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User Topic: Long Term Affair Part 24
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, March 26th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Laura28
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, March 26th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi all

God they opened 24 quick. Thanks so much mods.

It's a beautiful day here. About 75 degrees with a nice breeze. Wonderful after the really hot weather we've been having.

I'm going to have a lovely day.

Hope you all do too

Here's the collage. Hope you like it and I didn't miss anyone. If I did let me know. I can always add to it.

Love to all

Laura

[This message edited by Laura28 at 8:20 PM, June 7th (Tuesday)]


Married 30yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 59yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA til dday).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, March 26th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, way to rub it in Laura, we just had a blizzard here on Wednesday and new piles of fresh snow! I hate winter. I am so jealous of you, Laura.

Hope you had a wonderful day enjoying the lovely weather.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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strongish
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, March 26th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We had a lovely day here in TX and I spent most the day doing yardwork. It's not my favorite thing to do but I'm so happy when it's done and the house looks like someone cares! Wow...part 24! We do like to talk, don't we?

Sister - Hang in there. Although we "talk" a lot, we are also willing to listen. Feel free to vent as you need to. It has taken me quite some time to feel like I had anything to offer anyone else as I was still such a wreck myself. As my sense of panic and despair has lessened at times I've been able to respond to others instead of just always focusing on my own pain. You will too.


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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, March 26th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, strongish! I have alot of issues with feeling like I am always on the outside looking in, if you KWIM.

Yes, you do talk alot, but thats what SI is for, right? I know you all would listen to me. Everyone here at SI are great.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 8934 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, so far so good. I am keeping up with you all.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 8934 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
iwantamiracle
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ok this place needs some decorating....

i will have to use my words since i do not know how to use pictures...

laura can you give us some of your beautiful butterflies?

i like the idea of remaining in a tropical climate since the winter here in new york just does not want to go away....

and of course we need a tripped out bar that does it all...im thinkin mudslides with alcoholic whipped cream....

(i know, i know i gots a thing for those mudslides, but i never tried one with that special whipped cream yet )

maybe we should give some handymen a try this time around...i gots lots of "handy" jobs the need doin.. ....

and of course some eye candy for the guys....


milkshake i am so happy that you have been able to keep up..


hope everyone is having an enjoyable weekend...


(((tribe)))

[This message edited by iwantamiracle at 10:51 AM, March 27th (Sunday)]


i am taking my life back, one step at a time!!!!!

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m334455
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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How's that for decoration? Baby Paddy's birthday photo!

No, njgal, I did not tell his parents. I am protecting the children more -- they would do things like yell at my 9 year old about how his Daddy is awful. I don't think it's appropriate for the kids to know.

Your article was very informative, very touching and made me cry.


BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009

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iwantamiracle
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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

m3 she is precious...lovin your choice for the decor ..


i am taking my life back, one step at a time!!!!!

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m334455
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Default  Posted: 11:10 AM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's still almost totally bald...

As you can see, she was very proud to finally be a "big girl" and get to face forward in the car like her brothers.


BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009

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iwantamiracle
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bald for babies is good...usually means that they will have great hair when it finally grows in...and will stay great long long into her old age...same holds true with teeth...

at least this is what i believe..


i am taking my life back, one step at a time!!!!!

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m334455
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree. My others were baldies too and the two oldest have awesome hair now.

Have a great rest of the weekend everyone! Hope you like the decor.


BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009

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Allgoodnamesgone
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

M3: LOVE LOVE LOVE the photos! Thank you for sharing. I understand baby girl baldness. My 2 yo is going to get her 1st haircut tomorrow.

And, I'm with you - family is not to know about my H's A - not that they would intentionally discuss it with my kids, but his family definitely talks openly without any regard for whether little kids are around or not (I guess cuz there's always little kids around - like 20.) and I don't want my kids to ever know.
Peace all!


Me- BS
DDay- 8/26/09
Separated after failed R effort.

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strongish
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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

m3 - LOVE that baby!! Best pictures ever!! I liked the thought of mudslides with alcoholic whipped cream, but her picture is even better!

So me a favor and give her an extra hug tonight. I'm feeling kinda sad and it will make me feel better to know that that sweet baby girl is getting an extra hug from her Aunt Strongish.


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iwantamiracle
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((strong)))

whats up hon?...


i am taking my life back, one step at a time!!!!!

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strongish
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Same stuff...different day. Although I know, really know, that the best thing for me is that we S/D it still makes me sad to think that this is where I am at 50 years old. I thought that at this point I would be able to slow down and maybe, just maybe, finally stop working altogether. Instead I'll most likely have to get a full-time job in order to have medical ins. It's not like I can't get a job but it's just not where I had hoped to be at this point in my life. So...pity party for me tonight!

Not to worry...I'll get over it. For the most part I can usually push the emotions away but tonight my DD22 called in tears to complain about how this boy she liked lied to her about having a GF at home. She was asking about why people just can't be honest. It made me so sad. I did my best to comfort her while keeping up appearances but as all of you know, it's tough. I hate, hate, hate having to pretend to be something or feel something that I don't. The only way I can keep doing this is because I love my kids. I know I'm preaching to the choir.


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Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

M3: Baby Paddy is gorgeous!!! What a beautiful smile! Thank you for posting her pic for her aunts and uncles. Sending her big hugs!!

3 out of 4 of my sons were bald and all have thick gorgeous hair now.

Ahhh mudslides, Miracle! I haven't had them in soooo long. I also make Kahlua "eggcreams" (Kahlua, milk and seltzer) bet those would taste good with that alcoholic whipped cream.

I agree with Miracle, Laura, we need your butterflies!! I think we should all try to put something that each of us likes or enjoys to help decorate. I'll look for a pic of a guitar!

Tropical theme sounds good Miracle.


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iwantamiracle
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

strong...there are times like this when i say to myself that someday this day will be in the past and be but a distant memory....it helps sometimes, knowing that it passes....then of course there are the days that i fantasize all day long about what i wish would happen...sometimes the fantasies are the kind where everything turns out to be a dream like in that show dallas and i will wake up and my life will be intact..then there are the fantasies about his death...that if he should die, it needs to be in a big way, so that maybe i could sue and maybe get some monies for it...bwahahah....(insert that evil laugh here)...

and yes i too get through my days because of my kids..i too am 50 and this is so not where i thought i would be.....to know that i will once again have to struggle because i know pfm will not do right by me, to know that my dream of an intact family will die, well actually its already dead, right now its all just motions...

but i keep reminding myself that once upon a time in the future i will look back at this time with little or no regret and that i will find happiness again in my personal life separate from my kids....and if nothing else i will have peace...


(((strong)))


i am taking my life back, one step at a time!!!!!

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honesttoafault
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I enjoy playing classical guitar, although I am not that good

[This message edited by honesttoafault at 8:50 PM, March 27th (Sunday)]


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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, March 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ohhhhh no another club for me to join - the 50 club.

WW was out till 3am sat morning. For once I was detached - it didnt consume me how it has in the past. Monday nite I'm out doing a cooking class - just told her I was going out - ambivalence on her part. I was fooling myself in thinking that I might get more than "ok".

Its just about time to kick her out. Tired of limbo & being used for my paycheck.
Hopefully the job interviews this week will bring some good news.

M - big hug for baby paddy.


Me - BS 49
Her - WS 43
Married 16 yrs (together 17 yrs)
DD13 DS10 DS8 DS6
DDay 1 6.4.2010 dday 2 7.25.2010
Heading for divorce.
"Never look down on someone unless you are helping them up"

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