I actually paid way too much to download the book and I still have it.
I did read through it. It does address the pain a WS causes adequately but seriously it is all common sense. There is no "magical" way he describes it.
My WS was not at the point that he cared yet when I bought it and that was the problem. There is no way to force someone to hear the truth unless they want to.
Also the fixes to the hurt seemed a lot like rug sweeping and mind over matter.
It was very expensive and IMO there isn't anything earth shattering in there that couldn't be found in a regular book like Not Just Friends.
If you PM me I would be willing to mail it to you.Me:BW 48
Married 25 years
DD 23 DS 21