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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, September 7th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hesitate to do this, because it's one step away from anonymous, but March 26 is me

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, September 10th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is Feb. 3

You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox

Posts: 22672 | Registered: Aug 2011
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Default  Posted: 10:06 PM, September 11th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is coming up....Sept 23rd.

BS (me) : 53 Freshly divorced and so very happy. To infinity and beyond!!

Trying to understand the behaviour of some people is like trying to smell the number 9.

Posts: 463 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Canada
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Default  Posted: 11:53 PM, September 12th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is this Wednesday- the 14th :)

Areyoukidding- my son's is the 23rd. Good month! :D

me, BS-43
4 kids (22,20,16,12)
DDay#1 2/?/97 (A with COW in 1995- turns out it never really ended and they are now living together)
DDay#2 4/18/10 -LTA approx 12mos

Posts: 786 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Las Vegas
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, September 19th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My birthday is September 30th and also my 40th.

Me: BW Him: WH
Married: 10 yrs
4 children: DDs 6&4; DSs 2& baby
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.

Posts: 4457 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, September 24th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is 01/31

I don't know what I'm doing
but I know what I'm not doing

Posts: 1301 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Illinois
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Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, September 28th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today, September 28

S-4 years old
D-day #1 Feb 2009, MC began
D-day #2 Mar 2009, FR
D-day #3 May 2011, new OW
D-day #4 Sep 2011, found out R was FR, there was another OW during our MC.
Aug 2011- Divorce began
May 3, 2012 Divorced

Posts: 60 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Charlotte, NC
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, September 28th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

10 June

Sometimes I wish I were a little kid again, skinned knees are easier to fix than broken hearts. ~Author Unknown

Posts: 117 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Colorado
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Default  Posted: 6:59 AM, October 3rd (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My birthday is Jan. 1. I dread it. That is the first time he slept with OW.

D-Day August 17, 2011
M-23 years
4 children ages 10-23

Posts: 136 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Ohio
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, October 6th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My b-day is April 23.

Me: BW - 36 Him: WH - 35
D-Day 1: 11/17/09
D-Day 2: 3/31/11
I'm not taking grenades for you anymore baby.
We are in R.
"Today I will live in the moment....unless the moment is unpleasant in which case I will eat a cookie"

Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2009
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, October 6th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is January 15.

My wife celebrated my birthday this year by starting her PA, while I was out of town.

Posts: 22 | Registered: Sep 2011
Alex CR
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, October 6th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

January 1.....

BS Me 61
WS Him 62
Married 33
Together 40
DD 11/16/09
The future looks good....

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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, October 6th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

July 23. I see I share it with two other lovely SIers.

BGF: 23
Him: Out of the picture.
My story? Summed up by the last line of Hemingway's The Sun Also Rises: "Isn't it pretty to think so?"
Alternately summed up by this awesome Mark Twain quote, "There is no humor in heaven."

Posts: 698 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Chicago, IL
Mrs Jenkins
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, October 8th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mine is Nov 25. Going to be very hard as I share it with WH and we got married on our joint birthday. This year would have been our 30th anniversary ...

Married 29 years,together 34
2 Adult children
BW: me 54
WH: him 52 (bipolar? MLC? Gym junkie on steroids)
DD: 2/14/2011
OW: old lady (late 60's) he said drove him mad but panders to his ego calling him 'spunky'.
Status: separated

Posts: 6 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Australia
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, October 13th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

November 10th. Thanks for doing this -- kindness goes such a long way for us BSs!

Me - 40
WH - 43
6 kids
DDay#1 - 2-4-10, DDay#2 - 7-4-11
Married 19 years, reconciling
"Keep on keepin' on" and endure patiently

Posts: 43 | Registered: Jan 2011
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, October 18th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

December 27th. Last year really sucked. I spent my birthday singing and directing music for the funeral of a 25 year old young man who was the son of some dear friends. He died on Christmas eve.

Then, on 12/28 came the 1st DDay of the most recent A.

Not really looking forward to my birthday this year.

Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2484 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
Exit Wounds
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Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, October 21st (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is Dec 18... Let's not talk about what century though...

Posts: 2474 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...
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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, October 27th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Updated to this point.

Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.

My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.‎

Posts: 40985 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Canada by way of Virginia
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Happy  Posted: 12:05 PM, November 1st (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is November 12th.

Posts: 49 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: North Country - Canada
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, November 4th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

November 11.

Not looking forward to it this year :-(

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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