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User Topic: Next up for book club?
hope4tomorrow
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, September 20th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going to have to sit this one out. It's not available for awhile at the library (lots of holds) and I found out today that my dad does indeed have cancer. So I'm not in a good place to read and retain anything.


Me BW
Him WH-SA
Married 12 years
3 Beautiful girls 8 and under

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punky
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, September 20th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry to hear this, h4t...big hugs to you.

How big a book is this?


Be a lion, not a mowess...
The Cowardly Lion

Posts: 11295 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: A whole 'nother country
Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, September 21st (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi - can anyone participate, or is this a club for the cool kids only?


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

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mellowmood
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, September 21st (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whalers - Anyone can participate. The only requirement is that you read the book.

Oops, I still haven't finished the last one.


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howcouldhe1
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Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, September 21st (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds good to me.


Me BS 54 FWH (BT) 52 M 22 years D Day 4/11/06 Over a year of trickle truths. March 08. D Day 2. Online porn and SA. Just when I thought we'd be ok, July 19 08. BT had accident. Severe brain damage, in persistent vegetative state. I lost him anyway.

Posts: 5488 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Kent UK
punky
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, September 25th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When will discussion start on this?

ETA: I have the book.

[This message edited by punky at 10:01 AM, September 25th (Saturday)]


Be a lion, not a mowess...
The Cowardly Lion

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waiting2see
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Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, September 25th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How about everyone lets us know when they have the book and give an estimate of how long it will take you to get through it

I have the book.

I can get throught it in a couple of weeks.


me: BS
him: XWS

Much of your pain is self-chosen. ~Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, 1923

"It's not livin' that you're doin' if it feels like dyin." Ray Lamontagne


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Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, September 25th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I ordered it online so I should have it in a couple days. I only have time to read in the evenings, so it will probably take me a couple weeks.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

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NewAttitude
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, September 25th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just have to go upstairs in the bookstore and grab it off the shelf and I'm good to go.


Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional.

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ladyvorkosigan
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, September 25th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, I have it on my ebook reader, ready to go!


It nagged him, in particular, that none of the girls hed known so far had given him a sense of unalloyed triumph.

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howcouldhe1
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, September 26th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've ordered my copy.


Me BS 54 FWH (BT) 52 M 22 years D Day 4/11/06 Over a year of trickle truths. March 08. D Day 2. Online porn and SA. Just when I thought we'd be ok, July 19 08. BT had accident. Severe brain damage, in persistent vegetative state. I lost him anyway.

Posts: 5488 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Kent UK
wantmore
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Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, September 26th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ANOTHER book not available on Kindle.

LadyV, where did you find this one?

Oh wait maybe you can't tell.

[I'll slink away now.]


Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Of course it helps to know you *have* enemies.

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icbtih8
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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, September 26th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some time this week I'll pass by the library to pick it up


D-day #1 - April 29, 2009

Beauty is a calling...a call "to transfigure what has harden or was wounded within you"
-- John O'Donohue


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wantmore
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Content  Posted: 8:08 AM, September 28th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok, I have my copy now. I prefer to read on my ereader and I had to say I was a reviewer to get it. Normal channels do not apply.

Oh, and my library where I work has 2 copies checked out by the same person. Sounds like another local book club might be doing this one, too.

Any idea when the fun will start?


Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Of course it helps to know you *have* enemies.

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wantmore
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Question  Posted: 8:14 AM, September 28th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I followed an online book club discussion on another board, months after they did the discussion. They divided the book up into natural sections and discussed the sections as they went along. Spoilers were "blacked out", a feature I don't think I've seen on SI.

So, we could start discussing it before everyone has read the whole thing? Some of us read slower/faster than others!


Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Of course it helps to know you *have* enemies.

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waiting2see
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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, October 4th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have we all started reading? If so, should we begin a new thread for Owen Meany?

Estimates to start discussing?


me: BS
him: XWS

Much of your pain is self-chosen. ~Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, 1923

"It's not livin' that you're doin' if it feels like dyin." Ray Lamontagne


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punky
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, October 4th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ready when y'all are...


Be a lion, not a mowess...
The Cowardly Lion

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Hope24
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, October 4th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A Prayer for Owen Meany is one of my favorite books of all time.

My sister says it changed her life.


She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.

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howcouldhe1
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, October 29th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have we decided on a new book after Owen Meany?


Me BS 54 FWH (BT) 52 M 22 years D Day 4/11/06 Over a year of trickle truths. March 08. D Day 2. Online porn and SA. Just when I thought we'd be ok, July 19 08. BT had accident. Severe brain damage, in persistent vegetative state. I lost him anyway.

Posts: 5488 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Kent UK
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