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User Topic: The Life Boat
She-Ra
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Member # 36033
Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, January 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

this one hasn't been bumped for a while.. also helpful.


WW/BW 33 BH/WH 34
1 year old beautiful daughter

Posts: 861 | Registered: Jul 2012
Belle29
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Member # 35501
Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, January 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The timing of this is perfect. Thank you for such an honest post.


Me: BS
Her: WS
DDay: 4/27/2012

It's a rollercoaster ride for sure......and I never did like rollercoasters. That's why I got off.


Posts: 154 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Dallas
SandAway
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Member # 37775
Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, January 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 439 | Registered: Dec 2012
knightsbff
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Member # 36853
Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, January 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


Posts: 1499 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
HFSSC
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Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 7:16 AM, February 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2787 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
SandAway
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Member # 37775
Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, February 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping from Page 8 - Yikes!!


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 439 | Registered: Dec 2012
BaxtersBFF
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Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
pizzalover
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Member # 38336
Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump - love this. I'm going to clear out my lifeboat.


Trying to rebuild each day

Me - WW 39
Him - BH 40 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats

Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09


Posts: 488 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
LA44
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BS here. I read this forum a lot. It helps me understand my H mindset a little more. What it also did (I was not expecting) was allow me to feel empathy towards the Unfaithful partner as they faced the damage created and dealt with some long-time ghosts. I also see the determination to repair and rebuild.

Great post Wincing! I read it and can point to where we are right now.

When D-Day came around, I kept hearing Annie Lennoxs' Why, in my head with the tired-sounding lyrics..."this boat is sinking, this boat is sinking".

I don't hear that song anymore.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2463 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
happierdays
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, April 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is such a wonderful analogy, I'm going to send it to my WH. I think it might help him see our lifeboat is lost in the fog.


Me - 40
WH - 41
Dday - Oct 7, 2012
Dday 2 - June 4, 2013
Married - 7 years
2 daughters, 9 years old and 1 month old

Posts: 145 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada
Burl
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Happy  Posted: 1:37 PM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump

Its hard work. Its worth it but it may take 2-3 years


me FWH, 43,
wife BS 43
5 beautiful kids, 6-14 y.o.

DDAY Dec 2010
MC since Dec 2010

both going to IC
LTA
Doing everything I can to help my beautiful wife heal from the anguish and pain I have caused.ounting on a miracle


Posts: 65 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Midwest
wincings_sparkle
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Default  Posted: 11:36 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*bump*.

[This message edited by wincings_sparkle at 7:00 PM, June 9th (Sunday)]


"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light

Posts: 1594 | Registered: Jan 2010
wincings_sparkle
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For a friend, bump.


"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light

Posts: 1594 | Registered: Jan 2010
Deeply Scared
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Member # 2
Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great thread of your to bump...thank you


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198331 | Registered: May 2002
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


Posts: 2762 | Registered: Oct 2012
my2sons
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful analogy! As a newbie, this is incredibly helpful.

Posts: 8 | Registered: Aug 2013
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6315 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
wincings_sparkle
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Newbies...


"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light

Posts: 1594 | Registered: Jan 2010
hurtsobadinside
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Member # 35308
Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No Stop Sign here.....

Thank you..and this is so insightful and so...on the mark!

I'm with all the others that think this is "Healing Library" material

it's Just Fabulous!


Posts: 151 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Illinois
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

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