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User Topic: Support Through Prayer- Part 2
nealos
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Member # 35284
Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, November 20th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

God please help me make it through today.


31yo WS-SA

“When we disclose the thought and intents of our hearts in surrender, we identify with one another at depth.”


Posts: 258 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: 5280'
Missymomma
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Member # 36988
Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, November 20th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I do believe in the power of prayer. Don't know if anyone is reading this thread, it seems quite old. Please pray for a member whose SA husband raped and beat her. Please pray for her recovery and safety.


DDay - 6/15/11
R started - 7/1/11
False Discl- 9/27/12
Real Discl - 2/12/13
Poly - 3/1/13 Pass!
Me - BS (46)
WH - 52 (SA, NA, WA)
Kids: 2 littles and 1 grown
The road to recovery is long and hard. Some days I am up for it and others not!

Posts: 1084 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Texas
Ready_to_run
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Member # 20954
Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, November 20th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A prayer going out here, Missy.

Lord please be with this woman in her time of need and let her know that she did nothing to deserve this. Watch over her and keep her safe. SA is such an insidious addiction and excruciatingly painful for the victims. Please help her husband to do whatever it takes to get the help that he needs. Let your will be done, lord, we trust you to make all wrongs right. Amen.


BH
Divorced


Posts: 750 | Registered: Sep 2008
heartbroken0903
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Member # 27879
Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, November 21st (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for all who need them...

Lord, we ask You for Your blessings and help for everyone who needs You. Please wrap all who cry for You in Your arms. Amen.

For Thanksgiving:

"Give thanks unto the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever." Psalm 107.1


Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Remarried.


Posts: 2232 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
putonahappyface
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Member # 30269
Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, November 27th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending up a prayer for everyone who needs a boost today! And asking for prayers that God will send either a CSAT or a great IC to my WH. He is looking & trying so hard, & anyone remotely qualified is gone or fully booked. And I could use some IC too... Thanks, & Blessings to all!


BS (me) - 50; SAWH- 51 (hurtherbadly)
Married 27 yrs
2 DS - 21&17
Dday 6/4/2010. 2 EA/PA
11/15/12 update: discovered porn addiction
4 years out: M is strong; FWH is a new man :)


Posts: 721 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Bluegrass
nealos
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Member # 35284
Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, December 12th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for willingness. I know from my past that I do not have what it takes to do this alone. Thank you thank you thank you.


31yo WS-SA

“When we disclose the thought and intents of our hearts in surrender, we identify with one another at depth.”


Posts: 258 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: 5280'
nealos
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Member # 35284
Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, December 26th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

god, I feel disconnected. I know it's my fault. I pray that I recognize your will when you show it to me, and I pray that you remain present in my daily choices.

god, also be with J. If she's sad like I am, I pray that you comfort her. I pray for her happiness-- that has to be your will, right?


31yo WS-SA

“When we disclose the thought and intents of our hearts in surrender, we identify with one another at depth.”


Posts: 258 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: 5280'
putonahappyface
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Member # 30269
Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, December 26th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nealos~ I just happened to read most of your story/posts in the Wayward forum started by Missing. I can't post there, but I just wanted to tell you that I admire your strength & courage. I'm rooting for you, & I do believe you'll beat this addiction & find peace, joy & happiness again.

My WH's story is so very similar to yours, with a few exceptions. He's on day 42 of his sobriety & 12 step program. He shares your determination to break the chains of his porn addiction, so I find myself cheering for you the same as I am for him. I'm sorry for your sadness. I would just encourage you to focus solely on your recovery & your happiness. Keep working the steps, reading & posting.

I wish my H would write things out the way you do, but it's just not his thing. Anyway, I just wanted you to know that your words have helped someone. Reading them in some way helped me to understand the struggle, the addiction. And when you described the good people at your 12 step mtg, I thought to myself that my H could be one of those people! He IS a good man; you both are. God's forgiveness & grace is available to both of you. Best of luck to you on your journey of healing & recovery. I'll keep you in my prayers. (((Nealos)))


BS (me) - 50; SAWH- 51 (hurtherbadly)
Married 27 yrs
2 DS - 21&17
Dday 6/4/2010. 2 EA/PA
11/15/12 update: discovered porn addiction
4 years out: M is strong; FWH is a new man :)


Posts: 721 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Bluegrass
nealos
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Member # 35284
Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, January 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

god,
please grant me the courage to stay sober another day.
please grant me the willingness and strength to reach out to when I don't want to.
please be with J and help her today.


31yo WS-SA

“When we disclose the thought and intents of our hearts in surrender, we identify with one another at depth.”


Posts: 258 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: 5280'
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, January 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

God thank you for everything that has happened in my life. I would not be who I am if I had not been where I had been.

Please help others here find that acceptance, faith, and peace that you have given me.

Please help me not to forget that every minute is a miracle.


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2636 | Registered: Aug 2012
shocked4
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, January 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have not been here for a while, but for the first few months I spent hours upon hours on here. It was exptremely helpful. To find out I was not alone was so comforting. I turned to God out of so much pain. The Lord has taken me on an incredible journey. I do not want to offend anyone. I will say I have been blogging about my experience. In no way do I benefit if anybody reads it. It is from a Christian perspective. I just want to offer it if anyone may find it helpful. The site is free and has an amazing community of believers.

http://www.prayerrequest.com/blog/255-chiltons-blog/

I continue to pray all your wounds be healed and the Lord gives You his strength and guidance.


D-Day August 17, 2011
M-23 years
4 children ages 10-23

Posts: 136 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Ohio
Fidelia
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Default  Posted: 9:31 AM, February 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please be praying for us. I'm scared that I want this more than WH. But most of all I'm scared because WH (former preacher) seems to have lost all faith in God as part of the discovery of the affairs.

I'm so lonely at church each Sunday, wanting him back sitting beside me. I just want him to know how much God loves him.


Me: BW 36
Him: WH 36 (randomusername)

"lift your drooping hands and strengthen your weak knees, and make straight paths for your feet, so that what is lame may not be put out of joint, but rather be healed" Heb12v13

"Oh God give me


Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2013
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, February 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs and prayers sent


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2636 | Registered: Aug 2012
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, February 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs and prayers sent


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2636 | Registered: Aug 2012
Fidelia
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Default  Posted: 12:31 AM, February 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you.

I've had a rough week emotionally, feeling near the end of my tether. Please be praying for us.


Me: BW 36
Him: WH 36 (randomusername)

"lift your drooping hands and strengthen your weak knees, and make straight paths for your feet, so that what is lame may not be put out of joint, but rather be healed" Heb12v13

"Oh God give me


Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2013
SweetheartVixen
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Default  Posted: 4:01 AM, February 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will pray for you all and hope it is returned back to me also. Ive had an emotionally draining week with severe wmotional abuse which was done to me.


BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...

DD 6-14


Posts: 3104 | Registered: Jul 2004 | From: somewhere over the rainbow
phoenix_vs
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Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, February 17th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Answered prayer: My alcoholic WBF hit bottom three weeks ago. He's been there many times, this time, I had hit bottom, too. He didn't know I have been praying for him for a long time, praying that God will help him become the person He wants him to be. We've been together for ten years, but I was starting to look for a place to move. I couldn't take it anymore.

Long story short, there was a crisis, following which he has stopped drinking, and kept saying "I feel released, like I'm out of prison, I've never felt like this the other times I stopped drinking." It was then I knew that God had delivered him and broken the chains that have bound him for so long. He isn't out of the woods yet, he went for so long without eating that he has lost the ability to walk. He has numerous health problems related to alcohol abuse.

Me, I am exhausted. I pray for God to protect his newly cleansed spirit, and to help him heal, and sometimes I say, "please help him, because I don't feel like it, and I know that You care way more than I do right now."

Even though emotionally, I need to heal as much as he does, I rejoice and thank God for His deliverance. Truly a miracle of answered prayer.

I hope this story of God's power and grace encourages you to keep praying boldly. Take care of yourself, and let God deal with him (or her).

Blessings to all.


I'm not sad that you lied to me. I'm sad that I can never believe you again.

Well, I'm sad that you lied to me, too.


Posts: 371 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Great Falls Montana
nealos
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Member # 35284
Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, March 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thank you, god


31yo WS-SA

“When we disclose the thought and intents of our hearts in surrender, we identify with one another at depth.”


Posts: 258 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: 5280'
sparklingwater
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Default  Posted: 4:23 AM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would like to thank god that my faith has been renewed through this tough time. I am truly humbled to be able to give all of my situation over to him, and allow him to have total control of my life. I have felt at breaking point but he has gently reminded me that he has never left me, but is instead holding me in his arms.

He has blessed me with unexpected finances and miracles. I have learnt that he works in totally unexpected ways, and that when I can't see a way out, he has it all in control.

Thanks be to god for his never ending love.

[This message edited by sparklingwater at 4:25 AM, April 10th (Wednesday)]


Newly single and trying to find my feet.

There's always light at the end of the tunnel, just pray it's not a train.


Posts: 104 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Australia
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, April 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After watching the movie Fireproof, there is a parasite in my marriage.

Please pray that the blood of Jesus Christ can prevent satan from overcoming my marriage.

Oh heavenly Father, there are many here who want to do your Will, I pray that you may work in their lives to heal and show them your wisdom. We are waiting on you Lord. Reveal your path for their lives. In Jesus Christ's name. Amen.


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

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