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kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, January 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

and bump again


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5058 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
mountainmomma
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, January 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpity bump


Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60

Posts: 180 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: U.K
Jpapageorge
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Member # 31800
Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, January 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1728 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
thisissogross
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Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, January 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"A pair of powerful spectacles has sometimes sufficed to cure a person in love." -Friedrich Nietzsche

i edit frequently because i have to


Posts: 234 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: southern us
Rella
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, January 19th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BUMP!


Happily Divorced- final in Oct. 2009, Engaged to my True Love in Dec. 2012

When his family jokingly tells you of how "spoiled" HE was as a child, RUN- It doesn't change when they get older!


Posts: 2206 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: New England
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, January 20th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2726 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, January 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpin' for newbies


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1889 | Registered: Nov 2010
Jpapageorge
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Member # 31800
Default  Posted: 11:09 PM, February 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1728 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
needrespect
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, February 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


BS-me 45
WH-40
married 11 yrs, together 15
DS13 DS9
Dday May 2012 EA
False R... Dday#2 11/30/2012 PA same MOW

The opposite of love is not hate ... It is indifference.
Status:%$$&^&^$#@@
seems I'm on the 15 year plan


Posts: 69 | Registered: Dec 2012
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, February 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

newbees!


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1889 | Registered: Nov 2010
exhausted lady
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, February 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr


Posts: 3168 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Colorado
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, March 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Weekend Bumps for Newbies


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1889 | Registered: Nov 2010
Jpapageorge
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Member # 31800
Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, March 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1728 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
Rella
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Member # 21136
Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, March 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Happily Divorced- final in Oct. 2009, Engaged to my True Love in Dec. 2012

When his family jokingly tells you of how "spoiled" HE was as a child, RUN- It doesn't change when they get older!


Posts: 2206 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: New England
Lowlow
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Default  Posted: 12:59 AM, March 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best post, ever! I will refer to it often as I recuperate


Me (BS) 42 Him (FWS) 43
AP#2 (LTA EA/PA) DD #1 16 Feb 2013
AP#1 (LTA EA with my BF) DD #2 16 Nov 2013
Married 11 years, T 19 years
Reconciling

Posts: 220 | Registered: Mar 2013
thisissogross
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Default  Posted: 2:58 AM, March 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"A pair of powerful spectacles has sometimes sufficed to cure a person in love." -Friedrich Nietzsche

i edit frequently because i have to


Posts: 234 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: southern us
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, March 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5058 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


It is better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. -Russian Proverb

Posts: 17072 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Jospehine85
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me - BS 40s
WH - 50s
4 Kids
Dday May 2012

Posts: 837 | Registered: Jun 2012
UKgirl
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Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, April 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another regular bump for this great article/thread/eye opener!


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 56 y/o Him, WS, 57 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 18 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

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