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User Topic: Intimacy after infidelity
Myheartstillhurt
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Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, December 9th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How to Rebuild & Affair Proof Your Marriage.. By Steven Solomon and Lorie Teagno.


Has anyone read it?

IC gave it to me yesterday and I read half the book already..

Some things I have not 100% agreed with, however, they break down the stages of marriages (which they call long term love realtionshiops, LTLR, which I kinda dont like because I sometimes find myself saying "long term affair")

I like the breakdown of the relationships so far. They also have divided affairs up in three catagories as to the "why"..

So far, so good. I will give an update when I finish it.


BS(me) 32
fWH 36 (Epicallyfailedu)
OW/xBFF of 28 years
Four girls under 11
DDay: 6/5/2010

Posts: 2011 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Michigan
ArialRose
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Default  Posted: 9:32 AM, December 9th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just ordered this. Have not received it yet. Are there activities or assignments for the individual or couple?


ArialRose-BS
in our 40's
M 28 years, together 30 years
3 DSs (adult)
D-Day: 3/23/09, Major TT 2/10/10 5/24/10,10/30/10, & 12/12/10.
Inappropriate online conversations on my part- 10/2011

FOR FUCKS SAKE!


Posts: 2165 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: arialrose
Myheartstillhurt
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, December 9th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last night I got to "The emotional self exercise" portion on page 68. That is the first exercise I have come to.

The end of each chapter has a chapter review, which I don't bother to read, but that set up reminds me of study format.

They are talking about Self intimacy (ironically abbreviated SI), I just scanned the rest of the book and didn't see any actual assignments, but I could have missed them.


BS(me) 32
fWH 36 (Epicallyfailedu)
OW/xBFF of 28 years
Four girls under 11
DDay: 6/5/2010

Posts: 2011 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Michigan
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