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User Topic: SI quote thread- Vol 12
Exit Wounds
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, April 13th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MsScarlet to "Crazy things other woman said"

That xWS was the first guy who made her consider "putting a ring on it." For fuck's sake, who says that to a married man?

My response:
"Girly! You got it all wrong!!! Skank was talking about a cock ring!"

[This message edited by Exit Wounds at 10:10 AM, April 13th (Friday)]


Posts: 2486 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...and my dog...
Griefstricken25
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, April 15th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When you're 22 you fart fairy dust and rays of loving light blast out your twat when you spread your legs. You can bring on world peace and heal the broken heart of a man who's evil wife has done him wrong by the sheer virture of you being 22-years old.

Nature_Girl, in a thread about what on earth a girl that young would even want with a old married guy.


Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011

Posts: 2521 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: A better place
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 6:05 AM, April 21st (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Online dating should be considered a sport

Persevere


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13756 | Registered: Jul 2011
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, April 21st (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You cannot fix a marriage by yourself. It's like trying to paint a house while it's on fire.

-stilllovinghim


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, April 24th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Basically, we are not the same people we were before our spouses put our souls into a blender and pressed the smoothie button.

LonelyHusband, talking about changes in our personalities after infidelity.


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5164 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
better4me
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Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, April 24th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've come a long way over The Bridge of Giving A Shit.

StoryHour in a thread about how much you now know about the XWS Affairs


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3156 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, April 25th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Smokenfire in a thread about never knowing the details of the A

I think sometimes it's just better to go wow, that's a big pile of cat yak - yea, I'm not tearing that apart anymore because the whole thing is just really gross.


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17638 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
better4me
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, April 28th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would no more want to date him than I would have a dead rat in my mouth
CatWoman on NB thread about an "interesting" date


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3156 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, May 3rd (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you actually have the word "WELCOME" printed on your back?

ReBreather on an R thread to a poster talking about the interactions with and actions of his fWW (who seems to be unremorseful)


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, May 11th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There aren't exactly tons of well rounded supermodels who are dying to go out with a bald overweight poorly dressed below middle management 50 year old bejowled guy with bad teeth driving a car completely covered with dents who pays alimony and child support.
whyohwhyohwhy explaining how her WS's life has hardly improved after the D.
Wolf


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SerJR on the perrenial question, "Who was NYJerry?"

Before NYJerry, our administrator was known just as Moderately Startled...


“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

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Threnody
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, May 17th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On the topic of g2gs, jjct reminisced:

You never know. At one of them, I met some gal that was in town for a sex conference, not an SI'er, she was the keynote speaker and shared her research with me. She went on about how she discovered that native americans were the best in the sack, and jews were better romantic lovers...she finally asked my name. I told her

Tonto Rubenstein.

I just lost a mouthful of coffee down my blouse and can't stop laughing.


“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, May 18th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

infidelity has set me free in some ways. the pressure of living up to the image i had of a successful marriage, family, children, etc was relieved when XH sucked the wind out of it all. so i've ruled that out, along with the expectations i had of myself to fulfill my part and succeed at it...now on to my real life!

stretch13 on a NB topic about the constant worrying that goes on, and how worrying and trying to find all the right answers can't guarantee anything.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, May 19th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NO WAY can legitimate, marriage based sex be as thrilling as affair sex... no thrill of being caught, the intrigue of the story, It's like a spy movie for your crotch with lots of danger and explosions. It makes you want to be an imaginary, different person who can dodge bullets and has lasers hidden in your shoes.

polar in General "Topic: Do you still value your WS's opinion?"

[This message edited by Take2 at 2:32 PM, May 19th (Saturday)]


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4113 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, May 21st (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In ground pools are the only way to go.

With the above ground pools, the sharks with laser beams can cut through the perimeter and escape.

It's not like then can get very far after that, but I imagine it would be awfully embarassing when you're planning to toss your arch-nemisis in and you pull around back and see a bunch of idiot fish flopping around in the back yard...

You can't cut corners when you have an image to maintain...

SerJR explaining the benefits of in ground pools to DS.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, May 21st (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From a thread in General. By wincing at light:

You've fuck my spouse, you've signed up for a lifetime subscription of "I'm fucking with you whenever I feel like it because you're a douchebag" magazine.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8031 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
neverendinghurt
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Default  Posted: 2:14 AM, May 25th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You really are pushing me to drink my dinner, aren't you?

DS red flagging a post in general


The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another; and his humblest hour is when he compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it.
James M. Barrie

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, May 26th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Setting aside the idea that there is some ambiguous demarcation point for transformative introspection tethered to an unspecified number relating to middle age that is both more significant and different from identity questions at any other point in life - which is a lot to set aside imo - that the author states "this literally becomes a magical process" and you should release judgment because nobody is at fault and it had to happen because Birthday 47 struck like a serpent and in the end, after shouldering the blame of your shitty situation before the MLC affair there can be a happy ending inspires my belief that the author is either 14 years old, or a unicorn.

StillGoing giving a spot-on opinion about the writer of an asinine article about MLC As in General.


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-Hayley Williams


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Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, May 27th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

aesir in MrsConsistency's thread 'WSs talk me down: waht can he expect':

I had to learn to abandon the quest for a better past.

Don't we all, brother, don't we all....


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10166 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
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Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, May 28th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

His words are Zimbabwean dollars... highly inflated, bad market value, controlled by a narcissist wing nut.

Squiggle, arguing for a postnup.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

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