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bigpicture3236 (original poster member #27861) posted at 10:54 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Just checked the county website. I had not heard from the attorney, but she did file the complaint.
I have officially filed for divorce.
Today is the day he stopped wearing his wedding ring to work, on her bday no less. Good thing is that he also left for an overnight trip and won't be home until late tomorrow night. At least I won't have to look at him for a couple of days.
If you love something and hurt it dearly, then chose not to fix it...you never deserved it in the first place.
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 10:56 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
emeraldisle ( member #20480) posted at 10:58 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Me: BW, married 14yrs
D-Day 04/2008; 07/2008; 10/2008; 03/2010 & 08/2010
DIVORCED, and moving forward
afraidshesgone ( member #28625) posted at 10:58 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
(((bigpicture)))
Though a painful step, it is another step towards YOUR future
Me, BW, old enough
D-Day dates.. tired of 'em Let's just say it happened, I'm over it and have moved on.....very happy
Despite my screen name, I am very much a woman and hell yeah I wish I could change that name to gladshesgone
RunningOnEmpty73 ( new member #29542) posted at 11:02 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Hey...I'm very sorry to hear about your situation. It's not fair to you at all, and you deserve much better than him.
I know what you feel - there's a lot of days that I don't like to look at her when I come home either.
Be good to yourself, and treat yourself every day - even if it is something small.
Hold your head up high, and get through this with healing. Get a good lawyer, keep a journal of things (evidence), and surround yourself with friends. 
Well I wanted something better man
I wished for something new
And I wanted something beautiful
And wish for something true
FooFighters
BillieJean ( member #28635) posted at 11:43 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
((bigpicture))
I know how hard this is. You be strong and take care of yourself. We will get thru this.
ME-BW:32__HIM-xWH:31__DS:5
TOGETHER-10 MARRIED-5
D-DAY: 3/26/2010
I FILED D 9/17/2010
D FINAL 2/3/2011
"Is there a cure for a broken heart? Only time can heal your broken heart, just as time can heal his broken arms and legs"-Miss Piggy
goingkookoo ( member #25488) posted at 1:44 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Hey, not that this will likely make you feel any better but mine was filed today too. So you are not alone. It will be okay, it has to be.
We will survive even if it doesn't feel like it right now.
Me (39)
WS (44)
Married 11 years
4 amazing children
D-Day's- Too many
8/2010 - Filed for D
LDT3 ( member #21185) posted at 2:22 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
(((hugs)))
Im sorry bigpicture3236. Just like BillieJean said "we will get through this" and we will.
Me (BS) 38
Him (WS) 40
3 children
Married 14 years
Together 17 years
DD 10-03-08
2ND DD 09-10-09
Divorced February 2011
"If he is dumb enough to walk away, then be smart enough to let him"
cjonesjag ( member #10617) posted at 3:42 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
It's tough seeing it there in 'cyberspace,' isn't it? Yeah, makes it all so *real*.
((hugs))
Me (BS):50
Him(WTFH):51 Married: 05/26/2002
DD#1: 09/2005 (EA) DD#2: 09/2006
Mini-DDays: Many. Mostly online
DIVORCED 10/20/10
It's not what you've got, it's what you give.
It ain't the life you choose, it's the life you live
AlwaysLiz ( member #28215) posted at 4:02 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
(((bigpicture)))
My thoughts are with you. I remember how jarring it was to see our case listed officially on the county site. It becomes more concrete and real, somehow, as cjones said.
One moment at a time, we will move forward.
Me: BS 33
Him: WS 36
Married 8.5 yrs, together 14 years
D-DAY: March 2010
WH Initiated D: March 2010, prior to D-Day
WH Living w/OW: May 2010
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 6:42 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
(((bigpicture)))
if you're feeling sad tonight, remember its a big step towards your future. like most things in life it is neither 100% bad nor 100% good.
what done is done and it just is
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
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