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Defiance
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Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, July 7th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think we have that problem solved. Happy to be a part of this, DS!

-D


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Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, July 7th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Defiance!!

Nice selection from the poster you sent!!


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Defiance
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Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, July 7th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, DS.

Happy to help in any way I can.

-D


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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, July 7th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Question: who takes the pic of a donated item? The donor or will someone at SI do it?

And how long will donated items be accepted?

[This message edited by Clarrissa at 4:45 PM, July 7th (Wednesday)]


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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, July 8th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd just like to say that the art is amazing. I'd love to have half the talent to be able to do things like that.

[This message edited by CookiesAZ at 2:01 PM, July 8th (Thursday)]


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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, July 8th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Question: who takes the pic of a donated item? The donor or will someone at SI do it?

MH takes all the pictures once we've received the items.

And how long will donated items be accepted?

Forever


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Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, July 8th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Who sets the reserve price?


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Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, July 8th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The reserve price is what the Donor has suggested


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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, July 10th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is the operating budget of SI and where are they at now? Are donations needed generally speaking? I don't really like to buy anything that reminds me of the A but I love to donate


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ARmom
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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, July 12th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How long will you be running the auction. I would like to donate something, but I need a little bit of time to make it.

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Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, July 12th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is the operating budget of SI and where are they at now? Are donations needed generally speaking?

We are billed $573.00 per month for hosting and co-location of the servers.

donations are always welcomed and appreciated


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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, July 12th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AJ...

MH and I were thinking of making this possibly a quarterly event...so if you're wanting to donate an item, we would gladly put it up on the next round


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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, July 12th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm an auction ignoramus. Is there any reason why the reserve price isn't posted in the original item's description? IMO, I think that would be more helpful if you're interested in an item enough to bid (so you know up front what you can expect to pay).


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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, July 13th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, July 13th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If we put the reserved price out there, then the bidding would stop there. But when it is met...I make sure to post


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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, July 13th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gotcha. Thanks.


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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, July 14th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ATTENTION

We are going to start closing auction items once the highest bid is 48 hours old.

This will be implemented as of now


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Hurtingfromher
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, July 15th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think it would be helpful to atleast get a starting price close to the reserve if one isn't to be listed. It seems the $100 mark might be the reserve going rate and some of the bidding wont ever reach it. I'm with Mom of 2. Try a couple and see what happens, at minimal you could get the reserve. Just my 2 cents.


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vanna
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Default  Posted: 9:42 AM, July 17th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We have a very friendly mail lady How do you address the return address??

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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, July 17th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We don't put a return address, so your nosey mail lady is SOL

Mom and Hurting...the next auction block we'll set a starting price


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