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Eranda (original poster member #6010) posted at 4:13 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Went to see an old friend this past weekend that I haven't seen in years. She was in my wedding.
Anyway, she saw a couple times where my x was hitting on girls in bars and trying to hook up with random girls when I wasn't around. And of course I already knew he hit on her when we were only married less than a year.
So... my hunch- that he was screwing around on me the whole marriage (ONSs, picking up girls in bars, other affairs before the one I knew about) was probably right on.
Funny how your gut is ALWAYS right. 
My Blog: http://allofthewaystohell.com/
damncutekitty ( member #5929) posted at 4:21 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Ugh...my gut says my XH cheated more times than I know about too. I try to just never think about it.
12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.
TryingToBreathe ( member #14935) posted at 4:27 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Yep, funny how that gut thing works. 
I've found out things when I wasn't even trying to! I'm just glad that I'm off that crazy train.
Aren't you glad to have closed that chapter of your life? 
Eranda (original poster member #6010) posted at 11:25 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
TTB- yes, I am more than glad. In fact, it didn't even really phase me when we were talking about it- like we were discussing someone else's life... not mine. That's how far past it I am now. I found it interesting in a detached sort of way- it doesn't really affect me, it's just another piece of the puzzle.
What it confirms for me is that that divorce was a gift. I could have wasted many more years of my life with that loser.
My Blog: http://allofthewaystohell.com/
shambles07 ( member #14217) posted at 2:42 AM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010
Earlier this year I found out that STBXH had been cheating on me most of our marriage. It hurt....alot, but I has always suspected.
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