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User Topic: Great Posts for Newbies to Read
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, July 6th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

great post!


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2205 | Registered: Jan 2012
SuspiciousWife
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, July 10th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping


Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session

Posts: 557 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: East Coast
LostMySoulMate1
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, July 10th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thankyou for the Great Posts so very helpful.


ME:BW42 HIM:WS40 MARRIED19years 2Teens DdayFeb2009.

Posts: 316 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Australia
aesir
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, July 24th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
pendant
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, July 26th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"Once forgiving begins, dreams can be rebuilt. When forgiving is complete, meaning has been extracted from the worst of experiences and used to create a new set of moral rules and a new interpretation of life's events."

Posts: 423 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: North Carolina
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, July 30th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1908 | Registered: Nov 2010
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, July 31st (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, August 3rd (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1751 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
katherine41
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Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, August 6th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for Justjul.

Posts: 8205 | Registered: Nov 2004
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1908 | Registered: Nov 2010
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, August 15th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
aesir
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, August 18th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sadly, there is always a fresh need for these.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, August 27th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10345 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
scangel3
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Default  Posted: 10:43 PM, August 27th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wish i had read this 2 year ago!!!


BS-me 31, WH-31, M'd-10 years
DD 8.5, DS 6, DS 5.5
Dday 03/01/10 (our DD's bday)
A ended 08/31/10-09/02-10 (with multiple ddays in between).TT on 08/2012, 09/04/12, 11/16/2012, 01/2013, 6/25/2013 Says he wants R, but not proving it

Posts: 714 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Portland
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, August 31st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1751 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, September 1st (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 2:57 AM, September 8th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5828 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, September 9th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25716 | Registered: Aug 2011
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, September 14th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1908 | Registered: Nov 2010
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