Topic: The Birthday Thread!
Member # 32810
| Posted: 8:01 PM, September 7th (Wednesday), 2011|
I hesitate to do this, because it's one step away from anonymous, but March 26 is me
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
Posts: 12584 | Registered: Jul 2011
Member # 33226
| Posted: 9:54 AM, September 10th (Saturday), 2011|
Mine is Feb. 3
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 19368 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: "Is this heaven?" ;-)
Member # 30528
| Posted: 10:06 PM, September 11th (Sunday), 2011|
Mine is coming up....Sept 23rd.
BS (me) : 53 Freshly divorced and so very happy. To infinity and beyond!!
POS XH : bankrupt...emotionally, morally and now financially
The pain you feel today is the strength you feel tomorrow.
Posts: 327 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Canada
Member # 31663
| Posted: 11:53 PM, September 12th (Monday), 2011|
Mine is this Wednesday- the 14th :)
Areyoukidding- my son's is the 23rd. Good month! :D
4 kids (22,20,16,12)
DDay#1 2/?/97 (A with COW in 1995- turns out it never really ended and they are now living together)
DDay#2 4/18/10 -LTA approx 12mos
Posts: 786 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Las Vegas
Member # 29130
| Posted: 10:33 PM, September 19th (Monday), 2011|
My birthday is September 30th and also my 40th.
Me: BW Him: FWH
Married: 10 yrs
4 children: DDs 6&4; DSs 2& baby
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
Posts: 4387 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana
Member # 33156
| Posted: 2:16 PM, September 24th (Saturday), 2011|
Mine is 01/31
I don't know what I'm doing
but I know what I'm not doing
Posts: 1301 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Illinois
Member # 33470
| Posted: 5:37 PM, September 28th (Wednesday), 2011|
Today, September 28
S-4 years old
D-day #1 Feb 2009, MC began
D-day #2 Mar 2009, FR
D-day #3 May 2011, new OW
D-day #4 Sep 2011, found out R was FR, there was another OW during our MC.
Aug 2011- Divorce began
May 3, 2012 Divorced
Posts: 60 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Charlotte, NC
Member # 33382
| Posted: 5:40 PM, September 28th (Wednesday), 2011|
Sometimes I wish I were a little kid again, skinned knees are easier to fix than broken hearts. ~Author Unknown
Posts: 117 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Colorado
Member # 33447
| Posted: 6:59 AM, October 3rd (Monday), 2011|
My birthday is Jan. 1. I dread it. That is the first time he slept with OW.
D-Day August 17, 2011
4 children ages 10-23
Posts: 136 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Ohio
Member # 26527
| Posted: 9:08 AM, October 6th (Thursday), 2011|
My b-day is April 23.
Me: BW - 36 Him: WH - 35
D-Day 1: 11/17/09
D-Day 2: 3/31/11
I'm not taking grenades for you anymore baby.
We are in R.
"Today I will live in the moment....unless the moment is unpleasant in which case I will eat a cookie"
Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2009
♂ New Member
Member # 33437
| Posted: 2:25 PM, October 6th (Thursday), 2011|
Mine is January 15.
My wife celebrated my birthday this year by starting her PA, while I was out of town.
Posts: 22 | Registered: Sep 2011
Member # 27968
| Posted: 8:20 PM, October 6th (Thursday), 2011|
BS Me 60
WS Him 62
The future looks good....
Posts: 1482 | Registered: Mar 2010
Member # 29374
| Posted: 8:23 PM, October 6th (Thursday), 2011|
July 23. I see I share it with two other lovely SIers.
Him: Out of the picture.
My story? Summed up by the last line of Hemingway's The Sun Also Rises: "Isn't it pretty to think so?"
Alternately summed up by this awesome Mark Twain quote, "There is no humor in heaven."
Posts: 698 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Chicago, IL
♀ New Member
Member # 33429
| Posted: 8:03 PM, October 8th (Saturday), 2011|
mine is Nov 25. Going to be very hard as I share it with WH and we got married on our joint birthday. This year would have been our 30th anniversary ...
Married 29 years,together 34
2 Adult children
BW: me 54
WH: him 52 (bipolar? MLC? Gym junkie on steroids)
OW: old lady (late 60's) he said drove him mad but panders to his ego calling him 'spunky'.
Posts: 6 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Australia
♀ New Member
Member # 30918
| Posted: 11:03 AM, October 13th (Thursday), 2011|
November 10th. Thanks for doing this -- kindness goes such a long way for us BSs!
Me - 40
WH - 43
DDay#1 - 2-4-10, DDay#2 - 7-4-11
Married 19 years, reconciling
"Keep on keepin' on" and endure patiently
Posts: 43 | Registered: Jan 2011
Member # 33338
| Posted: 9:07 PM, October 18th (Tuesday), 2011|
December 27th. Last year really sucked. I spent my birthday singing and directing music for the funeral of a 25 year old young man who was the son of some dear friends. He died on Christmas eve.
Then, on 12/28 came the 1st DDay of the most recent A.
Not really looking forward to my birthday this year.
Me, Madhatter BW/fWW/fOW, 46
Him, fWH/BH, 39 (JMSSC)
married 16 years. In R. We are making it.
Posts: 2210 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
Member # 32811
| Posted: 1:58 PM, October 21st (Friday), 2011|
Mine is Dec 18... Let's not talk about what century though...
I couldn't handle my husband's pregnant gf. After all, 17 years I was faithful. -Him?! Not so much.
D Aug 2008
Posts: 2367 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...
Member # 11939
| Posted: 9:27 AM, October 27th (Thursday), 2011|
Updated to this point.
Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.
My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.
Posts: 40985 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Canada by way of Virginia
♀ New Member
Member # 33611
| Posted: 12:05 PM, November 1st (Tuesday), 2011|
Mine is November 12th.
Posts: 49 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: North Country - Canada
Member # 33699
| Posted: 9:33 AM, November 4th (Friday), 2011|
Not looking forward to it this year :-(
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will"
- Mahatma Gandi
Posts: 2531 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
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