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SuspiciousWife
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Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, June 17th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping


Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session

Posts: 557 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: East Coast
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, June 22nd (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11113 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 1:06 AM, June 23rd (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
UKgirl
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Default  Posted: 3:55 AM, June 29th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for a newbie.


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 56 y/o Him, WS, 57 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 18 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

Posts: 3443 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, June 30th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
september7
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Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, July 1st (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump, bump, bump!!

Reading it over and over!!


D-Day September 7, 2010
NC ended December 22, 2010 and I kicked him OUT! WH dumps OW July 2, 2011 and wants to R! Now he has been living with me in not the best circumstances, but we're paying for medical school for one kid and college the other.

Posts: 156 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Florida
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, July 2nd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5815 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
socold
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Default  Posted: 7:28 PM, July 12th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: in a van down by the river
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, July 18th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, July 23rd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, July 27th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5815 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
socold
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Default  Posted: 6:17 PM, August 2nd (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping in the shadow of my SI hero.


(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

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MrsSprky99
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, August 2nd (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best reading yet....thank you so much to all that played a part in sharing this!!!


BW (me) - 47
WH (him) - 53
Married - 14 years
3 Children - 25, 24 from first relationship & 10 y/o with WH
D-Day: June 11, 2011

Posts: 78 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Northern IL
UnsettledOne
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, August 4th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BH 60

Posts: 176 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Walking toward the light
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 7:51 AM, August 5th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, August 9th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, August 13th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, August 14th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1885 | Registered: Nov 2010
Llanden
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Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, August 15th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpity bump


"If you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best."
“Who makes everything we experience happen? You. You have all the weapons you need. Now fight!” Sweat Pea from Sucker Punch
BS 35
DD's 14, 7 and 5

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sammie
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Default  Posted: 6:36 AM, August 18th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


If someone loves you, it should feel like they love you.
Never give more of yourself than you are getting back.

"The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places." ~Ernest Hemingway


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