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User Topic: Boundaries and Consequences 101 for all new BS
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, September 16th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, September 22nd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, September 29th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 11791 | Registered: Mar 2008
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, October 7th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5336 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, October 13th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

weekend bump.

Posts: 11791 | Registered: Mar 2008
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, October 22nd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Newbies


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1923 | Registered: Nov 2010
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, November 11th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5853 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
lknup
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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, November 11th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thanks for bumping. I need to read this stuff even when it is hard!


Me: BW
He: WH
DD fall 2012
Getting a Divorce!

Posts: 189 | Registered: Nov 2012
5454real
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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, November 16th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3166 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
fallingquickly
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Default  Posted: 6:54 PM, November 16th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great post. Wish I had read it sooner.


Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.


Posts: 455 | Registered: Aug 2012
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, November 21st (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1762 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, November 27th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for beforeandafter


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1923 | Registered: Nov 2010
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, December 10th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpin'


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1923 | Registered: Nov 2010
jjct
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, December 18th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump

Posts: 6763 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
kernel
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, December 21st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5336 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, December 24th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1923 | Registered: Nov 2010
kernel
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, January 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5336 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, January 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

one more time...


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5336 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
mountainmomma
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, January 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpily bump


Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60

Posts: 180 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: U.K
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, January 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1762 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
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