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annb
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, May 16th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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AFrayedKnot
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BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 6:33 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish there was a way to bookmark sites WITHIN SI so that I could save this one without having it on a computer anywhere.

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Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know of a way to bookmark threads internally, but you do have a private journal function. Maybe you could keep a list of useful threads there for your reference?


Me: BS, 40's.

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Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Check that out! Didn't see that before. Thank you.

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Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're welcome.


Me: BS, 40's.

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Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want to print this for my purse.

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Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Skan
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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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Skan
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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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AFrayedKnot
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BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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AFrayedKnot
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BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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Thiscantbhapning
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BS (Me)-48
WH-49
COW-28
PA-5 1/2 months
D-Day 5-8-11 (Happy Mother's Day to me)
Married 26 years
DS-24
DD-22
Trying to R
"Maybe this thing was a masterpiece till you tore it all up."

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Broken6
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So glad I found this to tonight. This is exactly the state we are in right now. He says he wants to move forward and wonders why I keep bringing A up. I am still searching for answers and he gives me same pat answer 'I don't know'. Anyway, this is helpful and I think I will print and show it to him. Bump it to top so I hope it will help someone else too. Thank you.


The grass isn't greener on the other side, it is greener where you water it.

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"We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us." ~J. Campbell
"In the final analysis, it is your own attitude that will make or break you, not what has happened to you." ~D. Galloway

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