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lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, November 5th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1924 | Registered: Nov 2010
1109mama
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Member # 33790
Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, November 5th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for posting this. It has a lot of helpful info


BS (me)- 28
SA FWH (him)- 29
D-day #1 (part of the story) 7/5/11
D-day #2(the WHOLE story) 7/11/11
Married 4 1/2 yrs, together 5 yrs.
Working on R..
~What doesn't kill you makes you stronger!~

Posts: 19 | Registered: Oct 2011
notsosureanymore
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Member # 18051
Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, November 5th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

so I can come back later when time allows.

Posts: 221 | Registered: Feb 2008
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, November 11th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5858 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
nutmegkitty
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Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, November 17th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping again. This post is getting me through every day.


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2616 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, November 24th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1924 | Registered: Nov 2010
unarmbears
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Member # 7480
Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, November 26th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


FBS-Me, 61
FWH-Him, 55
2 Sons 26 and 31
2 Daughters 29, 25 And 4 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

Posts: 4892 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: From where the trees lean east...
socold
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Member # 17400
Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, November 29th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: in a van down by the river
Lost and Betraye
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Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, November 30th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great for us newbies


Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing

"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft


Posts: 317 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: CA
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 1:03 AM, December 6th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5858 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
Lost and Betraye
Member
Member # 33988
Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, December 6th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for Twang


Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing

"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft


Posts: 317 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: CA
Lost and Betraye
Member
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, December 8th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing

"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft


Posts: 317 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: CA
emptyheart
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, December 11th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me - BW, Him - WH
2 great kids that are my reason for living.
1st D-Day - March 28, 2008
False R for a year
2nd D-Day - April 11, 2009

Posts: 1132 | Registered: Mar 2008
sudra
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Member # 30143
Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, December 11th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me (BW) (55), Him(SAWH) (58)
Married 22 years, 1 son (19), 1 stepdaughter (27)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

Posts: 1517 | Registered: Nov 2010
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 12:15 AM, December 16th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5858 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
Lost and Betraye
Member
Member # 33988
Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, December 19th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for all the newbies


Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing

"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft


Posts: 317 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: CA
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 1:04 AM, December 23rd (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5858 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
unarmbears
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Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, December 31st (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Happy New Year!


FBS-Me, 61
FWH-Him, 55
2 Sons 26 and 31
2 Daughters 29, 25 And 4 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

Posts: 4892 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: From where the trees lean east...
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, January 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, January 5th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1924 | Registered: Nov 2010
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