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stretch13
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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, June 10th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

nikki - secret visits are a dealbreaker. if you haven't established that with him yet, you must do it now. you will never recover if you are always wondering if there is something you don't know...if he's trying to "spare" your feelings...or just wants to avoid rocking the boat. guess what? he pretty much freakin' capsized the boat. secret visits are, at worst, a continued affair, or at the least, more proof that he can hide whatever he thinks will make you mad if he doesn't want to deal with it.

you deserve the chance to apply your own judgement here because his is clearly terrible. you can't do that without all the facts and some power.

i would think your MC would address this. it's pretty fundamental in these situations. whatever you guys decide to do with visitation or CS (if it's even his) is a completely separate matter. building trust is his job and he's failing.

hahahaha. i sound like i know what i'm talking about! take my advice for what it is, but please do go read the guide posted by BMC0415. it's helped me a lot. it will likely empower you against his manipulations and influence. and please remember that people don't have to consciously manipulate you to mess with your head. my WH doesn't do it on purpose, he thinks he's a really nice, reasonable guy. (obviously, right?).

sigh. i'm glad the OC is in africa. at least i know he's not visiting her behind my back. (and seems to be keeping NC with OW). we don't have paternity established yet either and OW has already sent him all kinds of pictures of "the little one." gag. he's so gonna get grilled tonight after that little trigger. lol. (don't worry, it's not your fault if i trigger from your post. it can happen anytime. this still feels very fresh for me).

come back here for support, it really will keep you strong. there are so many people here who are supportive and knowledgable. it's too hard by yourself, the emotions are too strong to keep a clear head.

i told my IC that a "whole village" was getting me through this. he told me, "perfect, use the whole village, don't be ashamed and don't stop."

i'm so sorry you are here, and i know it's cliche, but at least you are not alone.


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repeatBS326
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, June 10th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I knew OW was trying to speak to fWH & say Happy B-day the other night. I just felt it, after OC called 2x to fWH's cell then OW called the house phone.

Instead of texting me today & confirming pickup time, she called fWH @home today (after OC had already called via her cell to say Happy B-day). She informed him that OC was sick with diarhea for 2 days....and, see if fWH still wanted OC on his b-day, because we'd have to stick close to a toilet and it would mess up our dinner plans. I wouldn't put it past OW to have been feeding OC ExLax to ruin our dinner outing.

Info about OC could've been relayed via my cell/texting.

KNEW she couldn't go 1 b-day w/out speaking to fWH!

What's funny though, is OC called earlier today from her cell while in Wal-mart where OW was buying gift bags for her VacationBibleSchool students. OC is too sick to go out to dinner with fWH, but not to go to Wal-mart w/OW?

nikki: secret meetings are no-nos. I am here to give witness that ANY contact w/OW without you around, can lead to repeat affairs (if they ever ended)...even many years late. I basically had to put my foot down and say "either you go NC w/OW, or give up our M and me." NC was a condition of R#3, for my own sanity. When fWH has contact w/OW, it is SUPPOSED to be through me or when we are both at an event (school or sporting) for OC. I guess some people don't have issues w/OW never giving up, but in our case...it seems it will always be a problem.

OW still tries to break NC. fWH is even guilty of it some, claiming need for voice conversation about OC.....most things aren't so important that he should need to call her directly. If that's the case while I'm @work, I can put fWH on 2-way calling/conf. call from my work phone and call her together.

[This message edited by repeatBS326 at 2:48 PM, June 10th (Thursday)]


Me/BS:39(former cybersex addict 1992); fWH:41; DS:15; DS:11; OW:34; OC:10
Together: 22yrs; Married: 18yrs
D-day#1: Jan99, then FALSE R (subsequent conception of DS#2)
D-day#2: Told about OW/WH pregnancy July2000
D-day#3 (same mOW): 19sep2008

Posts: 1721 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Attemping R #3
want2bok
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, June 10th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nikki - I definately agree with everyone else that he MUST go NC with OW and any contact must go through you or you at least know before. We moved 2 days after D-day abotu 2 hours away from OW. Our cell contracts were up 2 weeks after that and H and I got new phone and new numbers. It was necessary due to the crappy service in our new area anyway, but we only gave OW my cell number. Boy did that piss her off. She said that she wasn't going to go through me for the next 18 years and I told her that she had better get used to it or quit calling because that is what she was getting. I don't mind if H talks to her about OC, but I know that I am there for those calls and that she can't be calling him (which is what the problem continued to be). That made a HUGE difference in R for us.


BS - me 32
WS - him 32
3 beautiful girls - 11, 9, 7 and angel baby 7/9/10
D-Day 1/07 - 1+ yr PA
OW 35
OC born 12/06
R since 2/07 and going well

Posts: 135 | Registered: Jun 2008
dreamer1
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, June 10th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Altered:

Your last paragraph, I am with you 100%, they should just do the honorable thing, and do this because it is right, after all is that what we deserve from them in the laest bit, for what we actually do for them NOW!!!
My FWH has said it is what is right now, but he stil makes stupid comments like that as well, they just don't get it, but want us too. LOL Quit throwing it in my face, but what did they just do, to us !!!!

Nikki-- Listen to these ladies...

I went through the secret contact, and oh the visits were just to see the boys, only because OW was making it difficult for him to have them around me, and munipulated him to extremes to have power of the situation. Well it went on about a year, and much more severe contact then what I really thought, and load and behol, the A was still going on. WTF!!! yeppers, I tell you put a stop to that...

LIKE STRETCH Said:secret visits are a dealbreaker. if you haven't established that with him yet, you must do it now. you will never recover if you are always wondering if there is something you don't know...if he's trying to "spare" your feelings...or just wants to avoid rocking the boat. guess what? he pretty much freakin' capsized the boat. secret visits are, at worst, a continued affair, or at the least, more proof that he can hide whatever he thinks will make you mad if he doesn't want to deal with it.

I especially like the last sentence......


S(he) Be(lie)ve(d)
Me-BS 48
Him-FWH 50
Friends 34 yrs-Married 26 yrs
D-Day 1/20/2007
LTA-To Many False R to count and D-days, Last D-day June 11,2010
4 stepchildren SS 28, SD 29, Twin SS 2yrs.
Twin OC, born 6/23/2008
Trying to see if R is pos

Posts: 558 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: Arizona
eyesnowopen
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, June 12th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Has anyone gotten joint custody of the OC? We have been talking about it lately. We know that the OW isn't the most solid citizen with her history of bf's who are drug users, not to mention the fact that she was having an A with a married man, my married man, plus she has been arrested for hitting one of her bf's and will be working a lot while the OC is in daycare all day. I am a stay at home mom, I homeschool our child and would be home to take care of the OC instead of it being in daycare all the time. Is this even possible with a newborn? Will the courts even consider joint custody?


Me: selfish witch who didn't want three people in our marriage
Him: FT who thought he could have both of us and the OC too

Divorced..drama free...movin on!


Posts: 328 | Registered: Apr 2010
dreamer1
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, June 12th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi everyone, sorry I have not been on here in awhile, I do come in and keep up with the reading.

I posted in general: however, thought I should let you all know that I will be leaving you guys. I told WH yes WH last night that I wanted out of this relationship, he said you mean marriage, I said no this has not been a marriage for over 4 yrs now.

He has continued the A. It never ended like I was lead to believe, it hurts so bad. But I do no I will be ok, and probably better. No turning back this time... Repeating this over and over until it sinks in. I have wasted to much time, on someone who does not deserve it.

Good luck to all of you, and you all have been so wonderful to me. I will still come and read from time to time, and maybe post once in awhile..


S(he) Be(lie)ve(d)
Me-BS 48
Him-FWH 50
Friends 34 yrs-Married 26 yrs
D-Day 1/20/2007
LTA-To Many False R to count and D-days, Last D-day June 11,2010
4 stepchildren SS 28, SD 29, Twin SS 2yrs.
Twin OC, born 6/23/2008
Trying to see if R is pos

Posts: 558 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: Arizona
Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, June 13th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((dreamer1))

We will still be here if you need support.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

Posts: 2066 | Registered: Feb 2010
Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, June 13th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A little sad today - would have been our 12 year anniversary. Crazy.

NC with him has been going well. I can't block him from calling or emailing me at work, and he did send me an email last week to my work address saying that he will leave me be, but he is trying to figure all this out and I may not talk to him for a while, but he is going to come back and fight for me.

Great. I didn't respond, and I hope he gets the hint that I don't want him to come back and fight for me. Too little, too late.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

Posts: 2066 | Registered: Feb 2010
Want2help
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Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, June 13th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Whalers)))

The board is slow today, but I wanted to let you know that you have been heard.

I am so sorry, but good for you on keeping up with the NC. I know it's difficult, my FWH kept trying to come crawling back after I threw him out (he was living with the OW in a camper at the time).

Don't they just make you want to sometimes?


BS- me.
FWS- him.
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
RDay 8/07
Surprise OC born 3/08 (NC)
6 years into successful R.
"That which can be destroyed by truth should be." -P. C. Hodgell

Posts: 1954 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: PNW
altered
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Default  Posted: 7:58 AM, June 14th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((whalers & Dreamer)))))

So sorry for your pain. You guys have to do what is right for you in your heart. You are strong, you can do this. Take care of you, and we are here if you need us.


Married since 5/99
BS-36
WH-39
1 COM
D-Day 6/27/09
In R OC born 12/15
D-Day #2 8/19/13

I want to be the kind of woman I want my daughter to be-Jewel

Posts: 205 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Heartland
shockdbyndbelief
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, June 14th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Whalers and Dreamer)))

Stay strong with the NC, Whalers.
Dreamer, I am so sorry to hear that the affair was still going on. What an ass! All of us on this board deserve THE BEST.
Hang in there, everyone. Even though I broke up with my X over a year ago, I still struggle with all of this shit. My thoughts are with all of you.
Shocked xo


Posts: 145 | Registered: Oct 2008
Finesse026
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, June 14th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((whalers & dreamer)))

My heart goes out to you both.


Together: 8.5 years
Married: 5 years
BW: 32
WH: 34
Angel baby: Nov. 09
OC born June '10

filed for D Oct. 15, served Dec 18
D final June 21, 2011


Posts: 1795 | Registered: Oct 2009 | From: Wonderland
Mandilwen
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, June 14th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ughh. XH just told me that OW will probably be moving over here in a couple of months. All the way from Germany. I don't think he is even doing a DNA test anymore. Moron. If there isn't any proof that this is his child, I won't be using the term "sister" with my boys. I am pretty much over "him" but this situation is still going to suck. Yuck. Can I get some hugs too?


BS-34; WXH-32; DS8; DS3; OC3
DDay: SEPT 2008
Divorced: JUNE 2010

Posts: 318 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Indy
Want2help
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Default  Posted: 10:48 PM, June 14th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Mandilwen)))

Waht a complete moron if he doesn't get a DNA test!

I am so sorry, especially for when you have to explain it to your boys.

OC is 14 months older than COM, and I dread the day I have to explain that she has a sibling so close in age...


BS- me.
FWS- him.
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
RDay 8/07
Surprise OC born 3/08 (NC)
6 years into successful R.
"That which can be destroyed by truth should be." -P. C. Hodgell

Posts: 1954 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: PNW
Finesse026
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Default  Posted: 11:14 PM, June 14th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Of course Mandi!

It's a difficult situation no matter the road we choose.

(((Mandi)))


Together: 8.5 years
Married: 5 years
BW: 32
WH: 34
Angel baby: Nov. 09
OC born June '10

filed for D Oct. 15, served Dec 18
D final June 21, 2011


Posts: 1795 | Registered: Oct 2009 | From: Wonderland
BMC0415
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, June 15th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Mandi)), here is a hug and a bit of advice. If you haven't sone so already, see about CS for your children before she gets here just in case all of a sudden she wants "daddy" to start supporting OC. And feel free to share my story as a good reason why you should have a DNA test done as soon as possible.

You know I must admit that I took a little joy in telling H that he was not the father of twins, at the time it felt like poetic justice. I am not happy about how it hurt him now, but it felt good at the time.

((Finesse)), how are you holding up sweetie?

[This message edited by BMC0415 at 10:13 AM, June 15th (Tuesday)]


Me: 40+ Him: 40+
Married: 20+ years
D-Day: 3/7/07
Children: 24dd,23ds,21dd
10 yr. LTA 3OC w/OW 10,10,14 8/14/12-gave custody of twins to ex 8/16/12-DIVORCED!

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Mandilwen
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, June 15th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone! Just got off the phone with the lawyer and our divorce was finalized last week. Child support starts this week and as he is unemployed, it is only $40 a week for both kids. The decree states as soon as he is employed, child support is to be increased based on income. So I got mine in first and that was what mattered.

I knew there was a good chance she would come if we divorced. I believe that is why I tried to hang on for so long. But like Bigger told another member, I realized it was worse to share him than lose him. Luckily my mother in law totally despises her and doesn't want the boys around her. I know it will happen eventually, but not until we are comfortable. I have proof that she slit her wrists over my XH. Lawyer said if she does come, I can bring a motion for mental health evaluations before the kids are allowed around her.

My goal now is NC with XH unless it's about the kids. Try to do text and email as much as possible, but with them being so young, probably have to have some phone conversations. I have told him he better get a DNA test and he knows his family will not accept the baby until it has been proven. He just says it's not my problem. So be it! Thanks again for all of your support and advice! I'll keep you updated!

Finesse, I think I sent u a pm, but was wondering how you are doing. Hope your days are getting better!


BS-34; WXH-32; DS8; DS3; OC3
DDay: SEPT 2008
Divorced: JUNE 2010

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stretch13
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Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, June 15th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wow, it just goes on and on. mandilwen - ouch. why does just the proximity of the OW hurt, even when we think we are beyond that (them)?

as for the paternity thing, i think your XH is dead wrong on one thing. i'd tell him that anything that may affect the psychology of your children now or in the future is certainly your problem. who is going to help them understand all this later? or comfort them if they've bonded with OC, then WH and OW get on each other's nerves, she proves he's not the father and takes "sister" away to germany? or who explains why they've never gotten to meet this girl who they now find out is their half-sister (without them blaming you)? he is an idiot, too, if OW has documented mental problems, lives far away where there Are plenty of "sperm donors," and he's not getting DNA tests??

they don't get that their problems only start with them, the ripple effect is more than they will probably ever recognize. my WH was saying he was going to move back home (far) if we split up for good. when i asked him how he could do that to DD and that she wouldn't remember or know him, his comment was, "well, sacrifices will have to be made." i said, "who's sacrifice? DD's?" and then i told him it was a really p*$$! thing to do. he has since reconsidered, but really was feeling sorry for himself missing out on DDs life as though it would only hurt him or me.

i hate all of this. we are getting along fairly well right now, but i can't let myself get sucked back in because i know he still has to deal with her and her when the time comes. so, i told him for now to expect my walls to stay up, his doghouse to be occupied, and to not "get any" until OC was back, paternity is done and they know how they are proceeding. i can't keep trying to get closer to him while he's sorting that out. it's a little easier for me because they don't seem to care for each other much at all. if they start an A again after all this, she's welcome to his pathetic butt. i don't see that happening. i'm more afraid of someone new than her.

i hate this. it's just getting so boring. i'm tired of "doing as well as can be expected." i'm tired of limbo. i'm tired of not being able to concentrate and people having to "check on me." sometimes i wish i could find that one piece of evidence that would let me write him off forever. but i know to be careful what i wish for, yuck.

we start MC next thursday. it only took him six months to schedule our first appt after dday! wow! sometimes i wish i could look at that and say, "he's just not serious about this." instead, more realistically, i'm looking at "he's just not competent enough to juggle all of this." (thanks, adhd!)


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repeatBS326
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, June 16th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

EyesNowOpen,

Even though fWH did not do anything legal (except pay for DNA & add his name to BC) until after A#3 in 2008 - started the proceedings during their 3rd A though, while they were on really good terms. fWH had been paying CS monthly and getting OC 3-4 (or more) days weekly since the DNA was positive. Since OW finally caved on signing after fighting it for many months (it wasn't agreed anymore & she refused to sign until fWH had her served w/court papers - at additional cost)....She was gung-ho about it until he broke off A#3, then fWH realized she was making more money than both fWH & me together for about 3 years or more (she'd actually owed him CS).

fWH now has joint custody. He got the lawyer to write up the parenting plan (which includes visitation & other stuff). OW still actually owed him CS, but fWH wrote that out.

What's hard is that in order to keep fWH NC w/OW (or my best attempt at it), I had to step up and be the pickup/dropoff person. Plus, fWH insists on seeing OC daily afterschool which means I see OW 3-4 days each week (except during summer). And, when OC was in basketball, I'd also have to see OW on weekends (until she quit "playing" at the good mommy routine for fWH's benefit & to torment me by showing to almost every ballgame).

I think that in fWH's case, it was in his best interest to get the lawyer first & propose the papers with the wording he wanted about visits etc. It shows the judge that he IS interested in OC and wants to be the responsible/active parent in OC's life.

We have OC every FRI-SAT-SUN night during school. Alternating THURs during school. Then Fri & Sat nights during summer. Plus some other holidays & birthdays. fWH & OW have OC almost the same amount of time, but not exactly (she has about 20 nights more - which overnights give the parent that day in calculations in our state). Last summer, OW let fWH keep OC even on Sunday nights, but because of tutoring for COM on Monday afternoons, we basically had to decide if I wanted OC to stay Sun night and fWH take her back to OW on Mondays, or if OW's BH#2 would be pickup on Mondays. Fortunately, fWH allowed me to ask OW to get OC on Sundays.

Until fWH lost his job then went on disability, he carried medical/dental/vision on OC. Now I carry her on our family's plan through my work.

OW is the payee for OC's check which she gets from fWH's SS disability. fWH was the payee, but OW got that changed. Now OW gets $800/month for OC's use. She isn't saving any of it. Bankrupt SAHM OW just got brand new car, OC gets new clothes monthly, OC got a cell w/unlimited texting/calls, OW's home got new living room furniture & new hardwood floors. OW routinely gets manicures now also. It burns us up about OC's $$$, but we cannot make OW save any for OC. SocSec decided she was best suited to be the payee now, so we will see what happens @end of year when they need both families to do inventory of expenses/savings for fWH's children receiving benefits. DS13/DS10 both have savings accts now specifically for any remaining monthly $$$ of theirs....OC9 doesn't have any savings. With OC's $$$ this month, OW bought a laptop and they got internet. I don't think OC gets to use the laptop.

On another note:
I was really sick Fri night/Saturday morning (stomach virus)....I reluctantly had to ask fWH to go pickup OC. Did not want him around her, but had no choice unless I wanted to try to drive in my condition. I took OC back on Sun though. OW's BH#2 showed up w/OW too. He feels about the same way about OW being around fWH. They cannot be trusted to be around each other alone...period. Even COM being chaperones isn't quite the same.

[This message edited by repeatBS326 at 1:11 PM, June 16th (Wednesday)]


Me/BS:39(former cybersex addict 1992); fWH:41; DS:15; DS:11; OW:34; OC:10
Together: 22yrs; Married: 18yrs
D-day#1: Jan99, then FALSE R (subsequent conception of DS#2)
D-day#2: Told about OW/WH pregnancy July2000
D-day#3 (same mOW): 19sep2008

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eyesnowopen
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, June 16th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for your response. I just don't see how you deal with everything you have to deal with in your situation. I know the bumpy road is only beginning and I hope every day that it's not his but we are planning for it, just in case. Was the OC a baby or older when he had the lawyer write up the parenting plan? We see a lawyer about all of this next week and want to be prepared. thanks again for your response


Me: selfish witch who didn't want three people in our marriage
Him: FT who thought he could have both of us and the OC too

Divorced..drama free...movin on!


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