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User Topic: Helpful Books for WSes
NPDMagnet
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Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, February 28th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have not started it yet but it was highly recommended to me by my OMA (technically my BFF's mom but my "Other Mother" & "Other Grandmother" to my son).

She has been a practicing psychologist for over 40 years:

Your Erroneous Zones by Wayne W. Dyer



What part of an inverse tangent function approaching an asymptote don't you understand?

Posts: 8 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Native Am vessel w/o propulsion on River Excrement
BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, March 12th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6097 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
Fallen
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, April 2nd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For Openbook.


You can't heal what you won't feel.

"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."


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Fallen
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, June 14th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can't heal what you won't feel.

"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."


Posts: 23478 | Registered: May 2004
nealos
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, June 15th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Different "genre" of book-- I personally had experienced intimacy problems because porn was a part of my life, and I found these books helpful. I'm sharing in case anyone else is curious about it too. I don't pretend to know how everyone got to this site.

The Porn Trap: The Essential Guide to Overcoming Problems Caused by Pornography
-Maltz

Porn Nation: Conquering America's #1 Addiction
-Leahy


31yo WS-SA

“When we disclose the thought and intents of our hearts in surrender, we identify with one another at depth.”


Posts: 258 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: 5280'
BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6097 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
heartstabber
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Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, September 12th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the bump. Lot's of good information - many books and websites I wasn't aware of.


Me: WW
Married: 15 years
DD: November 2011

Let's eat Grandma. Let's eat, Grandma. Commas save lives.


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BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 6:31 AM, November 8th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6097 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, December 9th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for sohowamI.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6097 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
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Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, December 28th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6097 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, December 28th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for this thread!! Such a wealth of information. I look forward to reading many of these. I picked up 'NOT just friends' today, and also ordered 'sexual detours' online. Thanks again!


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 18 yrs. "You were sick, but now you're well again, and there's work to do."
Kurt Vonnegut



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BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, January 20th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

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Default  Posted: 8:56 AM, January 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A few more I didn't see on the list that have been important for me:

As A Man Thinketh by James Allen - Very old and old fashioned but very good. It's short so read it all then decide what you think.

The Miracle of Forgiveness by Spencer W. Kimble - very religious but priceless for anyone of any Christian faith.

The Self-Centered Marriage by Hal Runkle, I took his instructor course in Scream Free Parenting for my job and couldn't believe how much of it was applicable to my sitch. Check out the Scream Free website. Amazing stuff.

ETA
The Mindfulness Solution: everyday practices for everyday problems, by Ronald Siegel. Helps me to deal.

[This message edited by knightsbff at 9:00 AM, January 21st (Monday)]


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, January 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Default  Posted: 6:18 PM, February 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me: 37

'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, February 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Edited: Oh my gosh...you already bumped it!

[This message edited by Deeply Scared at 6:53 PM, February 10th (Sunday)]


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, March 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


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BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6097 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me: WS, 30s
XH: BS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Reconciled after divorce

"Someday you'll look back on all these days
And all this pain is gonna be invisible." - Hunter Hayes, "Invisible"


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sickandtired630
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping for later.

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