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Thanks to all of you that have been helping me. You do. All of you. Thank you, again!

So it's been about 2 weeks since the final D-day. She is unremorseful and unrepentant, she refuses to go NC.

We are done. I'm doing the 180 the best I can. I'm taking hold of my pride, and not letting her see me suffer. Or so I try.

She is in the tub as we speak, with her phone. I'm sure she is sending out photo's of her masterbating to her EA's as we speak. She constantly is texting on her phone, or messaging on her computer.

She is leaving me. I tried R. She refused. Silly me.

We have had a few heart-heart talks over the past week. I've gotten all lies. We were in the process of R, when 2 days ago she found out that I searched her computer. Again. This was the deal breaker for her. Such audacity! C**t. (for those that don't like the C word, I can edit it to spell it with a K.)

So we are done. She refuses to give me a departure date. I need that. Living with the C*** is driving me nuts. I need her out. I'm waiting to hear back from a lawyer. She seems to be flipping back and forth between which internet predator she's leaving me for.

Fine.

I need her out now. At least there is a small amount of humanity in her, she lets me have the bed, while she takes the couch.

I don't know when I'll be able to see the lawyer,(hectic work schedule), Any advice on getting her out?

Thanks for taking the time to read my rambling(again)!

Oh, just another little vent. I hate how she walks around the house naked. She knows, that I find her hot. More mind games......

Elad,

I am sorry for your pain. If it was a deal breaker for her that you checked her computer than tell her to pack her crap and her computer and get out.

I don't know about the laws where you are, but where I live when you file seperation papers there is also a thing called something like bed and breakfast...(might have the name wrong, it was all a blur) I think that is the one... but it is pretty much an eviction from the household along with the seperation.

If you want her out make the time to contact a lawyer and see exactly what you need to do to get her out.

If you cannot wait for her to leave could you go stay somewhere for a while? See, this is why you need to contact a lawyer, because abandonment is different in many areas and if you decided to leave for a while I don't want it to bite you in the bottom. So, go see a lawyer. That is my best advice.

As far as the naked thing... just imagine the sexually transmitted diseases she will probably end up with from internet scums... genital warts, herpes, gonorrhea... that should kill the mood.

You can't just throw her out----you need to go thru the legal process----just move you or her to a spare bedroom---and keep on with your 180

She seems to be flipping back and forth between which internet predator she's leaving me for.

She's an internet predator. High school boys?!

Dear elad,

Happy to hear you are holding up, it sounds like you are doing well under the circumstances. Depending on the laws where you live, you may not be allowed to throw her out. It is probably best you speak to an attorney as soon as possible. I was able to have a free consultation over the telephone. By the way, I was told I could not throw him out. The laws in our state plus the fact that we own our home. That said, some people do in-house separation, as others have described.

It sounds like your wife is having some serious mental issues right now. Definitely, the sooner you no longer have to deal with them, the better for you. I hope you find peace.

She refuses to give me a departure date.

You gotta push for this...because - your wife is a cake eater...she wants you to support her AND she wants to have boyfriends....

The sooner you get her out...the sooner her she will have to face reality...

Do NOT give her a couple of weeks to get her own place.......File for divorce and get her out NOW!!! The sooner the better....

Your wife is cheatin' on you.....you dont have to support her while shes doin this to you....

She needs to go!!!!

Bufffalo

Is it possible to cut off internet service to the house? Cancel cell phones?

Make it difficult for her to communicate with her web lovers while she remains in the house. Might be the incentive she needs to leave.

Otherwise adjust her computer and cell phone so they no longer work. You can 'persuade' her to leave with a little creative effort.