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User Topic: Support Through Prayer- Part 2
rcantbleveit
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Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, April 9th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's so good to see that there are so many believers among us.

Our divorce was final last month. H is living with OW. They are out with friends of ours tonight. It just hurts so much to know that she has just stepped in and took over my life as if I didn't even exist.

Friends say they love my H and I both. They can't take sides & they have to support whatever decisions we've made.

That is great, however I'm the one that had to move and lost my community because of it, while OW enjoys my home, my friends, my husband, step sons & community.

I'm not angry about it. I'm just downright sad & lost. I love my H. He says he will always love me & he will be here if I need anything.

He won't talk about why he left or what he's doing. They have all the money they want & need. They travel and have fun constantly. I'm struggling to get through each day.

I pray for everyone of us going through the loss of their spouse/friend. I pray that God will completely fill us up with his love & comfort. I pray that we all get the necessary strength to make it through this trial and hold onto God the entire time.

God bless each and everyone of you.


Posts: 226 | Registered: Dec 2010
jdt1973
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Member # 31750
Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, April 9th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pray for me to stay NC. I have struggled the past two weeks pretty hard. And thus, it affects my wife when she senses my struggle. I know that God's best is with my wife and kids. I have believed the lies of Satan for so long, lies I took part in telling myself. I am having to "renew" my mind. Please pray that I will be faithful to see R through and that my very hurt wife will not give up.


After all is said and done, just shut the hell up.
WH(me) 38
BS 38
Togethher 21 years, married 19
5 kids - 17,15,12,10,2
DD#1 4/2001 - EA/PA
DD#2 10/2009 - EA/PA
DD#3 1/4/2011 - EA/PA same AP as DD#2
R - trying hard

Posts: 175 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Texas
takilasunrise
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, April 13th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I, too, am asking for prayer for myself. I am still having major anxiety issues with all of this and the anxiety part of it is really starting to overwhelm me. I am personally struggling with my own faith through all this as well. Thank you.

And, I ask, too, that a prayer is said for my WH...."forgive him, for he knows not what he does".


BW - Me, 49 years old
WH - Him, 51 years old)
D-Day July 2010 (several D-days to follow)
Divorced February 7, 2012

Denial isn't the way to forgiveness. The Karma for screwing over a good girl is the Bitch you end up with.


Posts: 978 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: WI
emotiona hell
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Default  Posted: 7:11 AM, April 17th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our daughter is getting married in about a month.It has been difficult to plan the wedding while working on R in my marriage. Please pray that I am able to enjoy here day.



Me BS 41
WH 43
DS 12 DD 21
Married 23 years
DDay 6/26/10
Filed for divorce 11/23/11

Posts: 218 | Registered: Apr 2011
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, April 18th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
wifeno2
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, May 12th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel selfish asking for a prayer for myself but I'm hurting today. Thank you!


Me-BW (45)
Him-WS (42)
DS 19 (prior relationship)
DS-8
DDay #1- 10/22/2010 EA/PA with MOW coworker
Dday#2:11/17/2010 beginning secret emails with potential OW#2
DDay #3 11/22/2010 still seeing OW#1
Too many DD's to count: Now up to OW #6.

Posts: 696 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: the south
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, May 12th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((wifeno2))))


You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
crushed again
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, May 17th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Father God, I pray that you'll hear & answer every prayer on this board. If it be Your Will I pray that you will remove all ugliness & devastation to each and every hurting soul on here whether it be a BS or WS. Dear Lord please let the relationships (even those that seem broken beyond repair) be restored and healed by Your loving hands. Lord please let me remember that only You are the true vindicator & are a fair God of justice. I pray for the peace & wisdom I know only You can give me. I also pray that you will wrap your loving arms around my DS who is starting to doubt your existence in this ugly mess. Lord I pray for my home & life to be washed clean by Your healing blood. I know You don't like to see "your children" hurting. Please give me Your grace to move ahead in whatever direction YOU want me to go. Again Lord I ask that You wrap your loving arms around each and every SI member. Thank you for prayers answered in advance. In Jesus precious name I pray, Amen.


"Don't you worry your pretty little mind because people throw rocks at things that shine!"
~I guess living in limbo is my "new normal"- stinks!~

Posts: 713 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: Dreaming of a far better place!
dday420
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Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, May 17th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just asking for prayer. Everyone is welcome to read my story. Thank you!


For better or for worse

Infidelity is a choice. There is no justification.


Posts: 95 | Registered: May 2011 | From: socal
diditagn
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Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, May 23rd (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is a prayer that I found helpfull. It's a prayer for intercession from St. Jude, the Saint of the impossible causes.

I hope that this prayer can bring peace to someone.

“Saint Jude, we have problems in our relationship. Beg Almighty God to give us the light to see ourselves and each other as we really are. Help us to grow daily in self-knowledge and mutual love, while at the same time developing our potential to love and be loved. Help us, Saint Jude, to see and root out every manifestation of selfishness, vanity, and childish self-seeking—those hidden enemies of love and maturity. Show us that by learning to love and being filled with love, we may complement and nurture each other as we share our lives together.”


Happy people don't have the best things, they make the best with what they have.

Posts: 1556 | Registered: Feb 2004 | From: WI
trynhard
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, May 24th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wanted to share a miracle.

First, it is a miracle I am still married.

Sunday, May 22, 2011, I gave my W a chance to recommit her fidelity to me after we have worked for 31 months reconciling our relationship. This was the prayer.

Lord, Increase and consecrate the love which “D” and “T” have for one another. The wedding rings they once exchanged are the sign of their fidelity. May they continue to prosper in the grace of the sacrament. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Lord God and Creator, we bless and praise your name. In the beginning you made man and woman, so that they might enter a communion of life and love. You likewise blessed the union of “D” with “T”, so that they might reflect the union of Christ with his Church, look with kindness on them today. Amid the joys and struggles of their life, you have preserved the union between them, renew their marriage covenant, increase your love in them, and strengthen their bond of peace, so that “our children”, they may always rejoice in the gift of your blessing. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Later that day Sunday, my friend of mine, who did not know about our renewal, sent me a picture. It was the back of our home. Look at that rainbow that happened the same day over my house.

Genesis 9:13: And God said, “I have set my rainbow in the clouds, and it will be the sign of the covenant between me and the earth”

This was no coincidence on the day of our renewing our marriage covenant.

Peace be with you all.

[This message edited by trynhard at 2:49 PM, May 24th (Tuesday)]


Posts: 2666 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Indiana
emotiona hell
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, May 26th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I gave WH the book, How to help your spouse heal from your Affair. Please pray that he reads it.He is not much of a reader. Also pray that he gets what God wants him to get from it.

[This message edited by emotiona hell at 11:24 AM, May 26th (Thursday)]



Me BS 41
WH 43
DS 12 DD 21
Married 23 years
DDay 6/26/10
Filed for divorce 11/23/11

Posts: 218 | Registered: Apr 2011
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, June 21st (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

trynhard~ that makes me

emotiona hell~ God, open Mr.eh's heart to hear the words You speak to heal another marriage covenant. Send comfort and love to emotiona and hold her close during this trial of life.


You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
rcantbleveit
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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, July 12th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I spent some time with WH on the 4th. We cuddled up to talk and listen to some music. He didn't ask or want anything other than that.

I went to a cookout at friends and he suggested that I come back over afterwards.

After leaving his house, I realized that 3 prayers had been answered.

I've prayed so much over the last year that sometimes it just feels like God is not listening and I start to doubt, but then the proof that he's not only listening but making things happen shows up and that is amazing.

I'm still praying for a miracle. I want reconciliation & restoration. Everytime I start to give up, something comes along to give me hope. Our God is an awesome God! He can turn around any situation.

I know that H will eventually turn to God and will be saved. My biggest fear is that when he does, he will be with someone else or that he will come back to me but I will have moved on.

I'm so sick of Satan tearing apart marriages/families. Doesn't everyone just get tired of him winning so much? Why can't people see the devastation that happens from affairs and just walk away?

Pray that God will send armies of angels into every marriage/family for protection and give them the strength to make the right choices/decisions.

Thanks to those who have posted their miracles as well as answered prayers.


Posts: 226 | Registered: Dec 2010
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, July 30th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray for my entire family today. Has been a horrible week for myself, my H, and DS21.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7021 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, July 30th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. 1 Thessalonians 5:23

We all stumble in many ways. If anyone is never at fault in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to keep his whole body in check. James 3:2

So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing. James 1:4


You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
heart_in_a_blend
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Default  Posted: 11:27 AM, July 30th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Even though I find myself physically single, I am never spiritually single as God is my husband, my provider, my Helper, my friend. I am never alone as He is my comforter even amongst my loneliness and tears, He will Always be faithful.


In life, much of what one grieves one never had.

Posts: 3036 | Registered: May 2009
numb82010
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Default  Posted: 12:38 AM, August 15th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm asking for prayers for my family and myself. My WH and I are in reconciliation, but extremely close to divorce. We both need wisdom and patience. We have 2 very young, precious girls who don't deserve to have a fractured family. Please pray that my WH and I have God's will as our own and that whatever the outcome, our daughters are happier, healthier, and stronger for it. Our family needs peace. Thank you!!


D-day #1: Aug. 20, 2010
D-day #2: June 21, 2011
2 Abandonments through-out 2011
Decision made to divorce Feb. 2012
Decision to reconcile March 2012
3 beautiful girls

Posts: 11 | Registered: Sep 2010
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:48 AM, August 15th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for peace for you, numb.


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16303 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
mrsdwp6
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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, August 29th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for my husband. That he find peace again. That God will show me new ways to love and cherish him. That the Lord continues to purify and refine me to be the wife and mother my husband and children deserve.


Me: WS
Him: BS
D-Day: 8/19/11
Working hard for R.

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