.

He immediately knows what happened, and also...just my imagination...I see him looking over his shoulder at the garden, then back to Eve (tough to take his eyes off, eh?), knowing he's gonna lose one - or the other. He quickly seizes the fruit from her & bit...choosing to join her.

That's all. Just my imagination.


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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, May 23rd (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


eta:

Taking that down, worried it might offend.

[This message edited by StillGoing at 10:27 AM, May 23rd (Wednesday)]


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, May 23rd (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When an attractive woman arrives, sometimes, I get a kick out of observing the reactions.
Especially in couples.

Following "the eyes" of the guy, it's not too difficult to catch the woman's reaction. It's instructive.
I can tell when a guy doesn't understand - or doesn't care about his partner's need to feel safe.

I'm really happy to report that instead of making me bitter, the result of the infidelity has made me want to be better.

If I'm a couple when the pretty woman walks by, my woman's gonna feel safe.

I haven't given up on the idea of being the old couple, leaning into each other with one word conversations and soft hand-touches.
sigh


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Default  Posted: 7:10 AM, May 24th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

jjct,
That was a very sweet, honest and calming explanation of where you are now. Thanks, I hope I can someday get to where you are.
MPBs

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, May 30th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MPB))) brother, hope it's going well for you in battle.
Thanks, & I sent a pm.

As for the rest of yas, I was wondering, does this purse go with my ensemble?

Y'all wanted a nother pic, right?


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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, May 30th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have to fill it with slim jims and ammunition and get this tat to go with it:

[This message edited by StillGoing at 11:50 AM, May 30th (Wednesday)]


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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Mypoorboys
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Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, May 30th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

jjct,
Does that come with matching shoes?
MPBs

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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, May 30th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was thinking matching ear rings


Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, May 30th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Clipons. I'm done with piercing experiences if ya kwim...
I don't do tats, but if I did - I'd do that one!
The little Tomcat I traded a border collie pup for would fit in there, as would the extra ammo, since I'd have to be fending off so many suitors hahaaa!

Shoes. I'm thinking heels, since I'm only 5'7 AND A HALF (had to get that in there, small man's disease yaknow)

Any you guys wanna game of chess? Last time I asked, I got my ass handed to me lol, some genius guy (uhhh, yeah I mean that) name of Ser something or other...

It's relaxing! And do we ever need summa dat!

I'll play all y'all! We'll call it a 'slow simul', k?
You go first. Post yer move on here. In algebraic. You first.


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SerJR
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Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, May 30th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1.e4


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, May 30th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

o SHIT!
lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
fu
ok bich
Sicilian. c5
All hail! The pubic ass kickin!
Feels kinda good.

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SerJR
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, May 30th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1.e4 c5
2.b3


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, May 30th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

k to c6

[This message edited by jjct at 8:51 PM, May 30th (Wednesday)]


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SerJR
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, May 30th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1.e4 c5
2.b3 Nc6
3.Bb2...


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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jjct
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d6

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SerJR
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1.e4 c5
2.b3 Nc6
3.Bb2 d6
4.Bb5...

Well, I gotta pack it in for the night, so I'll catch up tomorrow!


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, May 30th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

take yer time

I prefer a slow ass kikin. Gives me timeto go out out buy something.


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jjct
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, May 30th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bishop to c2, blocking the knight pin, Gnite my friend
.
see you tomorrow!

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