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User Topic: Great Posts for Newbies to Read
booger bear
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Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, August 7th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

Posts: 18828 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: OK - Hot as hell here !!!!!!
phoenix_vs
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Default  Posted: 11:13 PM, August 12th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump. These are so well written and thought out. There is a lot of healing power in these words.


I'm not sad that you lied to me. I'm sad that I can never believe you again.

Well, I'm sad that you lied to me, too.


Posts: 371 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Great Falls Montana
willthiseverend
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, August 14th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.


Posts: 454 | Registered: Aug 2009
Will Not Be Brok
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Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, August 19th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This topic is not only good for the Newbies! Thanks!


Faith is the bird that feels the light and sings while the dawn is still dark.

Posts: 539 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Catskills, New York
influx
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, August 19th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for this.


Me: BW
Him: WH
In R, doing good as far as I can tell.

But, that's just me...

You just gotta BELIEVE

Sometimes you're the windshield, sometimes you're the bug...


Posts: 1755 | Registered: Dec 2006
worriedNow
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, August 19th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for posting this! It helped me more than you know! So much valuable insight!!!

Posts: 351 | Registered: Aug 2010
tryinginmi
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, August 21st (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad I just read this again. Now all I have to do is stay strong.


Me - BW 40
Him - FWH 39
Her - MOW 47 Fat Assed Toothless Man Faced Whore!!!

DD#1 July 28, 2010 Admitted to EA. A went underground.
DD#2 August 19,2010 Admitted PA


Posts: 1013 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Michigan
Lotsa
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Default  Posted: 12:11 AM, August 25th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 880 | Registered: Mar 2010
redrock
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, August 28th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping


I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)

Posts: 3163 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Michigan
cass
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, September 1st (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping again


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4975 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
knutz
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, September 2nd (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for Newbies


Together 23 years
Married 20 Years
BW (me) 48
FWH: 49 (rSA)
2 children, 9 & 12
DDay: December 27, 2009
"Life is not what it is supposed to be. It is what it is. The way we cope with it is what makes the difference". Virginia Satir

Posts: 237 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: New England
Itisnotadream
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, September 9th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me: BS; Her: WW
Married 19 Yrs, Son 17.
DDay (1) 5-18-10
DDay (2) 7-8-10
DDay (3) 7-18-10 I could take no more.
Attempted R. R was false, she was lying.
She moved out 7-30-10.
She chose to move out rather than work on our marriage.

Posts: 132 | Registered: May 2010 | From: California
cass
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Default  Posted: 6:20 AM, September 11th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping to keep it on page one


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4975 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
Edie
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, September 14th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for newbies.


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5198 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
Edie
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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, September 19th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5198 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
socold
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, September 23rd (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: in a van down by the river
Edie
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, October 4th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5198 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
Dagny07
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, October 7th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me:BW Him: FWH E/A
M: 29 years, together 36 : both guilty of PAs 20+ years ago
CDay#1 Oct 06 (false); DDay#2 Oct 07 (truth from OW's BH)
R: Tenaciously optimistic

Posts: 838 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Midwest
CanISurvive
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Default  Posted: 3:40 AM, October 8th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Too good not to Bump.


D final 11/25/2011 -- on Black Friday! ;-)

Moved my stats to my Profile; click there for my story.

I am a Phoenix; I may be in the ashes stage at the moment, but I am now actively working on my Rebirth. =)

PS: I edit posts for typos & clarity


Posts: 330 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: California
cass
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, October 9th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4975 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
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