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Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, January 9th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Edie
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Default  Posted: 3:15 AM, January 13th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5123 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 12:26 AM, January 15th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump..


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5828 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
Fighting2Survive
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Member # 28410
Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, January 18th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, January 23rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1992 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, January 24th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1909 | Registered: Nov 2010
UKgirl
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Member # 17062
Default  Posted: 2:20 AM, February 7th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 57 y/o Him, WS, 58 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 19 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

Posts: 3470 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK
UKgirl
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Default  Posted: 4:18 AM, February 13th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping again


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 57 y/o Him, WS, 58 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 19 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

Posts: 3470 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK
BrokenHeart2012
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, February 13th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thrive Not Survive, I am looking for a post that I saw the other day. It was one on regret/guilt vs. remorse. It is in 2 columns. I cannot seem to find it now. I do not know if it is from SerJR or where I saw it at first. I have been reading so much. I know it was not on the Q&A or in the library anywhere. Thank you for your assistance.


BS - 42
WS - 44
D-Day - 1/11/12 Via email

Posts: 142 | Registered: Feb 2012
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, February 14th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1751 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, February 15th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1909 | Registered: Nov 2010
Edie
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, March 1st (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5123 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, March 3rd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5828 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
fourever
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, March 5th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!


Posts: 877 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
Rain02
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, March 5th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Use the pain as a fuel,as a reminder of your strength.

Posts: 233 | Registered: Dec 2011
AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, March 7th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1992 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, March 8th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1296 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, March 10th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, March 20th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1909 | Registered: Nov 2010
Fighting2Survive
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Member # 28410
Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, March 27th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
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