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User Topic: Great Posts for Newbies to Read
booger bear
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, November 2nd (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

newbie bump


I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

Posts: 18711 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here, but not there ...
socold
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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, November 8th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

me too


(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: in a van down by the river
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, November 8th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Copied and saved.


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
lulykr
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Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, November 9th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is so helpful. A giant heartfelt thank you for putting this together.
Love
Becca

Posts: 589 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Gainesville FL
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, November 10th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5783 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
takilasunrise
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, November 10th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Marking for future reference for myself.......thanks!


BW - Me, 49 years old
WH - Him, 51 years old)
D-Day July 2010 (several D-days to follow)
Divorced February 7, 2012

Denial isn't the way to forgiveness. The Karma for screwing over a good girl is the Bitch you end up with.


Posts: 978 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: WI
hard_yards
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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, November 11th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump



I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

Posts: 1216 | Registered: Apr 2009
bigpicture3236
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Default  Posted: 6:24 AM, November 14th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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If you love something and hurt it dearly, then chose not to fix it...you never deserved it in the first place.

Posts: 3603 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Michigan
bigpicture3236
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Default  Posted: 6:24 AM, November 14th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


If you love something and hurt it dearly, then chose not to fix it...you never deserved it in the first place.

Posts: 3603 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Michigan
willthiseverend
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Default  Posted: 5:54 AM, November 15th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.


Posts: 454 | Registered: Aug 2009
AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, November 15th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1991 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, November 16th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpin for newbies!


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1798 | Registered: Nov 2010
Edie
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, November 26th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 4960 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
ray-ray
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Default  Posted: 3:17 AM, November 28th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Essential reads for people new to this hell.


Nothing left to do but smile,smile,smile

Posts: 712 | Registered: Oct 2010
kernel
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, November 29th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 4661 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Edie
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Default  Posted: 3:15 AM, December 3rd (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 4960 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
socold
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Default  Posted: 5:08 PM, December 7th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: in a van down by the river
socold
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, December 10th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

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Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, December 13th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

❣Your soulmate is the person who helps grow your soul into a better being rather than tearing it down❣


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ray-ray
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, December 16th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Nothing left to do but smile,smile,smile

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